Screw the age...what's the story behind when you lost your virginity?

[HEyHEY]

Age ain't that exciting!

[TrogL]

1. We met in a cafeteria

I was huddled up trying to ignore the world and she came up and said "I know you". She dragged me home to a party, then dragged me into the bedroom.

[VelmaD]

4. My boyfirend's mom...

worked nights. :-) He snuck over to my house and then we walked back to his apartment. We did all sorts of stuff on his mom's bed *blush* and then spent some time in the bathtub just kinda cuddling and fooling around.

We got out and necked on the couch for a while in nothing but towels. By that point I was about ready to scream if I didn't get some so (surprise surprise) I was the agressor and basically threw him down, ripped his towel off, and molested him. It rocked. :-)

Boys there's a moral here. Take your time and be patient and they'll end up molesting YOU. ;-)

Darth Velma

[dolo amber]

27. Well, exactly...

Same basic principal here...had been dating *the victim* (as he came to be known ;)) since 10th grade. He'd been teasing me, MERCILESSLY, for ages (including a well placed jacket on his lap when our Gov't class went to observe a trial, which he promptly shoved my hand under as soon as the trial started and the teacher was distracted :D) and finally one day I'd had enough. We were at a friends party, and he grabbed me, dragged me in the bathroom, started kissing my neck and running his hands all over my 19 year old body till I was breathless, then walked out. :grr: When we left the party we went to his parents house where I'd left my car, went inside for a bit, and upon noticing that the 'rents were not there, I threw him on the living room rug and had my way with him. Afterwards he asked "Jesus,what took you so long?" :D

[Fixated]

2. ....

She seems pretty easy. So I nailed her.

[SaveABug]

3. with all undue respect

none of your fucking business.

[HEyHEY]

6. Then don't answer

That is the point of picking and choosing what threads you want to respond to.

[SaveABug]

16. you're right

no problem intentioned.

[JackDragna]

8. Jesus Christ, man..

..you could just not respond to the post. Reminds me of the people that have to butt into threads about a band and say "Oh yeah? This band sucks!"

[JackDragna]

5. Well, I was out in the forest one day..

..and I took my virginity along for a picnic. I left for just a minute to use the bathroom and I told my virginity, "Stay right here with the picnic basket until I get back." When I got back, my virginity was gone. I later found out it ran away with a swarthy-looking Greek fellow. I've never been the same since.

[HEyHEY]

7. Those bastard things are always falling into couch cushons and such

damn them!

[JackDragna]

10. What, people's virginities or swarthy Greeks?

:)

[HEyHEY]

12. I was thinking swarthy greeks

There's one under my couch right now, he won't give up the quarter I need for bus fair tomorrow morning...that fucker.

[GOPisEvil]

24. Swarthy-looking Greek fellow here!

Er, it was't me - promise! :D

[cherryperry]

9. Well, since you asked ...

I was infatuated with a guy in college. He wanted to make love, but I was afraid. Finally, I decided to do it as one of his Christmas presents - LOL. So, that September, I got on birth control pills. Early in December, I bought a lid of grass. When he came to my apartment for Christmas eve, we smoked some weed and he had no idea what was coming, so to speak. Instead of stopping him at the usual point for us, we kept on going. My hymen was very difficult to get through + I am certain I was quite tense (even after the grass) and so he was very gentle with me. I got quite embarrassed and said a bit sheepishly, "Merry Christmas" which caused him to break out laughing and I think that lifted the tension enough for us to actually have our first love-making session. On Christmas I really thought everyone would be able to see I had become a woman (LOL) and I actually asked some of my friends if I looked "different"; naturally, they thought I was crazy! It was all quite lovely ...

[HEyHEY]

19. That's giving me a vision of a shy cherry perry

But I guess all girls are like that...guys on the other hand will be on the phone with their buddies before the cigarettes out.

[DealsGapRider]

33. What weight does the term "lid" represent?

I used to know, but I can't remember. Your post reminded me that I used to use that word, but now I can't remember how much weed is a lid. An ounce?

[cherryperry]

36. Yes, I do remember it was an ounce. nt/

[supernova]

11. Finally decided that it was time

It was awkward, cold, and and ultimately unfulfilling, and that made it scary.

I wish I cold have had a great experience with this guy:

[HEyHEY]

13. Or maybe even a shitty one

?

[supernova]

22. Well, it's not llke we can predict

what's going to be. I had a messy divorce. That's a FACT that I cannot change.

[TEXASYANKEE]

38. You and me both!

I envy people who have such lovely "lost my virginity" stories. Mine wasn't painful or awful or anything ... it just left me really wondering what was so great about sex.

