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In Manhattan, there was a whole slew of kids my age in the building (advantage of being a leading-edge boomer), and by the time we were about five, we were allowed to visit back and forth on our own. We'd hang out in each other's apartments, or run slinky's down the stairs, or ride the elevator just for kicks.
We also played outside on the sidewalk (although always with a mother around until we were maybe 9 or 10.) Riding our tricycles, playing hopscotch on the sidewalk, bouncing balls, blowing bubbles, stuff like that. We were also allowed to go across the street to the soda fountain for penny candy or down the block to the Horn and Hardart.
By the time we were 11, my friends and I were going to the movies by ourselves, or walking over to the park to bang tennis balls around on the handball courts, or hiking up to Grant's Tomb and back, or just window shopping on Broadway.
There were a lot of kids my age in the building in Queens, as well, but there was less to do. On summer nights, we might go into the high school athletic field across the street and run around the track, or walk over to the little amusement park on the other side of the athletic field and ride the tilt-a-whirl. (But we never, never went into the playground that was kitty-corner from the apartment house, because that was where the wild kids from the neighborhood would go at night to drink and make out. And we also avoided the White Castle where the local motorcycle gang hung around in the parking lot.)
I had a good friend from school who lived a few miles away, and we'd sometimes get together and take the subway down to the beach, either to go swimming in summer or to walk along the boardwalk in winter when everything was closed and strange.
And I took a lot of solitary walks when we lived in Queens, setting out in a random direction, generally with a book for company, and doing my best to get lost and then find my way back again.
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