Reply #16: That's what I did [View All]

[seemunkee]

When I was 16 I lost my father from a prolonged illness that left him in a coma for several weeks, three weeks later my grandfather(his father) died, 2 weeks later a friend of mine was killed while bicycling. I just kind of shut down, broke up with my girlfriend and spent as much time as possible climbing alone. It affected me for a long time and in some ways still does today.

I hope your friend is taking care of herself, she probably doesn't see it as a very high priority though.