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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 08:52 PM
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What is your tolerance of being offended?
It's quite obvious that about 75% of the subjects on this forum will offend at least one person. Rating yourself on a scale from 1 to 10, where do you place yourself on the "offensive scale"? 1 being the hardest to be offended and 10 being that you would be offended that I used the word offended.
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CatBoreal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 08:54 PM
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1. I'd rate myself a two....
Edited on Thu Dec-16-04 08:57 PM by CatBoreal
...but anything involving the abuse of children will offend me every time.

Maybe I should dig out Carlin's Rape Can Be Funny skit.

Edited because I read the scale wrong. D'oh!
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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 08:57 PM
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10. I'm sorry
That thread was just the one that got me to start this one. Actually I was going to do one like this earlier today with a few other things I read. It wasn't a "dig" or anything toward any one person or any one subject.
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CatBoreal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 08:59 PM
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11. No apologies necessary...
...that's really where I draw the line. I didn't think you were taking a dig.
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MichaelHarris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 08:54 PM
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2. the only thing that
sets me off is hypocrisy, that makes me blow up like a bomb and attack like a pit bull. I know it's a bad trait but I can't let it go.

So on hypocrisy I'm at about a 72
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jeff30997 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:20 PM
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25. These days you must be blowing up a lot...
With those assholes in the White House and so on.
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MichaelHarris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:26 PM
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27. LOL very true
and some other places lately.
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MrSlayer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 08:54 PM
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3. 1 - I'm rarely offended
Say what you want, I hate political correctness.
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MichaelHarris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 08:59 PM
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13. me too
I forgot about that one.
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jeff30997 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:21 PM
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26. Go fuck a goat then.
:P
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MrSlayer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:31 PM
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31. Capital idea, I was thinking of having a Satanic Ritual anyway.
Thank you.
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jeff30997 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:46 PM
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40. My pleasure.
:evilgrin:
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Bunny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 08:55 PM
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4. I'm offended by the very fact that you live and breathe.
So, would that put me at about 11 or so?

:P
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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:00 PM
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15. Why thank you...
That's better than what my mother says about me :)
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 08:55 PM
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5. 1-2
Edited on Thu Dec-16-04 08:55 PM by bigwillq
Does that offend anyone that I didn't choose just one number!!:P


edit: Sorry, I didn't read it well enough
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Bouncy Ball Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 08:56 PM
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6. Probably a 3 or so.
It's pretty hard, but some things (pedophelia, etc) just aren't funny to me. I don't get offended, per se, I just don't find them funny and don't take part in conversations/threads like that.
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Spiffarino Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 08:57 PM
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7. Fuck off!
:7
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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 08:59 PM
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12. Hey!!
The nuns used to tell me that at school. Do you know them?
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JimmyJazz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 08:57 PM
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8. Very little offends me. I am a one at best.
I tend to ignore what does offend me rather than get indignant.
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 08:57 PM
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9. I dunno how easily I get offended, but depending on the subject,
I can be offensive between 5 and 10.

Even the lounge posts, I know that somebody out there isn't going to like my goofy Paul-Lynde-on-crack style. :D

I usually agree with most on the subject, most of which would make anybody with a conscience or compassionate soul a 10.
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havocmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:00 PM
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14. Used to be a 1 - tough to offend, but lately, have slid to 3
cuz all the 10s around here trying to be the the boss of everybody else are really pissing me off. (Actually, I think we have a bunch of neocon operatives trying to make us sit 'down and behave' like the nice, docile little liberal doormats they think we are ;) )
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jeff30997 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:26 PM
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28. Same for me.
Tens can be pretty annoying.
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Ready4Change Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:00 PM
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16. Clothist! What all this blasphemous talk of "threads?"
:+
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ElsewheresDaughter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:00 PM
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17. the "C" word pushes my button
Edited on Thu Dec-16-04 09:01 PM by ElsewheresDaughter
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jeff30997 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:28 PM
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29. Catapult ?
:shrug:
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City of Mills Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:38 PM
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34. Curmudgeon?
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laheina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:42 PM
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37. I'm just very surprised when I hear it.
Which is almost never. It's one of the few "dirty" words left.
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Placebo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:01 PM
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18. I dunno, I get annoyed easily...
people say some stupid stuff sometimes.
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jeff30997 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:29 PM
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30. Waple zipadidoo !!!
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-..__... Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:05 PM
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19. My offensive scale...
goes to .01

Is that good or bad? (waiting for someone to be offended).
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Bouncy Ball Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:07 PM
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20. Oh D__S I'm so fucking offended over that.
You should be more easily offended. I'm offended at how uneasily offended you are, which means you don't feel offense for my feeling offense, which is REALLY FUCKING OFFENSIVE.
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jeff30997 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:31 PM
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32. So you're a fucking 10 are fucking you ?
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autorank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:09 PM
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21. Around here -- 2; in my work-- 2; as a citizen-- 8.
It takes a while to get used to this joint but being offended is definitely not useful. In fact, the most offensive comments I've run into around here are generally based in a mis-read or misunderstanding of my post. Happily pointing that out is fun.

In my work, again, being offended doesn't work and is really out of the question because I'm grateful to do what I do. As a citizen of the country, I'm offended nearly every day by the mendacity, greed, and, at times, insanity that passes for national leadership.
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melnjones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:15 PM
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22. I'm maybe a 3,
although it really depends on the circumstances. I am all about being politically correct when you are around people you don't know well. However, with my friends my black humor often comes out. I can joke with people who are educated and sensitive about things that I could never joke about with someone who's ignorant. It's all about context and what's really being said by the person. I'm a social worker though, and we're trained to be PC.
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Neoma Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:17 PM
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23. 6-7
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libpunkmom Donating Member (160 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:19 PM
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24. 2-3
It takes a lot!
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DrWeird Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:34 PM
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33. People with low tolerance are assholes.
Let's just make that perfectly clear.
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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:40 PM
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35. Oh Oh
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laheina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:40 PM
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36. 1
I look at most things as data, but it also depends on my mood. I'm also protective of other people, though.
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last_texas_dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:44 PM
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38. Tough to say
Probably just a 2 or 3... I'm not much offended by what others do/say though I tend to live/behave fairly conservatively myself. I figure that's an alright way to be. And I try not to post things that would offend anybody else (maybe that's why I've been on here over three years and still haven't hit 1500 posts!) just because I hate conflict. And I do slip occasionally... But yeah, that's about where I stand I guess...
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enigmatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:45 PM
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39. make it 99% of the subjects...
Edited on Thu Dec-16-04 09:46 PM by enigmatic
There are 60,000 posters here, and chances are that if everybody went screaming to the mods about threads that they were "offended" by every day, there would be 2 threads left; one asking why DU was so dead, and one thread started by a poster who woffended" the the other thread used the term "dead" in a derogatory manner.


The whole hpersensitive PC garbage is the one true thing I despise about on the left.
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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 10:03 PM
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42. I first did type 99%...honestly
But I didn't want to offend anyone.
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name not needed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 09:47 PM
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41. 1
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Shadowen Donating Member (742 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-16-04 10:09 PM
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43. Depends on the subject matter.
If we get into uncensored sex talk, I'd call myself a 3.

I might be a 4 or 5 on most other subjects.
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