coloradodem2005
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Sun Aug-01-04 12:29 PM
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What is wrong with me being aloof around other people? |
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I talked about how I am aloof around women. What is wrong with that? Just curious.
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Mara Steele
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Sun Aug-01-04 12:31 PM
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1. Well, to connect you have to be a little warmer & more open... |
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...If you don't want to connect, then you have no problem.
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supernova
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Sun Aug-01-04 12:31 PM
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2. Nothing. I tend to appear aloof in large groups |
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Much as I would have loved being a delegate this past week. In some ways it would have been very difficult for me. I'm much more animated and lively in small groups and one on one situations.
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Sun Aug-01-04 01:06 PM
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3. nothing, but it cuts down on |
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companionship opportunities. i sympathize, though, i am uncomfortable interacting with strangers and tend to be real aloof in gatherings
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Sun Aug-01-04 01:08 PM
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Sun Aug-01-04 01:26 PM
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5. Do you feel insecure around women? |
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Do you feel like you're trying to hide something? I was like that for a long time, especially around women that I found attractive. Now I try to treat everyone the same, but it's really been a struggle and I still revert to my old ways occasionally.
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Moonbeam_Starlight
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Sun Aug-01-04 01:30 PM
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6. Some women that drives them crazy |
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damn I ALWAYS wanted the aloof guy. The shy one. The quiet, mysterious, off by himself one.
It fascinated me and I considered it a challenge. It's the sole reason I chased Kirk Harwood all over the playground from third through the fifth grade. That boy just would NOT give me the time of day and damnit I was gonna FORCE him!
P.S. Never caught him. He's in prison now so probably pretty easy to catch but don't want him anymore.
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