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matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-17-04 04:17 PM
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Poll question: Would You Date Somebody Who Had A Problem With You Smoking Weed?
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sundog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-17-04 04:21 PM
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1. nope
you'd just be trying to speak a different language :smoke:
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drdon326 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-17-04 04:23 PM
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2. Do they smoke JAMAICAN or HAWAIIAN ??
No way date anyone who smokes hawaiian.
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disgruntled_goat Donating Member (637 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-17-04 04:30 PM
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3. ahhahahaha
put me down for one 'no' vote.

I mean, I have sooo may substantive things wrong with me, why would they pick on my w33d habit? ;)

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Nikia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-17-04 04:30 PM
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4. I'm married so I hadn't really thought about that , probably no
If my husband were to die or suddenly leave me though, I would say a qualified "no". I don't consider pot to be something that defines me or something that I need to do often. On the otherhand, I have friends who smoke, who I would not give up for an SO. I also do enjoy smoking pot. If he tried to prohibit me from smoking pot with my friends, I'd consider that an unacceptable restriction on my life.
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Bronco69 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-17-04 04:48 PM
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5. No.
I like to smoke cigarettes sometimes too and if he has a problem with it, don't let the door hit ya on the way out. :-)
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CrownPrinceBandar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-17-04 04:52 PM
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6. CURSES!! I would've gotten away with it too...........................
if it weren't for you meddling potheads!!!
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bahrbearian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-17-04 04:53 PM
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7. Yes I even married her.
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Madrone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-17-04 04:56 PM
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8. Unlikely.
Never say never, but still highly unlikely.
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HuckleB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-17-04 04:59 PM
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9. Yeah. Pot's just not that good.
On the other hand, a wonderful SO rocks!
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newscaster Donating Member (586 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-17-04 05:03 PM
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10. WELL, I GUESS I WAS BORN IN A TOTALLY DIFFERENT ERA.
If I really wanted to date this girl and she had a problem with my smoking week, I would not smoke weed when she was around. And if I wanted to marry this girl, I would give it up for good.
But that takes willpower. I went cold turkey regarding cigarettes ten years ago and have not had even one ever since.
:headbang:
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newscaster Donating Member (586 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-17-04 05:04 PM
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11. er......typo
make that WEED sted of WEEK.
Thanks.
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HuckleB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-17-04 05:08 PM
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12. Dang. And here I thought there was something I hadn't yet tried.
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Nikia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-17-04 05:59 PM
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15. I just consider it a control issue
There are few things that my husband and I don't allow or severely discourage the other one from doing. It is best, in my opinion, that people in relationships don't try to control each others lives. When I chose to continue dating a person or take the relationship to a higher level, I was chosing to accept the person as they are. I consider demands or ultimatums unacceptable for the most part unless something really destructive is going on. I don't consider me smoking pot occassionally, especially away from the person, to be destructive. I would not be giving up any friends, becoming vegetarian, significantly changing my appearance, or giving up any activity that I engage in for a date.
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Monte Carlo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-17-04 05:09 PM
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13. If they just wanted me to smoke less, maybe...
... if they just want me to stop altogether, have a nice life.
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lanparty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-17-04 05:15 PM
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14. Absoluetly ...
... I don't smoke weed.

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Swamp Rat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-17-04 06:04 PM
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16. Fuck NO. If you don't like me or my habits, then go away...
and be happy somewhere else in your OWN way.I know someone who got divorced over this issue and is very happy to this day.

As for the 3rd choice, give me 5 minutes and I will report back.
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RobinA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-17-04 09:50 PM
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17. I Probably Wouldn't Even LIKE
someone who had a problem with me smoking weed, even though I haven't smoked weed for decades, I like to keep the options open. Anybody who's scared of a little weed probably doesn't share my way of looking at the world.
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