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GiovanniC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:43 PM
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Would You Date a Republican?
I know most of us here are pretty die-hard political and die-hard Democrat. But I know that many people here have some friends who are kinda right of center.

The question is, would you ever DATE someone who was a Republican, even if you liked pretty much everything about them?

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catzies Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:44 PM
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1. Never
again
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Kimble Donating Member (377 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 04:49 PM
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90. Free Advice!
Edited on Thu Jun-10-04 04:57 PM by Kimble
Folks, if you meet someone for the first time at a party, bar, friends house etc, and you bring up any of the of facets of politics within the few couple of dates. Take me advice for your own sake please: Give your PC, TV, radio and newspaper subscription to a poor child who can use it for school and learning and don’t buy anymore until you are happy with the relationship aspect of your life. If you are happy alone disregard this advice. I wouldn’t want to screw things up for you.
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LoverOfLiberty Donating Member (625 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:45 PM
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2. Hell NO!
Edited on Wed Jun-09-04 09:45 PM by LoverOfLiberty
We would kill each other
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Walt Starr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:45 PM
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3. I refuse to even be friends with Republicans
Edited on Wed Jun-09-04 09:46 PM by Walt Starr
let alone date one.

Besides, if I dated a Republican, my wife would kill me.

:P
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Eloriel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:47 PM
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7. Egggsackly
Never happen.
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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:55 PM
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23. yep yep yep
You said it Walt!
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Fone Book Donating Member (141 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 10:40 PM
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114. i would if they were hot
n/t
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Fone Book Donating Member (141 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 10:41 PM
Response to Reply #114
115. i put that in the wrong spot
sorry!
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West Coast Democrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:46 PM
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I'm married, but no I wouldn't if I were single....
I like to talk about politics way too much. It would be one big argument.
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sendero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:46 PM
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4. Not a chance..
... it would indicate a character defect that would preclude any chance of an intimate relationship :)
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Loreths Donating Member (81 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:48 PM
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9. HA
My girlfriend is pretty left of center, and we still get in political arguments. Dating a republican would be fun, end up being a survivor episode.
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lyrical di Donating Member (181 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:47 PM
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5. No way in hell
I can barely tolerate the Democrat that I married.
Republicans choose the ticket to reflect their greed.
Who needs a greedy partner?
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KamaAina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:47 PM
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6. But of course
Application of the latest and most accurate carbon dating techniques to archaeological finds, even those as gruesome as those at the Crawford dig, is essential if we are ever to determine what brought these ponderous yet rapacious beasts to the top of the food chain in the first place.

:evilgrin:
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Solly Mack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:48 PM
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10. lol I was thinking along the same lines.
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HEyHEY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:47 PM
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8. Yeah - where is she?
Seriously though, I would - as long as they weren't crazy freeper type repubs.
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mitchum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:48 PM
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11. I would carbon date a republican
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MadChatter Donating Member (77 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:51 PM
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17. The idea makes my skin crawl.
Don't they only use the missionary position? LOL!
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XanaDUer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:07 PM
Response to Reply #11
41. Lol!
No, at this point in Life, I have decided Life is too short to date Republicans.
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newsguyatl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:49 PM
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12. absolutely not
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Fleshdancer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:49 PM
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13. Republican maybe. But NEVER a neocon
at the end of the day, it all depends on the individual person.
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Liberal Veteran Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:50 PM
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14. Being a gay man...
dating a republican would be akin to a Jewish person dating a nazi.

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Gildor Inglorion Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:13 PM
Response to Reply #14
46. I know what you mean, but...
what if he looked like Hayden Christensen? And promised never to mention politics?
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Liberal Veteran Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:19 PM
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51. Nope. Going over to the Dark Side of the Force means you...
....never get a date with me.

Period.

He'd just have to find some closeted self-loathing republican willing to date him.
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iamjoy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:50 PM
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15. Don't Know
Edited on Wed Jun-09-04 09:51 PM by iamjoy
I'm married. Not sure what I'd do if single.

