This from WPost:
The twin jolts of misery have left many in this town, normally a bedrock of support for the war like so many other military communities, feeling jittery and increasingly impatient with a conflict that shows no signs of ending.
"My eye is twitching all the time -- stress," said Brianne Strandberg, 19, a hotel desk clerk whose husband, Pfc. Harley Strandberg, has been in Iraq since February. "After all the helicopter things, I want to tell him to bury himself in the sand and not move."
She also wants to tell him something else: "Okay, it's time to come home now."
Strandberg is new to military life; her husband shipped out for Iraq in February, one month after they were married, leaving her alone in an unfamiliar town. But the other women around her, many toughened by years of seeing off their husbands for long deployments, are saying essentially the same thing: They support the troops. They believe in the cause. But enough is enough.
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"I'm frustrated. . . . It's very scary," said Pam Millard, 29. "We understand why they're over there and what they're doing. But we want our guys home."
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A49578-2003Nov16.html