Reply #45: i think it is much more comfortable for a man or .... boy to think women dont cheat, dont want to [View All]

[seabeyond]

cheat, have no desire to cheat and a man has just gotta so ought not be held to any kind of expectation.

i also think there would be as many men that would prefer to live in a monogomous relationship not wanting their woman to cheat, as women. i am not hearing a lot fo men suggesting their wives go out and play. big thumbs up to outside sex.

so though you think it is an imposition to be monogomous, in the glorious u.s., you dont have to be monogomous. no judgment held. your right to live as you chose

i would hope, though, that you would be reasonable enough to allow others to live in a monogomous relationship as they chose witouth scorn from someone who does not believe in it.

rate of divorce, .... first marriage 41%. second marriages up over 60%. and third marriages even a higher divorce rate. i dont know that i would argue since you didnt put any numbers down. there are many reasons that people divorce and cheating is NOT the number one reason