Reply #10: all of this is excellent advice--tell her to clean out ALL the accounts [View All]

[niyad]

IMMEDIATELY and to put them in her own name in another bank, tell her to stay put, and above all, to get an attorney. he is planning something nasty, I can almost guarantee you. probably has been having an affair, too. she might also want to have the phone number of the domestic violence center handy.

I can only begin to imagine how stressful this is for you, feeling a bit helpless. but with the right advice and counsel, she can get through this.

question--if the car was purchased with joint funds, why on EARTH is it in his name only? my guess is that if there has not been actual physical abuse, there has been a great deal of psychological abuse and undermining going on. in a state not as f***** up as SC, she might just want to call the dispatch desk at the police department, and ask them exactly when she could call in an abusive situation.
good luck, and please keep us informed.