Reply #11: Yes, I can. After 15 years of watching a nice guy turn himself [View All]

[Warpy]

into an alccoholic, I'd had enough and walked. The one thing I knew for certain is that I never wanted to be married again, not ever. I don't give a rip if Prince Charming comes along. He can visit once in a while and I'll enjoy his company, but he's gonna go home and pick his own wet towels off the bathroom floor.

My mother noticed my lack of interest in men and dating and asked me if I were a lesbian. It would have been a perfect Hallmark moment, but alas, I'm not.

My ex must've had a much better time being married because he's on #4 now.

In know women who are divorced, widowed, and never married who are happy being alone and not looking for a mate. It's not as rare as you've been made to feel. You have a lot of company out here in Singleladyland.