Is it a good thing that the guy who came on to me left with another guy?

[Deja Q]

I went to a bar tonight and this guy came up to me. We had a LOT in common, but he did seem to be flirty with other guys at times.

He ultimately left with somebody else.

It seemed strange because I thought there was a connection.

:shrug:

[Syrinx]

1. I would have to say no, that's not a good thing

This girl came on to me once at a bar, and we started kissing and stuff. Then she left with another guy. I found out that she left with her boyfriend, and she was just using me to make him jealous.

But what do I know? Good luck.

on second thought, maybe it was good. Me and a friend were at a bar years ago, and this dude was trying to get us to go to his hotel to party. And we declined. And I swear in retrospect I believe that guy was Jeffrey Dahmer. And no, I'm not kidding.

[faithnotgreed]

4. i shouldnt have read this right before going to bed! wow

i cant even imagine what must run through your thoughts sometimes, it was enough for me to just hear about it!

glad youre with us!

[Syrinx]

5. thanks! I'm not sure by any means...

It was him.

But I really think it was. It was at the old Sidetrack bar in Tuscaloosa. That bar doesn't stand anymore. I was at the place with my best friend at the time, who was a black guy (mentioned, 'cause JD liked black guys) a little older than me. And the stranger kept trying to get us to party with him. Said he had beer and whiskey and lots of cocaine at his hotel and stuff. It really looked like him, and I thought that when the story first came out. Then later I found out he was stationed in Alabama in the military at that time. Well, anyway. I'm glad to still be here. :)

[Sporadicus]

2. There's No Accounting for Taste

And...tomorrow's another night!

[Tandalayo_Scheisskopf]

3. My gay friend...

had a lot of the same problems as you, in meeting guys. Small town, you see. He joined up with a few gay organizations and met a really nice guy and they have been together for a while.

You might like to try that.

[qnr]

6. Seems to me that

in addition to the other things mentioned, he'd be likely to do the same thing later, so it is probably a good thing that you saw it from the start.

Edit: typo.

[GoddessOfGuinness]

7. No loss.

Unless you want someone who will play games with your heart.

I think you can do a lot better, personally. :beer::hug::beer:

[Deja Q]

8. Thanks!

(and thanks to everyone else also!)

One day, one day... until then, it's on with my so-called career. :-)

[BiggJawn]

9. Sounds like a Cruiser, Toad.

He'd have just broke your heart in the morning.

Sounds like a drunk with major self-esteem problems I made the mistake of falling in love with once...

[Deja Q]

11. A knowledgeable cruiser...

He's a total geek, like me. D&D, 42, IT guy who knows enough of SQL server to make it big except our *y "culture of life" economy has him pegged as a cell phone salesman...

Oh well.

I noticed he had a dry cough as well. So it may have been for the best that he vamoosed with some other bloke...

[BiggJawn]

13. Yeah, he might have given you the Flu!

And no flu shots!

[radwriter0555]

10. "He's just not that Into You!" so fuggedabowdit!

move on!

I hate those guys.... **sigh**

[pagerbear]

12. When that happens I tell myself

...he's not the last man who will ever be interested in me. I can appreciate the attention, but I just move on with my life without much more thought.

That's on a good day. On a bad day I obsess about it.