But I have friends with different views, but they are generally make well reasoned arguements so we can just agree to disagree. I could not respect or be friends with some one who says they like Dubya 'cos he restored honor and decency to the White House.

And I will say this, if you are single, don't have sex with anyone who isn't pro-choice! If they don't support reproductive rights, they have no business having sex outside of marriage.
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luigi8888 Donating Member (13 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:50 PM
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16. You people are such fools sometimes...
Look, some of my best friends are Republicans. If a girl was attractive, intelligent, thoughtful, had good taste and a sense of humor, of COURSE I would date her. I would date a person of nearly ANY political persuation (aside from fascism or something) if they were a good person. A Republican is not a frothing, homophobic, undemocratic hateful monster with googly eyes and sixteen guns in their house. They're just average people who happen to hold several opinions on the world of politics which we obviously disagree with. Jeezus Christ you people, get a grip on reality. If J-Lo voted Bush, don't tell me you wouldn't date her in a SECOND.
-Max, Long Island.
P.S.: You know, there's even the possibility that some people's political affiliations can be changed over time. Reagan was a hardcore Democrat in his youth.
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West Coast Democrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:56 PM
Response to Reply #16
24. Maybe they're just average people, but they haven't got a clue....
that bugs me.
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Liberal Veteran Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:57 PM
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26. Why would I EVER date a person who belonged to a party....
...that wanted to relegate ME as a gay person to permanant legal second class citizenship.

There are some things that CANNOT be overlooked.
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Nimble_Idea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:58 PM
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28. PS: Reagan switched parties when the KKK switched parties.
Some people never switched and changed their ways (Byrd)
Some people never switched and still KKK (Zell Miller)

Go back to your best friend Repukes.


I would never date backward pukes. I believe in Evolution, dating a puke would reverse that.
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buff2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:00 PM
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32. No way I could ever lower myself to date a repuke if I was single.
"A Republican is a frothing, homophobic, undemocratic hateful monster with googly eyes and sixteen guns in their house."

Thanks...couldn't have said it better myself!
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West Coast Democrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:01 PM
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34. Why do you refer to us as "You People"
Who are "you people?"
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buff2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:09 PM
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42. I think he means us "Lefties"
His sig line is a quote from that horrible Fred Barnes from Faux. I think you can figure it out... ;)
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West Coast Democrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:18 PM
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49. Oh, I didn't know who Fred Barnes was. I don't follow Faux News.
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buff2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 03:00 PM
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61. I don't either........
after I found out what that channel and those gasbags on it was all about. :evilgrin:
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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:05 PM
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37. "intelligent, thoughtful, "
You just ruled them all out.
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pop goes the weasel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:10 PM
Response to Reply #16
44. only a fool
would date someone that they know they would be arguing with all the time, unless they just plain like to argue. I do have Republican friends, but in the sanctity of my own home, I don't want to have to be constantly tip-toing around subjects I have strong feelings about.
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Media_Lies_Daily Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 11:05 PM
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57. Sounds like you're thinking more with your "little head"....
...and where does your whopping total of 13 posts give you the right to lecture ANYONE on this board?

Yes, Reagan was a Democrat when he was young...but so were quite a few rightwingers that decided that the GOP was a better home for their particular brand of "politics".
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TankLV Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 11:21 PM
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60. "A Republican IS a frothing, homophobic, undemocratic hateful monster !"
Edited on Wed Jun-09-04 11:23 PM by TankLV
They are NOT "just average people".

They don't "hold several opinions on the world of politics which we obviously disagree with" - no, they HATE & DISPISE everyone who isn't exactly like them, and will STOP AT NOTHING TO MAKE SURE THEY ALWAYS WIN - by whatever meand possible!

You are simply deluded to think otherwise.

Haven't you been paying attention to all the wonderful, friendly statements all the repuke talking heads and congressmen have been saying?

Haven't you heard about how they don't even TRY to seek ANY Democratic imput? Or even allow them in the room when making decisions anymore?

And I wouldn't even date a rich Log Cabin repuke, either.

