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Thanksgiving with a "moderate." November 27. The beginning of a long day. First thing I had to do was get up. And for one who is NOT a morning person, this is not always an easy, nor a pleasant thing. But on my first day off, I STILL had to get up early and be on the road to head for my sister's place where she and her husband were going to host there first Thanksgiving day for the family.
It was a pleasant enough evening. But my house hold is no different than many of yours as the in-laws are rabid right wingers. It is NEVER wise to bring up politics in there presence. But fortunately they do not bring it up politics either. And when it dose come up, it is always about local politics. Which is interesting because you just might mistake them for liberals. Of course, this is probably because Limbaugh and Savage generally do not try to program folks for local government, other than the general "government is bad" mantra."
And it is here that my dad makes me proud. Make no mistake, my dad is very intelligent, and a very able debater in his own right. He sees right through the racism and paranoia of Micelle Savage as if it was chills play. Indeed, it was many of his views and sensibilities that you read in my words. When I finally became of age, politics became a past time between the two of us. And not because we always agreed.
Alas, the two of us have drifted apart sense 2000. And for a time, it was a painful rift. After 9-11, up to recently, he sounded more like a foam at the mouth right winger, and blood it seemed only sharpened the spears of words, not blunting them. But we have made progress. Slowly closing that gap between us. Unfortunately, the divisions that sparked the gap in the first place, are still there, still not addressed.
Never the less, there were "signs of hope" coming from him as late. In a recently in a phone conversation, he bluntly volunteered the opinion that "we have to get rid of Bush this next election. We just have to get rid of him." He has finally come around and conceded that Iraq didn't have weapons of mass destruction, and concedes that Bush was "less than forthcoming." He also expressed concerns about Clark, siting the shallowness of his campaign, and how it just seem that Clark expected votes, rather than trying to win support. That truly surprised me giving how glowing he was of Clark when he heard him announce. I swear, I did not spoil Clark for him. As I said, he is very intelligent in his own right.
These signs were so hopeful in fact that I have been considering weather I would want to tell him that I attend the monthly protests at JC Nicoles Parkway in Kansas City (Every last Sunday at 4:00PM, FYI.) And dare I even dream that he would join me on the street. That he would join the rest of us. But I still wasn't sure exactly what his positions were. From my sister's place, there was going to be a three hour ride back to his house up north. It was during this time I was hopping to feel out his opinions, and see how they had changed. Alas, many of my hopes were unfounded, and I may have foolishly yawed the chasm between us even further.
Never the less, my father has a saying. No man is do dumb or foolish, that you can not learn from him. Though he many not appreciate the lessens you carry away. And my Thanksgiving was none the less and enlightening one. With numerous observations that are worthy of being shared.
My dad the demographic. I often here from the Clark camp how we have to go after "the center." Well, my dad would have to be part of that center, even though he doesn’t fit any definition ever given to me of the center. For one thing, he has never voted for a Republican, and he can't stand them. As he puts it, "I try to keep an open mind, but when it comes time to pull the handle, it's awfully hard to vote for a Republican."
I guess he would fit into that NASCAR Dad spectrum, except his children have long senses moved away. Never the less, he is that "center" you keep hearing about.
But he isn't any kind of center you want to count on. For much of his positions are built on foundations of deception laid down by Republicans. And not because he trust the Republcians, but because he sees the GOP being backed by the Democrats.
My dad supports the war in Iraq. And dose so largely because Gepheardt supports it. This is a good example of why the Democrat's search for the center is so flawed. As the Dems make compromises with the Republicans, it give them credibility. While at the same time, robbing me of mine. After all, how can I say that Bush lied about WMD? If that were true, don't you think that the Democrats would have said something?
He still supports the war, and he still supports Bush for doing so, saying "it's about time some one did something in the Middle East." But his support is conditional. He expects that we are restoring Iraq, just as he presumes Bush didn't deliberately target civilians. We need to go after the terrorists, but we need to make damn sure that we know who we are getting, and not just racking up a body count as we did in Vietnam. If he was even to suspect these things, than you better believe he would be in the streets with the rest of us.
But of course, he doesn’t suspect. Largely because he doesn’t have any knowledge that contradicts this. This is primarily because he watches and trusts Fox News.
What you do not know. Secrets hidden in the open. The Nature of Propaganda. It is not in the lies they tell you. But in the truth they do not. My dad is aware of this simple notion. Unfortunately, what he is not aware of, is that it must be applied to the US media. "America still has a free press," he tells me, "And if the liberals and progressives can not get on the air, it is because their agenda is to extremist to be accepted by the public." He also tells me that "If they think Bush is any thing like Hitler, than they are grossly misinformed. France and Germany should know better." He has also developed a bias against every thing from the internet, and rolls his eyes at any information I may draw from it. Even government documents are suspect.
Of course, his ignorance about the issues is truly staggering. He knows nothing about PNAC, he has heard nothing about the Grand Chess Board, nothing about the current investigations into 9-11, nothing about the many business deals of the Bush family. He is not aware that many of Bush's administration were convicted of one crime or another, and unaware that Henry Kisinger is wanted for war crimes. He doesn’t know about the Coup in Venezuela, let alone know that the CIA and the School of the Americas were its architects, or why we did it for the oil. It is unaware of just how deep the economic problems are that faces the US, or just how much the world despises Bush, and why. You name it, he has not heard of a single peep about these things from Fox News.
