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BigDaddy44 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:23 PM Original message |
Do whites need training before parenting black children? |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:25 PM Response to Original message |
1. They're fucking PEOPLE for fuck's sake. |
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Dr. Strange (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:28 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. It's not just white folks: |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:35 PM Response to Reply #3 |
9. No it's not, but the NABSW's point is completely different... |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:47 PM Response to Reply #1 |
19. I don't think that's the issue exactly. |
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Doityourself (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:54 PM Response to Reply #19 |
22. Great Post. |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 03:04 PM Response to Reply #19 |
28. I will amend on one thing... |
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Doityourself (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 03:48 PM Response to Reply #28 |
39. No, they're not martians..they can be little devils though..like all kids of all colors.. |
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patrick t. cakes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-28-08 07:31 AM Response to Reply #28 |
63. as the father of an eight year old |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 03:04 PM Response to Reply #1 |
26. Actually, this is the black folks thinking white folks are the Martians, |
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notadmblnd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 04:36 PM Response to Reply #26 |
44. As a woman who married a black man (till death we did part) and had his |
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tidy_bowl (249 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-28-08 08:35 AM Response to Reply #44 |
66. Thank you.... |
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happydreams (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 04:58 PM Response to Reply #1 |
47. FYI: A sweeping generalization that prejudges white people. |
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Born Free (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 06:40 PM Response to Reply #1 |
48. deleted |
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Ecumenist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-28-08 01:57 AM Response to Reply #1 |
62. Thank you, oh thank you Bloo!! |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-28-08 03:34 PM Response to Reply #62 |
69. :) |
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ccharles000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:26 PM Response to Original message |
2. If the child is raised in a loving house I don't think race would matter. |
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Fresh_Start (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:30 PM Response to Original message |
4. Personally I've seen lots of people that need parenting classes |
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tctctctc (53 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:32 PM Response to Original message |
5. WTF has happened to common sense? Hello? |
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sinkingfeeling (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:33 PM Response to Original message |
6. If it's a little girl, then yes. I've had to go up to complete strangers and ask them what hair |
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Doityourself (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:36 PM Response to Reply #6 |
10. I had an employee that adopted a biracial child and she asked me the same thing..what products to |
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sinkingfeeling (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 03:05 PM Response to Reply #10 |
29. I met a lovely woman the last time and she spent about a half hour helping me select |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:34 PM Response to Original message |
7. suggested training: |
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Goblinmonger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:34 PM Response to Original message |
8. OK, I'll probably get bashed for this, but here goes |
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Doityourself (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:39 PM Response to Reply #8 |
11. I think a child that is considered a minority in the dominant culture should be exposed to their |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:42 PM Response to Reply #8 |
12. Um, I'm not certain, but I'm pretty sure that being black isn't the same as being in hell. |
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Doityourself (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:45 PM Response to Reply #12 |
13. Depends on which black person you ask...lol |
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Goblinmonger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:45 PM Response to Reply #12 |
15. No, really? |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:46 PM Response to Reply #15 |
16. Yes, really. |
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Goblinmonger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:47 PM Response to Reply #16 |
18. Good to know that we have true racial equality in the US |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:55 PM Response to Reply #18 |
23. You sound like a 2-dimensional thinker in a 3-dimensional world... |
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Goblinmonger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 03:06 PM Response to Reply #23 |
31. Please point to me where I said they couldn't be happy. |
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CJCRANE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 03:13 PM Response to Reply #31 |
33. I think that's a good point. |
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CJCRANE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:45 PM Response to Original message |
14. Training - no, information - yes nt |
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Goblinmonger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:46 PM Response to Reply #14 |
17. interesting distinction |
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CJCRANE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:57 PM Original message |
Kids are kids... |
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kiranon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 03:19 PM Response to Original message |
37. Agree. Adoptive mom of two children. |
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Freddie Stubbs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:49 PM Response to Original message |
20. I think that ALL parents need training before parenting ANY children |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 03:06 PM Response to Reply #20 |
30. What Freddie said! |
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mainegreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:53 PM Response to Original message |
21. As opposed to what? Keeping them in foster care? |
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Doityourself (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:55 PM Response to Reply #21 |
24. I don't think anyone is saying it's about race..and not being able to adopt because of it n/t |
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mainegreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 02:57 PM Response to Reply #24 |
25. As long as it doesn't keep kids in faster care any longer than otherwise would be. |
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Mojorabbit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 03:12 PM Response to Reply #24 |
32. I could not adopt |
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Doityourself (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 03:50 PM Response to Reply #32 |
40. Well, that sucks! Glad, we've made progress on this issue.. |
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noonwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 03:04 PM Response to Original message |
27. No-as someone who works in the FC system, that's not necessary |
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Indenturedebtor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 03:24 PM Response to Reply #27 |
38. And besides, this comes down to an issue of what matters more - race/culture |
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AlphaCentauri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 03:13 PM Response to Original message |
34. There is something wrong viewing and mixing color and culture |
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Igel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 09:19 PM Response to Reply #34 |
52. People, even highly educated people, often make that mistake. |
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AlphaCentauri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-28-08 09:38 AM Response to Reply #52 |
67. if taken too far it can lead to segregation |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 10:10 PM Response to Reply #34 |
56. african american because of their shared history in this country have a culture |
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AlphaCentauri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-28-08 09:45 AM Response to Reply #56 |
68. Not just African Americans, Mexican Americans, Cuban Americans, Italians Americans |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 03:14 PM Response to Original message |
35. Oh boy |
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onehandle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 03:15 PM Response to Original message |
36. Everyone needs parenting skills taught to them period. |
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tritsofme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 10:09 PM Response to Reply #36 |
55. Who is going to teach them? George Bush's government? |
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onehandle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 11:04 PM Response to Reply #55 |
58. That government is just about over. |
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tritsofme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 11:08 PM Response to Reply #58 |
59. Say three Hail Marys and throw salt over your shoulder. |
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CubicleGuy (271 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 04:21 PM Response to Original message |
41. What's good for the goose... |
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oedura (347 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 04:23 PM Response to Original message |
42. More people need to be trained not to have children in the first place... |
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orleans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 04:24 PM Response to Original message |
43. i remember this issue being talked about YEARS ago |
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Dr. Strange (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 04:39 PM Response to Reply #43 |
45. Here's a position statement from 1972. |
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orleans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 04:50 PM Response to Reply #45 |
46. i remember, as a young teen, wondering how i would feel |
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deadmessengers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 07:51 PM Response to Original message |
49. Oh, this is such crap. |
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Psephos (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 08:51 PM Response to Reply #49 |
51. Great dissection of how this erects barriers to adoption |
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fed_up_mother (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 10:03 PM Response to Reply #49 |
53. "imported Chinese vanity babies" WTF? |
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ulysses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-28-08 03:44 PM Response to Reply #49 |
70. interesting point. |
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Fire_Medic_Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 08:38 PM Response to Original message |
50. They lose foster kids for years only to find them dead. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 10:08 PM Response to Original message |
54. when you pretend to be color blind all you are really doing is accepting the normative and |
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fed_up_mother (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 10:14 PM Response to Original message |
57. I agree with better training of parents for transracial or cross cultural adoption |
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bitchkitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 11:23 PM Response to Original message |
60. No, not training - but |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-28-08 12:09 AM Response to Original message |
61. most important is the kids go to a good home |
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eilen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-28-08 07:39 AM Response to Original message |
64. That is ludicrous |
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tidy_bowl (249 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-28-08 08:31 AM Response to Original message |
65. To even suggest such a thing to me.... |
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