You might as well ask us if we'd date a NAZI - opps - they're quickly becomming indestinguishable now!
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IranianDemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 04:00 PM
Response to Reply #60
73. Wow have you even taken a step into the real world?
Because in the real world one is supposed to be judged by the content of their character, not by their party affiliation. One day if you find someone and you fall in love with them are you going to leave that person once you find out he or she is a republican???

What is all this "THEY" talk? Not all reoublicans think like Wolfowitz or jesse helms for God sakes.

Then you continue on with the immaturity and compare republicans to nazis...

take a step into the real world...
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smirkymonkey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 04:44 PM
Response to Reply #73
84. A republican is one (or a combination) of several things...
Greedy, Hateful, Bigoted, Pseudo-Religious, Stupid, Selfish and/or mind blowingly ignorant.

I don't date people who are Greedy, Hateful, Bigoted, Pseudo-Religious, Stupid, Selfish and/or mind blowingly ignorant. It's that simple.
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IranianDemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 07:46 PM
Response to Reply #84
107. Replace the world "republican" with "black" or "hispanic"
GET THE POINT???
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smirkymonkey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 10:25 PM
Response to Reply #107
110. No - there is no point.
Political affiliation is a choice.

And what the hell are you doing on here defending republicans anyway??
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Fone Book Donating Member (141 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 10:43 PM
Response to Reply #107
117. damn- he told you
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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-11-04 01:26 AM
Response to Reply #107
126. what a stupid fucking post
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TankLV Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 06:49 PM
Response to Reply #73
95. I have every right to compare them to NAZI's because that is the way they
act and talk.

I only base my observations on the record and that record speaks volumes - it is not just an opinion.

Do a little research and find out the truth.
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IranianDemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 07:45 PM
Response to Reply #95
106. Go out into the real world.
Interact, talk socialize, they're not all that bad as individuals.
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TankLV Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 10:10 PM
Response to Reply #106
109. I am and always have been.
I stand by my statements.

Every single fucking lot of 'em.

Brain dead.
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op6203 Donating Member (153 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 04:11 PM
Response to Reply #60
76. But wait!
Edited on Thu Jun-10-04 04:54 PM by op6203
"A Republican IS a frothing, homophobic, undemocratic hateful monster !"

They are NOT "just average people".

They don't "hold several opinions on the world of politics which we obviously disagree with" - no, they HATE & DISPISE everyone who isn't exactly like them...




Sounds like you "hate and dispise" a group of people that are unlike you - does that mean you're one, too? LOL! :crazy:

OP

PS - I'm just messin' around.
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bhunt70 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 03:44 PM
Response to Reply #16
68. right on.
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Zinfandel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 03:55 PM
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69. Not a fucking chance...I'd only bang her!!!
Edited on Thu Jun-10-04 04:18 PM by Zinfandel
IF the republican woman was "attractive, intelligent, thoughtful, had good taste and a sense of humor" I'd Fuck her every which way just like the republicans do to the country, liberals & progressives, and then tell her to fuck off!!! And she would be lucky to get my great and wonderful liberal self banging her even once.

Republicans are pigs and liars and disgusting and that's just how I would treat her (or any republican man for that matter, Moderates are a close second in my book).

I have NO sympathy for lying, ignorant, cold-hearted greedy, racist, homophobic Republicans!!!

As if I give a shit what they (or you) think!!!!


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Kipepeo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 03:58 PM
Response to Reply #16
72. It's not just a differing opinion
on some things. Politics is everything. It's how you look at the world, the things you think are important, and the methods you support for changing the world (and the changes you want to see).

I can't maintain friendships with Republicans, so dating one would be out of the question. There is only so much of me and my time to go around. I can't waste it on assholes.

Family members are a different story completely, because I love my Republican family, assholes that they are. But I didn't get to pick them. :)
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Somawas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:52 PM
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18. As I am a person of the male persuasion
I will state that I have always had my doubts as to whether Republican women were ever capable of anything other than a quick and duitful hump in the missionary position, in the dark, every other week, for purposes of procreation only and whether he needs it or not.

