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KingFlorez Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-16-05 12:46 PM
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My aunt and my grandmother are so anti-immigrant it's scary
My grandmother is usually pretty liberal on most issues and my aunt votes democrat and republican depending on the issue, but is usually tolerant. But when it comes to immigrants, they are not tolerant. My aunt was saying to my mom the other day that if she could have a homeless shelter for woman and children, she wouldn't let any Mexicans in and say if you can't speak english you can't come in and my grandmother agreed with that. My mom later was telling my grandma that kind of attitude was wrong, but she didn't change her mind.
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-16-05 12:47 PM
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1. Native Americans, are they?
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KingFlorez Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-16-05 12:52 PM
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4. African-American
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Rude Horner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-16-05 01:37 PM
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13. EXCELLENT response to people like that!
Edited on Tue Aug-16-05 01:37 PM by Rude Horner
"Native Americans, are they?"

I have in-laws who are big into the "if you wanna live in America, learn to speak English!" ideology.

I will remember your response the next time they say something.:applause:
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-16-05 01:49 PM
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16. :^) I wasn't the first to come up with that. In fact, I think I read it on
DU at some point.
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noahmijo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-16-05 12:49 PM
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2. I've noticed alot of older usually liberal thinking people are cons when
it comes to immigrants.

Well like I always tell people that are that vehemently anti-immigrant they should immediatly boycott all grocery stores and refuse to eat fruits and vegetables because it is a garuntee that all the ones sold in the states have been touched by illegal hands in one way or another.
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maxsolomon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-16-05 12:50 PM
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3. xenophobia is a natural human condition
Edited on Tue Aug-16-05 12:50 PM by maxsolomon
you have to confront it to overcome it.

and just today a poll of mexicans came out where 70 million said they'd immigrate to the states if they could. or something. it was on NPR. that ain't gonna help change attitudes.
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Kolesar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-16-05 12:53 PM
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5. The "homeless shelter" remark is pretty cold, but...
...having hundreds of thousands of people crossing our border every year without documentation is--how shall I say--dicey?
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KingFlorez Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-16-05 01:01 PM
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10. I agree that illegal immigration is a problem
But their comments are directed at Mexicans in general.
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Beaver Tail Donating Member (903 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-16-05 12:54 PM
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6. Can't speak english?
What happens if you are a mute?
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kath Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-16-05 12:57 PM
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7. Dean, on Face the Nation (or whatever) on Sunday, said that the Pug
noise machine is gearing up BIGTIME to demonize immigrants. Gay marriage was the big hate issue last time, and in 2006 it will be immigrants, sez Dean. (the transcript is available somewhere).

FWIW, contrary to what some here had to say, I thought Dean was AWESOME on that show...
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Kolesar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-16-05 01:42 PM
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14. The gops win both ways
The corporate types get to exploit the cheap labor for hotels & landscaping under the threat of deportation and the hateful types get someone to focus their viscious attacks against. They are leaving themselves open for problems. Pete Wilson and the California pukes attacked immigrants and it cost him the governorship and made the state even more blue. :popcorn:
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NewJeffCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-16-05 01:56 PM
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18. I still think it will be gay marriage
they'll just get it on the ballot in other swing states.
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Norquist Nemesis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-16-05 12:57 PM
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8. The "Mexicans" have replaced the Chinese and Irish
Not excusing it by any means what so ever. I'm just saying that it seems every generation has its ethnic/racial scapegoat.

Immigrants are what have helped to build this country and make it a great nation. It's the ILLEGAL activities that are hurting and causing risk...both from illegal immigrants AND those who illegally EMPLOY them without consequences.

I'll confess, though. When it comes to holdin the office of President, I'm a bigoted xenophobe.
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Stuckinthebush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-16-05 12:58 PM
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9. Here is one method to get them to think
When they say something like that, look at them coldly and say in a quiet voice, "That is one of the most evil things I have ever heard come from your mouth."

Then walk away.

That will get them thinking about what they just said.

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dchill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-16-05 01:04 PM
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11. BTDT
(Been there, done that) - All four of my grandparents were like that. They didn't understand that America is a nation of immigrants. Why should everyone speak English? It wasn't spoken here until those immigrants came here in the early 1600's. But that was different.
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Burma Jones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-16-05 01:08 PM
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12. I've just come back from a Costa Rican Vacation
I think there are more US citizens emigrating to Costa Rica than Costa Ricans coming here - seriously. CR has no army to terrorize its populace, it provides education and health care, it is absolutely beautiful, it is environmentally green. It is not the kind of place you would want to leave....

The point is, if you want to reduce immigration to the USA, make the rest of the world a more desirable place to live. Of course, as trends continue, the USA may be little better than Mexico (at least to potential immigrants) soon.....
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caligirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-16-05 01:49 PM
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15. The 2006 wedge issue ala Rove: immigrants are at fault. no matter
Repugs won't give up the cheap labor.
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ComerPerro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-16-05 01:54 PM
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17. Sick, isn't it? A lot of my family is pretty disgusting in that way
Its embarassing sometimes.

I'd like to see these people function in another country without any understand of the language, and with no one who is willing to help you.
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