Reply #28: I know it is hard. I guess I am not asking you all to stand back and [View All]

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have no feeling. I am asking you to grieve the loss of your country. The way things used to be. To cry and pass through all the stages. So that you can hit that higher plan.

Getting through grief just means that you have accepted the loss. So you are free to laugh at your situation (which is healthy) and to be angry.. but do it from a position of more strength (what doesn't kill you makes you stronger).

Tis very sad. And emotionally exhausting to loose out and have your life attacked. I know about that. You don't have to be dispassionate at all. You just become a little more discerning about the battles you invest in. You pace yourself.

I have not bad experience of D&Ds. My note to them was just that I did read somewhere that CIA operatives are taught to pass lie detector tests by role playing.. and D&D automatically popped into my mind. Did not mean to offend.