Lenape85
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:04 PM
Original message |
Sometimes I think women are evil |
|
OK, I just had a horrible weekend with my (now ex-)girlfriend. Apparently, she's holding a grudge against me because her fucking PMS and me being under prescription meds in NYC made for a bad combination. All she really wanted from me was to drive her to this concert in Wayne which she didn't end up going to. Then, when she got back to my dorm, she treats me like I am less than human. I take her back to her house, and we break up, and I tell her about how wrong it was for her to treat me like this, and she says "shut up, retard, nobody likes you, you freak". I drive back to my dorm, and as soon as I sign on to my AIM, she sends a thousand notes about me.
I've never intentionally done anything bad to her, and she jumps all over me.
Well, I hope karma gets that bitch, because she said she wanted to have sex with her 16 year old friend.
At any rate, I don't want to date women for a REALLY long time.
|
AllyCat
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:05 PM
Response to Original message |
|
Just your ex-girlfriend. Sorry about your situation. It's no fun.
|
Deja Q
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:05 PM
Response to Original message |
2. Every try the way of the gay? |
|
Edited on Sun Dec-12-04 10:06 PM by HypnoToad
(forgive me, but I'm up for my 7th toaster - this new one having room for 8 slices at once, with bagel attachments, and is made of gold.)
In all seriousness, my condolances to you both. I dunno your situation but I've been in relationships that broke up too. In short, we're all human. And unpredictable.
|
Lenape85
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:06 PM
Response to Reply #2 |
Deja Q
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:06 PM
Response to Reply #5 |
6. Best of both worlds, cool. |
Gryffindor_Bookworm
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:12 PM
Response to Reply #2 |
|
Bagel attachments????
I'm straight, but I have female friends who haven't picked a decent guy YET -- will you check and see if I can get toasters if I do some recruiting for your team? :D
|
eyepaddle
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 11:05 PM
Response to Reply #9 |
|
from the Simpson's (and this applies to me)
Some people choose celibacy--others have it thrust upon them ;)
At any rate that sounds like one HELL of a toaster! I had one which did bagels, but the rack wouldn't hold ordianry bread very well--it'd slide off and get caught next to the heating elements. Ya gotta watch out for that!
|
MissMillie
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:06 PM
Response to Original message |
3. Sometimes women are evil |
|
Just like sometimes men are evil.
|
WindRavenX
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:06 PM
Response to Original message |
|
Sorry you had to go through that :hug: There ARE awesome women out there. You'll find one.
|
Lenape85
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:11 PM
Response to Reply #4 |
8. We seemed to have everything in common |
|
And now she just treats me less than human
I blocked her from my buddy list though, and if she tried anything illegal (like having sex with her underaged friend), I'm reporting it to the po-pos
|
WindRavenX
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:17 PM
Response to Reply #8 |
|
Don't get involved with her deeds. She's obviously not worth the time and effort. Sorry again dude...these things SUCK :hug:
|
EstimatedProphet
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 11:44 PM
Response to Reply #8 |
27. the fact that she's talking about sex with an underaged friend |
|
should be a big clue that this woman has some serious issues. Don't beat yourself up about her issues. And don't think twice about getting away from her. It does no one any good to be in a relationship like that.
|
Droopy
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:09 PM
Response to Original message |
7. The evil women to evil men ratio is probably about the same |
|
Don't let one experience taint your view of all women. It probably is a good idea to ride the pine for a while in the dating game just until you get your legs back under you.
|
fluffernutter
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:15 PM
Response to Original message |
10. holy cow, she sounds like a piece of work. |
|
whom you are probably going to be much happier without. and you are way too young to say you aren't going to date women for a really long time :)
|
Lydia Leftcoast
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:19 PM
Response to Original message |
12. Yup, the "nice guy besotted with the psycho bitch" syndrome strikes again |
|
Whatever is ailing your ex, it's way beyond normal PMS. She's mentally unbalanced, and you're lucky to be rid of her.
I will never understand why so many nice guys become obsessively attached to these high-maintenance women.
|
Radical Activist
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:40 PM
Response to Reply #12 |
22. A lot like women who go for the "bad boy" |
|
Even though the bad boy is more likely to be an arrogant prick headed for prison or a domestic battery charge. People are strange.
|
EstimatedProphet
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 11:40 PM
Response to Reply #12 |
26. Because those high-maintenance women know how to manipulate |
|
us nice guys by nature. Been there done that not going back, thank you
|
KarenS
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:20 PM
Response to Original message |
13. Hey,,,, she sounds like a real whackjob,,,, |
|
this from an old lady ;) always be grateful when someone reveals their true self to you,,,, really be grateful that you are not legally bound to her. Take your time, heal,,,, there really is someone out there for you but maybe you haven't met her yet.
|
FizzFuzz
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 11:27 PM
Response to Reply #13 |
25. I love this advice. It's true, it IS a real gift when someone reveals |
|
their true self. Of course, that means we have to be capable of catching the hint. Better sooner than later. I can think of many times I ignored the hints. Boy was I sorry. And Mr. Fuzz, he had a bad one and ignored the hints and boy oh boy do we both wish he could have put his foot down sooner (well 15 years late is better than never ;) ).
Pat yourself on the back for standing up for yourself and not taking forever to do it!!!!
You'll appreciate a good person even more after this.
(wow, look at how many non-evil people there are on this thread! Very encouraging.) :)
|
OffWithTheirHeads
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 11:52 PM
Response to Reply #13 |
|
of those who have come before
|
Left Is Write
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:22 PM
Response to Original message |
14. Well, not all of us are like that. BUT |
|
any woman who would say to you what you quoted her as saying isn't worth a nanosecond of your time. Consider yourself well rid of her.
|
AlCzervik
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:22 PM
Response to Original message |
15. I don't think women in general are evil |
|
i think you picked a bitch there, thats all, you'll remember that next time. Lessons learned.
|
Schema Thing
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:26 PM
Response to Original message |
16. Just like women have to pick nice, decent men |
|
... or spend their lives bitching about men, we men have to pick nice, decent women, or spend our lives bitching about women.
|
Radical Activist
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:28 PM
Response to Original message |
|
I've been there. But hey, at least not all women are that way.
|
NightTrain
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:30 PM
Response to Original message |
18. Not all women, but I fully understand how you must feel right now. |
|
But look at it this way: Do you really want to be involed with an immature, petulant, mean-spirited girl who says, "Shut up, retard, nobody likes you, you freak?" I'm guessing you can do much, much better than that! :pals:
|
SarahB
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:31 PM
Response to Original message |
19. Some PEOPLE are evil. |
|
It's not a gender thing. Sorry about your lousy experiences though. :(
|
donco6
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:36 PM
Response to Original message |
20. Uh, you're way better off without that particular one, IMO. |
|
If you can break up with her and in two minutes she's stabbing you in the back to all your friends, she couldn't have cared that much in the first place.
IMO, you made a convenient taxi driver for the spoiled brat. You deserve better.
|
JVS
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:39 PM
Response to Original message |
21. She sounds like a real asshole, you're better off without her |
underpants
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Sun Dec-12-04 10:40 PM
Response to Original message |
23. Dude she is ashes in your beer |
DU
AdBot (1000+ posts) |
Thu Apr 25th 2024, 03:16 AM
Response to Original message |