Reply #13: Ask everyone you know if they know anyone. [View All]

[lurky]

That's always the best, because if the person is part of your social network, then they have a big incentive not to screw you over. (Because all their friends will find out what a jerk they are).

If that doesn't work out, most universities have an off-campus housing office where you can list your room for rent. Graduate and professional students usually make good roommates because they tend to be quiet and responsible. Undergrads, on the other hand, I would be nervous about.

If that doesn't work out, there is always Craig's List. I would make sure to get a couple personal references, call their job to make sure they actually work there (and find out how long they have been there), and if possible talk to their last roommate to find out how long they lived there, why they are leaving, etc.

Above all, you need to be clear and specific with yourself and with them about what you want and expect in a roommate. Do you plan on hanging out and being friends, or will it be more of a cordial business arrangement? How do you plan on dealing with chores, sharing the kitchen and bathroom, overnight guests, etc? Do they have a gf or bf who will be spending a lot of time there?

Oh, and I would write up a simple agreement of how much rent they will pay, how much notice they need to give, how much of a deposit they need to put down, and so on. Having some kind of signed document could be helpful.

Good luck!