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mr_hat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:24 PM
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Deceased pets who come back to you in dreams >
Apart from the blessing of spending time with them again, and quite apart from the dream's inevitable (in my case, at least) expository chaos, what's the significance?

I like to think they're coming back to right my course.
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Wickerman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:27 PM
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1. I hope so - Gabe was just put down yesterday
It would nice to see him again...

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Minimus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:31 PM
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2. My condolences to you. I am struggling with having my Sonic
put down last week. I know it was time, but I miss him so. How are you coping?




Rest in Peace my little boy
1991-2004
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2sheds Donating Member (50 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:35 PM
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4. So sorry, both of you ...
I don't know what else to say. I hope your days can lighten soon.
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Fenris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:36 PM
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5. My condolences to you both.
:cry:
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Wickerman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:45 PM
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7. Oh, Sonic - what a great looking guy
Sorry to hear of your loss. It sucks, doesn't it? I miss him.

Here's to better days.
:hug:
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intheflow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:49 PM
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14. Sonic looks like a real character!
You must have a million great memories. I'm sorry for your loss.
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:51 PM
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15. I had a cat named Sonic....
Yours looks like a Jack Russell.
I'm so sorry for your loss... :hug:
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latebloomer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 09:42 PM
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25. So sorry, Wickerman and Minimus!
We are struggling with a similar decision as our beloved 13-year-old Brownie is rapidly declining. The whole family is so sad.
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barb162 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 09:57 PM
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28. I'm sorry, very sorry for your loss of Sonic
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shesemsmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:31 PM
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3. May all you dreams of Gabe be pleasant and often, sorry for you loss.
it's like losing a child. You are in my prayers. thats a beautiful Dog
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intheflow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:47 PM
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10. I'm sorry.
Gabe looks like a wonderful dog.
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Cuban_Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:47 PM
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11. I'm so sorry...
:hug:
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:49 PM
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13. Awwww
I'm so sorry to hear that. What a pretty pup! :hug:
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barb162 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 09:55 PM
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27. I am so sorry; I know this is a terrible time for you
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Sanity Claws Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:39 PM
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6. My condolences
Edited on Tue Dec-07-04 08:46 PM by in search of sanity
I had to put my dog, Sullivan, down in December 1995. I loved him dearly. Sometime later I had a dream where I found this dirty mangy dog that needed help. I brought him in and cleaned him up. In my dream, I got this very intense feeling of joy just from taking care of him. After I finished washing the dog up, he looked just like my dear old Sullivan. It was though I had been reunited with him and I felt like crying.
I don't know whether that was a message from him or just my brain reminding me that you can experience genuine joy from taking care of another.
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Mayberry Machiavelli Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:45 PM
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9. That's a nice dream. I like that...
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Sanity Claws Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:48 PM
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12. Thanks
I had the dream a long time ago - maybe 5 to 8 years ago. I still remember the intense feelings of the dream.
Is that your dog in the avatar?
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Mayberry Machiavelli Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 09:02 PM
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17. Yes we have 3 skye terriers.
The avatar is Hanako our older girl, here as a puppy:

In the group picture she is hidden/smushed between the other two as is consistent with her shy, demure personality.



Elijah, the devil, is our oldest. He is a good soul.



When I am vegetating in front of the computer, he will often forcefully nudge my hand away from the keys and force me to spend time loving him. It's like he knows our time together is really short, and that humans are too dumb to appreciate this so he simply has to make me spend some loving time with him. The dogs got sick last few days, getting better now, but seeing him lethargic and in low spirits made me think a lot about what it will be like when we no longer have him. It's pretty hard to think about.
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Sanity Claws Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 09:04 PM
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18. They look like fun
They look like fun, lively company. I'm glad to hear they have such a nice home.
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intheflow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:45 PM
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8. My beloved Ziggy came back to me once.
Ziggy was a laid back and loving cocker spaniel/black lab mix. He ate some antifreeze-laden hamburger that took three neighborhood dogs' lives, ultimately. Zig was the last to die after a long, painful, and expensive fight with kidney failure.

