Okay DU ladies, need your advice . . . [View All]

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I'm not going to tell a whole story, just a sequence of events, I just want to know what my next step should be (if any).

1. Meet female, at time I meet her, she's seeing someone else, but still I find her . . shall we say . . . interesting.
2. A while later (as in months), her situation changes (unbeknownst to me) and we start talking more.
3. We go to lunch once or twice, between which times I make myself available for helping her with computer issues, etc.
4. She's always friendly, we get along very well, are constantly laughing, etc.
5. During this whole period of time, we're trading e-mails frequently (usually pertaining to politics or work), and rarely does more than a few hours go by without a response.
6. After a few weeks of this, and never having a day without some kind of correspondence or contact, all of a sudden, nothing. No calls, e-mails, nothing. This is very unusual for her. I know she was at work today (same company, different departments, different buildings even).

Now, I don't really have any ulterior motives in this friendship, I'm just curious to see how it progresses (and I'm fine with whatever way it goes), but to just cease communication just seems very unusual.

This may seem weird to be worried after just one day without communication, but like I say, it's very unusual in comparison to the way things have been.

So, what should I do? I e-mailed her last night, and never received a response, although I know she's been able to send one, or call me, or whatever. Should I follow-up and see what's up (or would that make me look like a loser)? Should I just blow it off and wait for her to get in touch with me or what?

I'm no good at this type of thing, but it just bugs me when people do stuff like this.

Okay, give me ideas ladies :P