Reply #13: oh so true, so true [View All]

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From someone who prefers to be alone as well, you are so right, in my eyes at least.
As soon as I started not to worry so much anymore about how other people saw me, I realised how unimportant their views were for me and my life. You have got only this one life and you have to make the best out of it. I became more confident because I didn't give much shit anymore about what other people think about how I do live my life. I just didn't care anymore because I am who I am and I can hardly change it.
You just have to be who you are, otherwise you will never fully accept yourself and neither will the right people who you like accept you when you pretend to be something else.


"because I wasn't relying on others to justify my existence"

And that feels damn good, doesn't it. I went through that as well.