So, uh, no.
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GiovanniC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:56 PM
Response to Reply #18
25. Actually, Depends on the Republican
Some of the Republicans I've known have been freaks. But in a good way.

:evilgrin:
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GiovanniC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:52 PM
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19. Personally, I Don't Get the Carville/Matalin Thing
But I'm dating a Republican currently, which is kinda what inspired me to ask, and she's like a Jim Jeffords Republican... I wouldn't be surprised to see her cross the aisle.

But even if she doesn't, her views aren't too extreme for me. She's pro-choice. Pro-gay rights. Anti-Bush. If it were any other way, I wouldn't be able to date her. I disagree with her on some tax issues and she's a little isolationist, but in general not bad for a Republican.

Now how James puts up with Mary... can someone please explain that? I'd have strangled her three ways to Sunday by now.

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BlueStateGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:58 PM
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29. She sounds like a Democrat to me:)
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GiovanniC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:00 PM
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31. I Think She Will Be
When I get done with her.

But she does have some opinions I disagree with; some Republican ideas I just can't go along with. But on most of the issues most important to me, she is more liberal than conservative.

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BlueStateGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:09 PM
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43. Sounds like my guy. He's socially Liberal. He's a fiscal
Republican. We disagree on a lot of fiscal matters, but on the things that matter most to me .. we agree more then we disagree.

He's even been backing off his War support. He's coming around.
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Bhaisahab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-11-04 01:52 AM
Response to Reply #43
128. keep piling on that charm of yours...
... by november you'll have arranged for one vote in favor of kerry :)
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doni_georgia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 07:23 PM
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102. James and Mary
<<<Now how James puts up with Mary... can someone please explain that? I'd have strangled her three ways to Sunday by now.>>>

That's a question I ask every time I see them on TV. I figure either they both just LOVE to argue, or politics is forbidden topic at the dinner table and in the bedroom, or Mary is just playing a character on TV and really doesn't believe all of what she says on TV (or maybe James is playing a role, but I doubt it seriously).
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neebob Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:53 PM
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20. No
Did I mention the psychopathic con man from the internet who nearly ruined me four years ago was also a freeper? Ugh! Did I ever learn my lesson. I don't think I'll ever date anyone again, but if I do it will not be someone who doesn't share my politics.
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senseandsensibility Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:53 PM
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21. No.
I was apolitical when I married my husband. I fell in love with the same qualities that make him a liberal, although I didn't recognize them as such: the concern and affinity for all kinds of underdogs, the innate sense of fairness, the lack of sexism and racism, and his rejection of materialism. These qualities make him a wonderful person to be around, and they would not be present in a Republican.
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Moonbeam_Starlight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-11-04 01:25 AM
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125. Yep same here
I fell in love with my husband for the same things. He was raised a liberal, but ironically his parents have become all out freepville in their old age!

Still my husband just becomes more and more liberal with each passing year. I love that man.

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Feanorcurufinwe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:54 PM
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22. No.
It is possible in the abstract to imagine doing so, but real-world experience indicates that the answer is an unambigious NO.


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wicket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:58 PM
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27. I have before
...back in 2000, but at least he was a McCain supporter :D
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LearnedHand Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 09:59 PM
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30. No. Never. Last person on earth, etc.
I'm not closing doors or burning bridges, but I'd hate to begin with a person with whom I'd have to struggle to find common ground.
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tom_paine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:01 PM
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33. Unlikely. But if she wasn't a Bushevik and instead had integrity
I might consider it.

She'd better have a big set of (COMMENT REDACTED), though.

:evilgrin:
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GiovanniC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:03 PM
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35. She Does
Wait... what?

I mean, whatever do you mean, tom_paine?

O8)
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West Coast Democrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:04 PM
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36. A really nasty Republican wanted to date me when I was in college
He went on to take over the run of Karl Rove's political consulting business when Karl moved to DC. God, if I had actually hooked up with this guy I would have trouble living with myself to this day. Eewww!!!
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BlueStateGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:05 PM
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38. Yes.. As long as he wasn't of the Bible thumping, neocon
variety.

