I admit.... I use to think I could romance a Lesbian into a relationship.

[trumad]

I've know some wonderful Lesbian's in my time and many are still my friends. I've either met them at work or school and have gone out with them socially on many occasions.

I admit, in the past I thought ---that if I played my cards right that maybe it could go a little further than just friendship.

But here's the deal... I respect peoples life choices and I also respected the friendship I had with these women. I knew that if I came on to them in a sexual way that I would possibly jeopardize that friendship. So I never did and I think they appreciated that.

[Loonman]

1. Chasing Amy, huh?

:donut:

[MrBenchley]

2. Dear Penthouse....

I thought it would never happen to me....

[SpiralHawk]

3. If you never ask

the answer is always NO.

[Orrex]

8. But if you ask, only in your mind

Then the answer can be YES every time!

[SpiralHawk]

11. Well, I suppose. Whatever floats your boat.

eom

[Tace]

4. I've Been Attracted To Some Of My Lesbian Friends, Too

But, I know there's a darn good reason they've chosen to be lesbians, and it's because they get along better with women. It wouldn't work out anyway. It's tough enough for me to have a relationship with a hetero woman.

[trumad]

5. LOL

./...

[Texasgal]

10. Um...

Sorry but Lesbians don't "choose" to be gay.

And no, it has nothing to do with them "getting along" with Women better either.

:eyes:

[bicentennial_baby]

14. "chosen"?

:banghead: yes, it's just a choice....not! :banghead:

[Orrex]

18. What are you talking about

Clearly she chose to be born lesbian.

[Sabriel]

6. I thought so, too.

Until I found out they're really not interested in heterosexual women. It's almost enough to make me...you know....

[0007]

7. That's because you and the lesbian have much in common.

I too, am a lesbian in a male body.

[Burried News]

9. We all seek to be the objects of another's desires ...

until we are?

[Lerkfish]

12. Most of the lesbians I've known I've admired as people, and even when

some were physically attractive to me visually, I always knew where the lines were drawn. I hate rejection enough as it is..don't want to go chasing it down! LOL!

happily married now, but I mean when I was single.

[RethugAssKicker]

13. Forget it.

Lesbians are lesbians because they love other women.... Not just their mind, they love their body parts, breast, vagina..etc.

If you do not have those body parts, you can never satisfy her.
You could be the best stud in the world, it won;t matter.

[sui generis]

15. that works two ways - there are women who think

they could romance a gay fellow too, and even a straight fellow or two who have done that too.

All that means is that when some people fall in love it doesn't have a lot to do with equipment. But it's still got to be fulfilling and it's still got to be a two way street.

Trumad the other side is that sharing sex is about sharing intimacy. Once anybody takes out the "ick" factors (that would potentially be all parties involved in a mixed arrangement like that) what's left is an exercise in intimacy, pleasure, and trust.

It's only natural to want to do that for someone you think highly of and feel emotionally close to, and can even tempt people to go where they normally don't, but it complicates friendships that can be just as strong without it, as well as creates social and personal complications if you're not doing whatever comes most naturally to you.

Sometimes you're not the one who has to do the heavy lifting either, but I wouldn't push it. Plus, in some cases being a tease is half the fun if you don't cross over the line into creepy, and most people have no idea where that line is.

[begin_within]

16. Well if it doesn't work out, you could always build a shed together. Fun!

[Atman]

17. You know what's worse...I had a girlfriend "turn lesbian" on me.

When I was 18. That was before girl-girl stuff was so trendy, or else maybe I would have tried to convince her to stick around! Still, it kinda hurt, you know? What made it worse was that a few years later, she "went back." Good thing I have a strong ego!