I've since learned, thank goodness! ;-)

[Paragon]

14. Dear DU Forum,

You'll never believe what happened to me the night I had to babysit these triplets at a sorority house with my best friend's mother as the entire Laker Girl team watched...

[HEyHEY]

15. That happened to YOU too!

those strumpets!

[NightTrain]

17. I lost it at the movies!

Well, not exactly. But it sure did make for an eye-catching subject line, didn't it?

Anyway, it was the spring of 1983. I had recently turned 17 and was planning to spend Friday night as I often did--alone at the movies.

As I stood in line, I unconsciously whistled "Come On Eileen," a huge hit that spring for the Irish band Dexy's Midnight Runners. The young woman who stood in front of me turned around and started gushing about DMR's "Too-Rye-Ay" LP. Turned out, her name was Heather, she was 19, and, like me, was going to the movies alone. So we decided to sit together.

I don't remember what film was playing, but after about a half-hour, we mutually decided that it was nothing to write home about. Heather suggested that we get something to eat. So we climbed into her car (I didn't own one yet) and had a late dinner at a small Italian place a couple of miles from the theater.

Long story short, her parents were away for the weekend, so we went back to their house. I left my virginity in Heather's bedroom (or in Heather herself, depending on how you look at it). Never saw her again, but she gave me one of the best evenings of my life. Thanks, Heather, wherever you are today!

EPILOGUE: In early 2001, the movie theater where I met Heather closed its doors for good. I thought my heart would break! I don't have too many fond memories of my teen-age years, but thanks to Heather and later "The Rocky Horror Picture Show," most of my good memories of those years revolve around that movie house. I still miss the place, dammit!

[HEyHEY]

18. Thats the stuff good movies are made of

good story

[Pert_UK]

20. A police raid............

At a party on a first date with a girl. Party was at a farmhouse in the middle of nowhere, but the neighbours complained anyway. The police turned up in the middle of the night and made everyone leave.

Had to go back to a friend's house for the night and got a bed instead of the patch of floor we were expecting. One thing led to another, and we ended up going out for about a year.

I still wonder what would have happened if the police hadn't turned up.

P.

[HEyHEY]

21. A kick-ass party and maybe you woulda got some anyway?

That COULD have happened. Or you may have gotten plowed and thrown up on the chick you ended up with.

[Rowdyboy]

23. Last night of college, freshman year...

Lived away from home for the first time (early '70's), experienced all the other mind-altering substances in vogue then, and was seduced my last night. He was graduating...

[mac56]

25. Mid-70s, college girlfriend's home.

Her parents were away for the weekend. We cuddled, etc., that night (per usual), fell asleep together, woke up early in the morning, and did it before we both went off to work.

Afterwards, I looked her straight in the eye and sang a line I paraphrased from an old pop song: "I'm not a kid anymorrrrreeee...." She rolled out of the bed and onto the floor laughing.

[radwriter0555]

26. I WAS SO DISAPPOINTED!

His dick was so little it was almost irrelevent. His technique left EVERYTHING to be desired and I literally THOUGHT "THAT'S IT??" that's what all the fuss is about?

I was 18, he was 21 I think. I didn't tell him it was my first time either... that would have been too embarrassing.

[Throckmorton]

31. Carmine, is that you?

I still haven't gotten over you laughing at it.

[radwriter0555]

32. that was ANOTHER guy, the one behind the tree, dick the size of my THUMB..

but I didn't laugh. I just suggested 'someone was coming' and got out of there FAST.


Poor fellow. Smallest dick on the planet. Seriously, the size of my thumb and I AM a dainty gal.

Tallahassee Florida, after an evening at Bullwinkles, then off with a vanload of folks to a sink hole for a midnight swim. Around 1980 I think.

[slackmaster]

28. I was really scared

I was all alone.

(Apologies to Rodney Dangerfield.)

[northzax]

29. well, combine a jug of vodka

a pack of camels and 50 bucks for the hooker...thanks dad!

[CanuckAmok]

30. Town Pump!

One woman, several men anxiously waiting their turn... An interesting dynamic, to be sure!

[KinkyDem]

34. I was very lucky

Watching a movie with a slightly older woman and it just sort of happened. No big fuss, no fireworks, just fun. It was good, wasn't great. We had ben friends for a while, and just friends and stayed just friends for years to cum...I mean come. We slept together for several years when one or both of us was not otherwise in a relationship.

I have not seen or spoken to her in years. I hope her memeory of that time is a spleassant as mine.

Now, I must confess to never having had a virgin myself and I must admit I want one...

[WoodrowFan]

35. We were in love..

next question.

[zekeson]

37. kick

and keep it kicked.

I am 42 - I'll let you know!

[Superfly]

39. 16, a French Hooker, Morocco, 1976

Made you look,

Actually 18, a ballet dancer (amazing legs), Seattle, 1991