I am very attracted to a Republican right now. He's smart, articulate, passionate and sexy as Hell. He's Pro choice, and not a homophobe or a bigot. And he's not a whacked out religious freeping nut job. He's a small government, anti tax conservative.

I enjoy our vigorous political debates.
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Hippo_Tron Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:06 PM
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39. Absolutely, I don't judge people by their politcal beliefs
I get into political arguments with my friends all the time, then afterwards we all go for a beer. Besides, if James Carville can get married to Dick Chenney's former political advisor, then I can sure as hell date a Republican.
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rinsd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 04:17 PM
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78. I hear ya....
Politics amongst friends in a not an end game. One can have a heated discussion, take a step back and still remain friends.
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jakefrep Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:07 PM
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40. It depends on the type of republican...
If she were merely a pre-Newt Gingrich, pre-hijacking by religious nutcases, unrepentant capitalist Republican, I would consider it.

If she were a neocon, Ashcroftite, Repuke, no way in Hell.
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Mr. McD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:11 PM
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45. My first wife was Republican
Actually we were both young and apolitical when we got married. As time went by the differences became apparent. :shrug: Who Knew?
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formernaderite Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 11:11 PM
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58. My wife was a republican....now she's a Libertarian...
we hardly fight..since we both have far from centrist views, and neither of us supports the current administration.
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Seeking Serenity Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:15 PM
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47. Not anymore
Edited on Wed Jun-09-04 10:17 PM by muddleofpudd
I married one.

He was fairly libertarian when we married, very big on personal freedom and autonomy. Still is. Opposes the drug war, and is having second thoughts on the death penalty. He just votes Republican because the Libertarians are so nutty and fringey. He never met a tax cut he didn't like as long as we have one coming.

We don't talk politics much, he generally stays respectfully silent when I go on about my liberal views, and I go read a book or come here when he watches O'Reilly (with whom he disagrees as often as he agrees). We do watch The McLaughlin Group together and he doesn't mind when I cheer Eleanor Clift on.

I love him dearly. So he's a Republican? The worst thing about it is that he cancels out my votes (but then I cancel out his, so there).

:shrug:
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evil_orange_cat Donating Member (910 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:17 PM
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48. it depends how hot she is
Edited on Wed Jun-09-04 10:18 PM by evil_orange_cat
and if she can handle my liberalism :)
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OpSomBlood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:19 PM
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50. Dated one and converted her.
n/t
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One Taste Donating Member (636 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:20 PM
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52. Of course..
sheesh you guys take this stuff too seriously.


Plus, you could convert them once you start dating them.:)
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shance Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:57 PM
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55. There ya go....
now were talking

:)
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:41 PM
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53. i married a republican
so yes...............and he is wOnderFuLL.

he isnt voting for bush this year, and has supported and allowed me to be retarded these last 6 years, that is including the impeachment time
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takebackourjobs Donating Member (49 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 03:02 PM
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62. Only for sex
I damn sure couldn't have a serious conversation with one.
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topherX Donating Member (50 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 04:09 PM
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75. I married a wonderful woman
who happens to be republican/libertarian. We rarely talk politics. Fortunately there are many other fascinating subjects to talk about.

If I were to ever marry again, I would consider politics and religion more heavily in my decision.
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TheWizardOfMudd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:53 PM
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54. Not if they thought Bush was a good president
No fucking way.
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Only Me Donating Member (631 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 10:59 PM
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56. NO. I honestly think there mentally made different or something....
I dated a couple when I was younger and their attitudes were rather...like Bush. Arrogant. Honestly, the differences were just
to marked. I am married now. But if I were in the dating market it would be a Democrat or an Independant only.

To me, my parties values are also pretty much my personal values and they strongly differ from the beliefs of the Republican party.
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TankLV Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-09-04 11:14 PM
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59. If I was single, I'd only approach him if he was extremely cute.
Then I'd "use" the hell out of him and dump him.

I could NEVER have a relationship, friend or otherwise, with a repuke.

I have gotten rid of plenty of awful headaches that way!

