Today I'm 43.

[bluedeminredstate]

And the 20 y.o. bag boy at the supermarket told me last evening that he hoped I wouldn't be offended but he thought I was hot!!!!!!
Best. fuc*ing. birthday. present. I. ever. got. (OK vanity is a problem I need to work on)
The story is too long and boring to tell, but shit! I'm hot! And he was cute himself...
Feeling a little Demi-ish with the Ashton thing going on.
Damn! And I thought my cuteness was behind me.
:party:

[donheld]

1. Happy Birthday

:toast:

[enigmatic]

2. Happy Birthday!

[flamingyouth]

3. Happy Birthday

And I can tell you from experience, it's great having a cute 20-year-old guy think you're hot. ;)

Hope you have a great day - it's my mom's birthday too. :party:

[chicagojoe]

4. Happy Birthday, Hot and 43 !!!

[laheina]

5. Happy B-day.

I was just stoked that the guy in Starbucks yesterday called me "miss." :) You win:D

[LiberalVoice]

6. Happy B-day!

Can I have your number...? :P

[bluedeminredstate]

8. No. I'm too hot!!

Yes, it's true. I'm just too hot.
;)

[fortyfeetunder]

7. Happy Birthday

and who cares if he's 23? He's in his prime, and you are in yours...

[Baja Margie]

9. Happy Birthday !

43 is cool.

[Skittles]

10. I got a hot 25 yr old Latino janitor panting for me at work

I am 47! :D

[Baja Margie]

11. oooooolala

go for it girl !

[Skittles]

12. I tell you I am mighty tempted to sample the goods

yes INDEED

[China_cat]

13. Happy birthday to both of us.

It's my birthday, too. Just a 'bit' older than your 43, though. (And definitely not 'hot'.)

Give yourself a good present. Go for it.

[corksean]

14. Happy Birthday

I recently had a young guy tell me I was hot. Unfortunately I'm a 220lb hairy-arsed Irishman with a wife and a nice house overlooking the rent.

[Maestro]

15. Happy B-day

and we need a pic.

[ProfessorGAC]

16. Happy, Happy!

Always nice to hear you're older than you look, isn't it?
The Professor

[gingergreen]

17. Happy Birthday

I hope I'm that hot at 43!! Only 23 now.

[da_chimperor]

18. Happy birthday!

Provide a pic, and you might have another guy in their early 20's telling you how hot you are. ;)

[bluedeminredstate]

19. I'm incompetent in that department

How do you post a pic? Not that I would ever dream of such a thing...
:evilgrin:

[Samurai_Writer]

20. I just turned 44 last week...

and had a 26 year old cutie tell me I was hot too! Yay for us hot 40-something women and the 20-something guys who appreciate us!

Here's my latest hot photo, taken about a month ago...

[bluedeminredstate]

24. OK. How do you scan a pic

and post it? I'm an idiot in this area.

[Samurai_Writer]

29. if you have a photo on your computer...

Go to www.photobucket.com, sign up (its free), and upload the pic there. You can then copy the photo's URL that is listed beneath the pic and paste it into your post on DU.

If you don't have a photo on your computer, you have to use a scanner to scan it in first, then go to photobucket.

[arwalden]

21. Happy Birthday!

So... did you and the bag boy hook-up... or at least trade phone numbers??

[bluedeminredstate]

22. I'm married to the most wonderful man.

Now if Johnny Damon or Vincent D'Onofrio started throwing those words around my principles might take a steep plunge...
:)

[nini]

23. all women in their 40s are hot :-)

Happy Birthday to you!


:party:

[Lavender Brown]

25. Happy birthday!

:toast:

:party:

[ChickMagic]

26. Happy Birthday

You little whippersnapper. You're just a spring chicken!

[Wapsie B]

27. Happy Birthday!

You picked the best month too be born in. And not too close to Xmas either. Another December baby just like myself. Cool.

[bluedeminredstate]

28. Thank you all!

Now someone tell me how to post a pic dammit!!!
:)

[pdx_prog]

31. Happy Birthday!

Go to www.imageshack.us and post your pics. It will give you the code for the pic.....just copy the code and insert it into your thread here and everyone will be able to see it.

[bluedeminredstate]

40. I'm hopeless.

Still trying. Thanks for the info.

[AlCzervik]

30. Happy Birthday to you!

[redqueen]

32. Woohooo! Happy birthday, ya hottie!

:evilgrin:

:party:

[Jack_Dawson]

33. H.B.!

[Kire]

34. pics?

anyway, happy birthday!!!

[bluedeminredstate]

42. I think I figured this out

Now I must confess this was taken when I was 42 last summer. That's my sweetie in the background enduring a visit at the in-law's house.
I know it's entirely shameless to post a swimsuit shot, but it's my birthday and I'll preen if I want to!

[Beer Snob-50]

48. I am 45

and yes, you are hot!!

[GreenPartyVoter]

35. Heheh Happy-happy! *hugs*

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[Cobalt Violet]

36. Happy Birthday.

:party: :bounce: :party: :bounce: :party: :bounce: :party: :bounce: :party: :bounce: :party: :bounce: :party: :bounce: :bounce:

[ElsewheresDaughter]

37. Happy 43rd!...and in seven years you can join my over the hill club..,.

[fluffernutter]

38. you go girl! happy birthday.

:party:

[ElectroPrincess]

39. I envy your courage ...

Nope, hubby's a year older than me but I'm so biased <blush> that I could not even date men younger than me in college. I went out with a 19 y.o. when I was 21 y.o. He looked at least five years younger with that "cutie pie" baby face. I turned bright red every time he addressed me as "babe" and couldn't wait to get home.

I hope that I spend the rest of my life with hubby, but even if the worst happened, I'd not ever date a younger man. If I were wealthy I might hire one as a personal assistant to "show off" like Donald Trump does with his ladies, but no way would I "mess with a young dude." Yikes!

More for you ... you've got the gift of independence. :-)

[bluedeminredstate]

41. Christ on a crutch!

I'm not interested in the bagboy! He thinks I'm hot - that's good enough.
:)

[Brewman_Jax]

43. Merry Birthday!

A toast to a fellow fine 40-something!

:toast: :beer: :party:

[bluedeminredstate]

44. The two hour pic posting ordeal is over.

Thankyou to the people who talked me through it.

[pdx_prog]

45. Thank you for posting the pic

You ARE quite hot...:)

[bluedeminredstate]

46. No I'm really not.

If you only knew the crushing girdle-like fabric embedded in that suit - but I get a swimsuit shot for my birthday. Besides, it's a profile - it could be a Phantom of the Opera thing going on...

Thank you.
:loveya:

[pdx_prog]

47. ha ha...I doubt it

when we get past 40 it becomes SO hard to keep in shape.....it's like fighting a loosing battle (unless you're one of them people who NEVER gain weight).

You seem to be in good physical shape....if you are 43 you are to be commended...:)

[bigwillq]

49. Happy Birthday!

Yo go hot girl!:toast:

[Iris]

50. Excellent!

A few years ago I handed a gay waiter my id after he requested it. He looked at it and said, "33? You look GOOD!" It made my week! Well, maybe my year!


PS - I only mention the waiter was gay b/c gay men tend to be a critical in my town!

[Phentex]

51. Happy Birthday!

It's nice to be ogled every once in a while. :)