Just think about this for a moment. Remove these things from your understanding, and your opinion of Bush is bound to change. Mike Malloy and few other commentators have bagged rather hard of people like this. People who just do not know. They defend this argument because most Americans do not know, because they do not care. But I must take issue with this. Ignorance while not being defendable is also not prosecutable either. As the old saying goes, garbage in, garbage out. And how can some one be upset, with what they do not know?
This is the real problem with propaganda. Its not as much that many Americans believe the lies told in the media. Some one who is savvy and paying attention can usually see through such forms of deception. My father is just such a person. And so too I trust are many Americans. But it's not the lie we need to be concerned with, but the absence of the truth.
And try as I might, I just can not bring it to him. The Democrats could how ever. Which is why I am so angry at the Dems as they are so quick to back Bush with his pet projects, and so extraordinarily slow to criticizes Bush. These things give the GOP lots of political support, as Americans like my dad take the Dems at there word, and agree with the GOP.
The Ugly Face of Criticism. Behold the face of the lie, and how beautifully it is crafted. Behold the face of the truth, and how hideous it is to the eye. As you might have guessed, the ride home was a long one. And the quality and attentiveness of my driving was probably less than idea because of the intense emotions between the two of us in the confined dark cab of The Blue Runner, my trusty Saturn. It was on the ride home that I let him have that one dark truth that I wasn't sure he could handle. The probability that 9-11 happened by neo-con's design.
I had actually been preparing for this. Dedicating to memory, much if the information to support this. And as I feared, it was for naught. My dad did not believe it, and thought significantly less of me for saying so. Call it the "humanity" defense, but my dad simply could not conceive that any one would do such a thing.
I find this is an intolerable. Bush had a had in condemning 3000 Americans to death by foreign aggressors, and ordered the killing of untold tens of thousands of civilians, and it is MY humanity he chooses to attack for bringing these things up?
Exactly how dose one tell the truth about a monster, without painting him as a monster? Answer this, and the resistance will be one step closer to defeating the neo-cons. But this is part of the problem that we are faced with.
Unfortunately, some of that ugliness is unwarranted. This last Friday, I finally got him to sit down in front of his computer, told him how to log on, and got him to look at the Democratic Underground. It did NOT make a good first impression on him. The Top Ten Conservative Idiot's for example is just as bad as any thing Rush says. Things did not get better as he explored the message board as the first, and last thread he looked at, was of the "I hate America" variety. Suddenly, the ball game held renewed interest, and I realized that this old horse just wasn't going to take a drink. Now mind you, he could still surprise and give the DU a second chance. It's possible that he could reading this now. Stranger things have been known to happen. But some how I doubt it.
And there are just enough negative slurs against Bush on the internet to confirm the right wing charges of a liberal bias against Bush, noting that "Bush can't do any thing with some automatically criticizing him for it. They just wont give him a chance."
And I do fear this is a legitimate problem within the left's attempt to resist the neo-cons. A failing I have noticed at the protests in Kansas City. A few there insist on getting into peoples face, and shouting them down. Some times making me fear that it might come to blow, or that the police might be forced to haul them away. The last thing we need to do is probe the neo-cons right by being so petty and visceral. I have never seen any one win an argument by shouting down the other, and doubt I ever will.
Such "aggressive protesting" in fact hardens there position. And when my father sees it, he becomes suspicious of us, not of Bush's administration. After all, he who raises accusations without evidence brings suspicion upon himself. The neo-cons are aware of this, and try to use it against us.
It doses present a fine line for us to walk. Because while we should refrain from unnecessary slurs, and be very alert for making false accusations. We on the left still need to claim the right to come to conclusions, no mater how ugly they may be. Something that I did tell my father as he called me on my audacity to make such outrageous and egregious claims against Bush. It seems that both conservatives and liberals are encouraged to haven an open mind, but only conservatives are aloud to make them. From the information I have seen, I am forced to conclude that Bush is was behind September 11th. No mater how offended he was by it.
But there are many truths that we must come for confront. And we are long over do. Ironically, I remember reading in 1986, how following the fall of the Soviet Union, how the Russians had to face Glasnoes, and then Parastroiky. And that I read that America had a phase of Glasnoes waiting for it, as we must come to terms with the inner working of the CIA and Energy Department's "skunk works." The aftermath of Vietnam, and the full accounting of the JFK assassinations.
Obviously, that Glasnoes never arrived for us. Not all of us any way. And this is a true shame. You see my dad loves America. And if there is any one that has a right to know the truth, it would be him, and other American's like him.
Instead, they are fed a tapestry of attractive lies. All rooted in Mom, and apple pie. He can list off 20 nations that we invaded senses WWII, and even lived through most of them. But he still believes with all of his heart that "America dose not invade other countries." And it is a tapestry of lies woven not just by Republicans, but by Democrats as well. Both of whom would lie to him, just as quickly as the other.
I can forgive the Republicans for there whole sale destruction of America, for I know that they are simply following there nature. But I can not forgive the Democrats lying to my dad. While the likes of Tom Dashel may continue to lie to me, he can no longer deceive me. But they can still deceive my father, and when he dose finally catch on, it will be a bitter pill for him to swallow indeed.
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