And I have a HUGE circle of close friends and family.
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eleny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 03:06 PM
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63. My husband would be so pissed
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cmf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 03:07 PM
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64. No way
I'm married to a wonderful liberal guy, so I'm answering this hypothetically.

If it was just casual dating, then maybe, but most likely not since politics is my favorite thing to talk about and I wouldn't want to be arguing all of the time. If I was looking to get married, no way in hell. I'm not prejudiced against Republicans. I have a couple Republican friends, but sometimes I cannot stand to be around them. They say some really fucked up shit sometimes. I just cannot imagine being married to someone so with ideals so incompatible with mine.
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otohara Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 03:32 PM
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65. When I Was Dating - Many Moons Ago - Never
would I have dated someone who supported Reagan, Bush - Nixon. Told the first husband if he voted for Nixon, I would divorce him, I was only 20 years old.
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bhunt70 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 03:41 PM
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66. sure I would.
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LuminousX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 03:43 PM
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67. Hell Yeah
Some of us dare not be picky.
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buddhamama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 03:57 PM
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70. no.
i could never be with a repub long term.
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 03:58 PM
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71. No, No Way, No How, Never... Uh Uh...
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Darkseid69 Donating Member (285 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 04:05 PM
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74. Sure
If the sex was great.


relationship... have to think about that
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rinsd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 04:15 PM
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77. Why not?
For people's lives to be totally controlled by their party affiliation is just plain crazy. Girlfirends, friends, business associates, bar buddies; knowing and interacting with these people doesn't involve politics for the most part. And the few times it does I get to hear a different perspective or get shocked when agreed with. It's great.

For those who feel they can only associate with people that think like they do, well I think you're missing out on alot.

I've dated across the spectrum, I just need a Libertarian and Nautral Law party member to complete my collection ;-)
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Commendatori Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 04:18 PM
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79. Yep - politics is low on my list of priorities in a woman.
If she were a pushy Republican, I'd tire of her quickly - but if we didn't spend time trying to convice each other of our beliefs, it'd be fine.
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slinkerwink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 04:19 PM
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80. if the republican was pro-choice and for gays' rights, then yes
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stanwyck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 04:21 PM
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81. No, and neither will my
beautiful 20-yr. old daughter. Bless her.
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LiberalEconomist Donating Member (293 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 04:35 PM
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82. If by date you mean have sex with
then yes. Why? Because I have no friggin' morals when it comes to... ahem.
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Blue Gardener Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 04:37 PM
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83. I have in the past
And it's never turned out well. They seemed to all be looking for the little wifey that would cater to their every whim and never voice an opinion that didn't coincide with theirs. Ugh. I don't think I'll ever do that again. I'm getting better at spotting them now anyway, as soon as they open their mouths something stupid comes out.
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arwalden Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 04:47 PM
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85. Years Ago... I *WAS* The Republican... And It Caused A Lot Of Friction
that helped to contribute to the decay of the relationship.

Honestly... I don't think I could ever see myself dating a Republican though. Nor could I date a Christian or astrologer. It just wouldn't work.

-- Allen
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maveric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 04:47 PM
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86. I view repubs like I view someone who reads the National Enquirer.
I find them to be silly and not to be taken seriously.
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jeffrey_X Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 04:47 PM
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87. Never say never. My wife met me when I used to be a repug...
Thank God I met her and she woke me the fuck up. She had a hard task of deprogramming me from 30 years in white, small-town Indiana.

There is hope for everyone.
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SmokingJacket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 04:49 PM
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88. No. Hard enough to get along with people I agree with. n/t
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Independent_Minded Donating Member (38 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 04:49 PM
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89. Sure i would
its a bit silly IMHO, to govern your life by party affiliation.

