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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-09-04 01:36 AM
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WTF is up with all these breakups??
Is Summer the time when people split? Why am I reading about so many people breaking up in the lounge? :(
Gaah...I feel so bad...
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SmileyBoy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-09-04 01:45 AM
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1. I haven't been in a relationship in 18 months.
Edited on Fri Jul-09-04 01:46 AM by northwest
I had one girlfriend in my life, and she dumped me on Valentine's Day 2003. I've never been sucessful with women (I don't know how to communicate well with them and I get way too shy and underconfident), and I'm still a virgin approaching the age of 22.

I feel bad too...

Now to cheer things up a little, I present to you my new sig line:
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-09-04 01:46 AM
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3. Dude..dumping you on Valentine's Day?
Edited on Fri Jul-09-04 01:47 AM by WindRavenX
WTF?
That's sick...
:hug:
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guitar man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-09-04 01:54 AM
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7. LMAO at that sig!!!!! <nt>
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Spinzonner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-09-04 01:58 AM
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10. Suggestion ...

that might work for you.

Stop putting pressure on yourself.

Dont approach women with the expectation that you have to have develop a relationship or impress them or 'communicate' - whatever that means.

If it means anything, it's not until there is some kind of emotional bond that needs nurturing and maintenance.

So just relax a bit and talk about what interests you or what interests them or just listen. If nothing else, having a male who actually listens will shock them and make you a bit unique.

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Baclava Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-09-04 01:46 AM
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2. Just think of it as...
Recycling..."one mans trash in another's treasure"...

...or is that backward?...I get so confused...
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Angelus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-09-04 01:46 AM
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4. All my breakups were during the summertime...
Thankfully, this summer, I'm single.
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LastKnight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-09-04 01:47 AM
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5. well im sorry to ruin your night. nt
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-09-04 01:51 AM
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6. no no no, I wasn't refering to you
It just seems to me that there have been an awful high amount of breakups in summer...not just on DU.
I'm sorry if you thought I was referring to you.
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LastKnight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-09-04 01:54 AM
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8. yea though i know what you mean.
Edited on Fri Jul-09-04 01:56 AM by LastKnight
in addition to mine, ive seen alot of threads in the lounge, and one of my friends is going through one now... or at least the early stages of one, its gonna become one and i dont know how to or if i should even tell her. it would kill her i think.

this summer is shaping up to suck major ass.

-LK
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-09-04 01:55 AM
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9. Yeah this summer has been sucking ass
It's been a waste for me too. Hell, for lots of people.
Hope things improve for you dude!
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blackcat77 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-09-04 02:38 AM
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11. And I just finished watching "The Last Picture Show..."
...which is all about breakups.

I guess the best message is to enjoy what you have while you have it and quit playing games with other human beings.
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