I was married November 23, 1963 the day after JFK was assasinated. Invitations were sent out, halls rented, caterers, etc. wedding could not be cancelled.
It was the first time I remember there being something covered around the clock. On that beautiful Indian Summer day when he was buried, I remember Charles DeGaulle and Emperor Haili Salasi (sp) walking together down Pennsylvania area with dozens of heads of state from countries from around the globe. And the drums--that's what I remember more than anything--the funeral drums. The media talked about how stoic Jackie was--fer keerist's sake she was in shock--numb--who wouldn't be. But she somehow had the presence of mind to put together that funeral. Hasn't been any First Lady that has compared to her since, not even close. Chet Huntley and David Brinkley covering the news as it happened and Huntley openly emotional as he announced that President Kennedy was dead, shot in Dallas. Everything changed after that--the sense of security that the country had was gone.
Then on live tv Jack Ruby shot Lee Harvey Oswald--on live tv!! Jasus that was surreal. No question that JFKs assasination changed us--more so than 9/11, at least IMHO.
On the 25th anniversary PBS in Boston aired the entire funeral, which was an all day thing. I'm kinda wondering if they'll do the same thing on the 40th.
When I lived in Boston I met
Dave Powers who was active in all of Kennedy's campaigns and assigned as special assistant when he became president. Later he was curator of the John F. Kennedy Library. I recongnized him at a restaurant in Dorchester and said hi to him. He got up from his table, came over and introduced himself to us and asked us if we were going to the Library. On leaving he said "We will never know what he might have accomplished had he lived." It was a special moment for me--I saw him again in the same restaurant about a year later. He died in 1998.
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