Goals are what matter, ideas to achieve those goals come second.
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Liberal Classic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 04:51 PM
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91. Absolutely
There's more to life than ideology.
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Kimble Donating Member (377 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 04:55 PM
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92. I will say this again....
Folks, if you meet someone for the first time at a party, bar, friends house etc, and you bring up any of the of facets of politics within the few couple of dates. Take me advice for your own sake please: Give your PC, TV, radio and newspaper subscription to a poor child who can use it for school and learning and don’t buy anymore until you are happy with the relationship aspect of your life. If you are happy alone disregard this advice. I wouldn’t want to screw things up for you.
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smirkymonkey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 04:55 PM
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93. I recently went on a date with a guy who
worked for the National (gag) Review (I didn't know him that well, and was trying to be more open about dating). He wore a Young Republican's Button on his lapel, knowing full well that I am a liberal Democrat.

I made a great effort to be on my best behavior and to avoid political discussions, but this guy hammered me at every turn. We ended up in a verbal fist fight on the street - he kept twisting my words around to make me seem like an idiot, bashed Democratic candidates non-stop, and was generally a selfish, boorish clod.

I tried to be civil by saying: "Let's just agree to disagree, we aren't going to change each other's opinion" - numerous times to no avail. I am proud of the fact that I showed remarkable self restraint by not slugging him in the face.

That was our first and last date. Never Again.
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Kimble Donating Member (377 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 04:56 PM
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94. That guy should have read my advice. so ill post it again!
Edited on Thu Jun-10-04 04:57 PM by Kimble
Folks, if you meet someone for the first time at a party, bar, friends house etc, and you bring up any of the of facets of politics within the few couple of dates. Take me advice for your own sake please: Give your PC, TV, radio and newspaper subscription to a poor child who can use it for school and learning and don’t buy anymore until you are happy with the relationship aspect of your life. If you are happy alone disregard this advice. I wouldn’t want to screw things up for you.
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Jose Diablo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 07:11 PM
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96. I don't know
Is she rich?
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in_cog_ni_to Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 07:12 PM
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97. NO WAY!
I find repubs repulsive. I have no repub friends. Never have, never will. They represent everything I detest.
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doni_georgia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 07:15 PM
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98. I dated a republican VERY BRIEFLY in college - emphasis on VERY BRIEFLY
Edited on Thu Jun-10-04 07:16 PM by doni_georgia
He was cute, and actually smart - thought I could change him. Never date anyone thinking you can change them. This guy went into the Navy after finishing graduate school. It would be interesting to see if he is still a Republican.

edited for really bad spelling.
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Piperay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 07:17 PM
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99. Fuck NO!!!
They're liars and backstabbers and stupid to boot! I could never be with anyone I didn't respect and there is no way in hell I could ever respect someone that thinks the way repukes do. :puke: :puke: :puke:
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Catfight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 07:20 PM
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100. No way, first of all, a repug wouldn't stimulate my mind which wouldn't
stimulate my interest in them at all. I find them vapid and callow. I have a hard time understanding any of the people who rally behind dumbo, I can't imagine spending significant time with a person like that.
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kaitykaity Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 07:23 PM
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101. Yeah, I probably would.
I'm friends with a couple who are Republican, but now
they are ABB because he's IT and Bush killed the husband's
career path (her words).

Before the economy went bad, we just had to agree not
to discuss politics. Our friendship was more important.

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FightinNewDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 07:27 PM
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103. Well...

I met my wife at a Democratic National Convention :loveya:, so I guess that answers your question!
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kodi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 07:30 PM
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104. not if i knew her political affiliation beforehand
let's face it, too many republicans are creeps who dont think deeply or seriously about issues and who have a streak of meanness in them a mile wide.
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Gregorian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 07:32 PM
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105. Not a chance. No matter how beautiful the body.
Edited on Thu Jun-10-04 07:37 PM by Gregorian
In fact, I have never had so much as a single friend in my entire life who was a republican. Only college acquaintances. I just cannot tolerate it. I guess that makes me a purist.
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wyldwolf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 07:46 PM
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108. I have ... and it is a very interesting story!
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Fone Book Donating Member (141 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 10:48 PM
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118. well... whats the story?
n/t
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Autobot77 Donating Member (343 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 10:34 PM
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111. It depends....