When he was in my dream, it was a very spiritual dream. He was in the attic of a house. In dreams, houses are said to represent the spiritual self, and the higher the floor, the more spiritual aspect of yourself. But it was Ziggy in his most pained phase, and it ripped my heart out all over again. This was such a powerful dream I remember it vividly more than 6 years later.

Ziggy, combined with other aspects of th dream, points to it being a prophetic dream, or what you say, my pet came "back to right my course." Zig was definitely pointing me in the right direction.
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iconoclastic cat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:52 PM
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16. Antifreeze-laden hamburger? What kind of psycho did that?
I would be in deep legal trouble if someone poisoned one of my pets. That person would be scaled and cleaned like a fish.
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China_cat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 09:24 PM
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19. Members of a certain
Edited on Tue Dec-07-04 09:24 PM by China_cat
animal rights group that I shall not name have been known to do this to 'rescue' dogs from their slavery.

Most of the time they slip it into the water of crated dogs at shows, though.



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intheflow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 09:36 PM
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22. I lived in a hick town in Massachusetts.
Edited on Tue Dec-07-04 09:41 PM by intheflow
The people across the street were these psycho born-agains that refused to even wave hello when turning into their driveway (right across my mine).

Well, me and two other neighbors on the street had very sweet dogs that did not run outside of our yards. They were all very well behaved, obedient dogs.

The psychos had this psycho flock of geese they kept for pet and allowed to run loose all over the neighborhood. And you know how mean geese can be - these geese would charge across their yard in the morning to attack me as I got into my car to go to work.

The psychos were always complaining to the dog warden that our dogs were harassing their geese when in truth, I saw these dogs cower from the fucking geese on many occasions. The dog warden always came but never saw anything amiss so refused to make us give up our dogs. So we're all pretty sure it was the born-again psychos who killed our dogs.
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iconoclastic cat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-08-04 06:54 AM
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31. Then perhaps it's time for a roasted Xmas goose.
But seriously, there should be some way to smack down these kinds of freaks. This country is beset by psychos.
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SmokingJacket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 09:26 PM
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20. Weird, but...
I had a puppy named Ziggy when I was a child.

We had to give him away because he ate everything in sight.

He was a springer spaniel/black lab mix.

Same dog?
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intheflow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 09:39 PM
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23. Doubtful. We got Zig as a pup in Massachusetts about 12 years ago.
But if your Zig died more than 13 years ago, maybe my Zig was your Zig reincarnated. :)
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SmokingJacket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 09:41 PM
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24. I don't know when my Ziggy died...
but 13 years seems about right!

:)
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SmokingJacket Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 09:28 PM
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21. My dead cat always symbolizes guilt.
If I feel like I'm not doing my duty in some way, my big fat white cat returns in my dreams.

She says, Take better care!

Pay attention to the small and weak!

:cry:
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barb162 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 09:54 PM
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26. I have had two dreams since my cat Boy died 10/11/03. Both were
very nurturing dreams (in one, for example, he was purring on my chest while I was rubbing his chin) and I like to think that if there is a heaven then he is surely in it, that he is content and waiting for me to see him again.
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IStriker Donating Member (408 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 09:57 PM
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29. Sometimes I dream about my red Dobie that my husband gave me as a wedding
present. I had him for 15 yrs. and we were inseparable. I am an animal lover, but I never was attached to a dog like I was to him. I dream that I am petting him and when I awaken and realize it is only a dream, I am nearly as sad as I was when I lost him almost 20 yrs. ago. I have never gotten over being without him even though I have had other dogs since. I don't know if the dreams mean anything except that there is still a bond
between us that remains unbroken and that I will always miss him. I feel for all of you who have lost a companion or are at the point where a decision must be made. It is a very difficult thing.
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TexasBushwhacker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 10:15 PM
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30. For those who've lost a pet recently ...
check with your local SPCA or Humane Society. Many of them have pet loss support groups. When I had to put my first cat to sleep (she was 22 and I was 44) it was a great comfort to just be with people who were going through the same feelings. It really helps.
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