Many Europeans see gay marriage as a basic human right. A majority of Americans say it violates God's will. What accounts for this deep divide? Can it ever be reconciled?
When I got married my 15 year old cousin was thrilled. She'd already been to three weddings, she said, but mine would be her first straight one. Her response, admittedly, was extreme, but Berkeley, California where she grew up has always been a tad loopier than the rest of the world. For many Europeans, America is also becoming such an anomaly -- but for opposite reasons.
While much of Western Europe is embracing homosexual unions or even marriage in some cases, the majority of Americans stolidly reject them. That became clear in last week's election, when all 11 states with ballot initiatives on same sex marriages voted them down. Eight states voted to cut the rights of people -- gay or straight -- who are in civil unions and domestic partnerships. At risk, voters insist, are core American values: the role of family, the education of children, even the choice to live a sinful or moral life.
In much of Northern Europe and even parts of Southern Europe, such mixing of the political with the deeply personal would be unthinkable for many. This cultural stiffness (remember in Europe it often takes people who work together years to call each other by their first names) also influences the reasoning behind Europe's arguments in defense of homosexual marriage.
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