She would have to be REALLY good looking (j/k) Seriously, I wouldn't mind unless she was a psycho freeper who thinks all liberals are scum type or a religious nut. If she wasn't I'd probably still date her.
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i_c_a_White_Ghost Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 10:35 PM
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112. Hell F**cking NO!
:puke:
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 10:38 PM
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113. I doubt it.
Too many ethical problems and differences with their core beliefs.
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progressivebydesign Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-10-04 10:41 PM
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116. No... but I can explain.
I would not date a republican knowingly.. At first, when you start to date, you haven't a clue about their leanings.. I've found that I didn't have enough in common, value-wise, to date a republican. ONE guy I dated and was quite smitten with.. well, I had no idea what his political affiliation was at the time. Years later, I ran into him.. and he was a raging republican. Wierd. I never knew!
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Zorra Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-11-04 12:53 AM
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119. No. I am the complete opposite of a republican.
I am a politically liberal, tolerant, independent, pacifistic, socially and environmentally conscious, nature loving, relatively intelligent and educated, vegetarian musician.

Dating a republican would be work and a boring waste of time.












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JayS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-11-04 01:00 AM
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120. Well, she would have to have a really wonderful pair...
...of..........nose. :)
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AlFrankenFan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-11-04 01:03 AM
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121. Only the one i have in mind at the moment n/t
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nothingshocksmeanymore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-11-04 01:05 AM
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122. I'd get in bed with them..bring them right to the brink of insanity and
pull out a registration card before finishing the task :D
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Moonbeam_Starlight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-11-04 01:19 AM
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123. Hell naw
I draw the line at FRIENDS who are Republican. And even at that it is getting hard to keep any respect for people who support this immoral war.

I am married, and if either of us woke up one day a freeper, it'd be grounds for divorce. Or at least separation until the other came to their frigging senses.

Oh and my best friend is VERY liberal and one of her first litmus tests before she'll go out with a guy are his socio-political point of views.

It is VERY important because I think it indicates your character.
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JVS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-11-04 01:20 AM
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124. Sure
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ThirdWheelLegend Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-11-04 01:29 AM
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127. No way...
Edited on Fri Jun-11-04 01:36 AM by ThirdWheelLegend
Look at my avatar, I wouldn't date half the centrist people on this board!

*rimshot!*

hehe sorry, had to say it :P

Anyway I could never date a repub, I loathe the current admin and its followers. The person could be seen as intelligent and interesting, but if they are duped enough to believe in an incompetent unelected frat boy asshole war criminal... do i need to go any further?

TWL
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Columbia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-11-04 02:12 AM
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129. If she was hot, why not?
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jmags Donating Member (517 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-11-04 02:27 AM
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130. I have many friends who are republican
Many family members who are Republican, and I still love and respect them all...just not their political orientations.

However, when it comes to dating, I think that requires an intimate understanding and common ground not required by friends or even family. For that reason, I don't think I could date a Republican. For her to be that, it would mean she is either:

A) Completely uninformed, in which case her ignorance and apathy would make her too unattractive to date

Or

B) She buys into what the Republicans are currently doing, in which case, I don't think I could date someone knowing that aspect of her character.

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ibegurpard Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-11-04 03:21 AM
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131. No
I could never see myself having a future with someone whose personal values were so different than mine that they could support the Republican Party.
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Vladimir Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-11-04 05:53 AM
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132. They wouldn't date me
my current girlfriend is pretty apolitical, but leftist on the issues she knows/cares about. But no Republican could put up with me ranting about politics 24/7 in my spare time.
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union_maid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-11-04 06:15 AM
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133. My dating days are long gone
I was married to a Republican once. Met him when I was still in high school and at a time when we weren't thinking quite the way we do now. As it turned out, the lack of shared values made it impossible to survive bad times and the marriage only lasted a few years. I've been married to a Democrat for 27 years this week and our shared worldview and personal value system has gotten us through all kinds of rough times. I have no problem with mixing it up, but in areas that matter to you, I think it's best to be with someone who's similar. That's why I don't get things like Matalin and Carville. The areas on which they disagree are so basic to what's right and wrong, I don't see how they can get along or respect each other.
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