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goodboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 12:52 AM
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Poll question: Is the DU lounge full of Cliques like High School?
Edited on Fri Dec-17-04 01:21 AM by goodboy
CLIQUE: small, exclusive group of people, as in: I wasn't invited to join their clique.


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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 12:53 AM
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1. I can't answer that because the "in the know" clique
doesn't divulge such information.
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arwalden Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:04 AM
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16. Reminds Me Of That One Time... You Remember?
I've got just two words... and you'll know what I'm talking about: Tequila Shooters. This reminds me of that other time when we all started... well, you were there... no need to reveal the details.
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HEyHEY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 12:53 AM
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2. No....
I don't think so. THere may be a few..but it's not full of them
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Lone Pawn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 12:53 AM
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3. I think we should have alternate spellings for "clique."
Like, Q'lik and Khlick.
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Undercover Owl Donating Member (621 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 04:55 AM
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44. you made me laugh, jerk!
I spit a mouthful of cheetos on the monitor.

Q'lik
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 12:55 AM
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4. Like Hey Hey said
There are cliques, but the place isn't crawling with them. I got vrey warm welcomes when I first ventured in.
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RagingInMiami Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 12:56 AM
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5. It all depends, are you a jock, stoner or nerd?
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goodboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 12:56 AM
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6. is that how the groups are defined in the lounge?
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kedrys Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 12:58 AM
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8. And Klingons. See Post #3. :) n/t
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goodboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 12:58 AM
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7. I bet this won't even get 20 posts...
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RagingInMiami Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 12:59 AM
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9. Well, if you were in one of the cliques, you can get all your pals to post
on this thread
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goodboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:01 AM
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10. you mean people in the lounge help each other kick up their
post counts??? NO!
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RagingInMiami Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:01 AM
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13. I'm just kidding
If there are cliques here, I haven't been asked to join.
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goodboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:03 AM
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14. I know...but I wasn't. well...maybe I was...who knows...
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laheina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:01 AM
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11. Not that I've noticed...
But I learn new stuff every day.

Is there something that I should know that nobody is telling me?!!
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Placebo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:01 AM
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12. Absolutely.
Is there anyone who can honestly say "No"?
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:04 AM
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15. Can I be in your clique?
:loveya:
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Placebo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:09 AM
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21. Of course!
:loveya:
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n2mark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:05 AM
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18. I love the DU Lounge
but I find GD a clique. The DU lounge is where I come to have fun.
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Placebo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:10 AM
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22. Eh, the whole DU is ripe with them.
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RagingInMiami Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:14 AM
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24. So Placebo
What are the cliques? The gay clique, the feminist clique, the copy cat clique, the blue state clique, the red state clique, the L.A. clique (which apparently are pretty pissed off at William Pitt)?
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Placebo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:17 AM
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31. And all the ones in between!
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:05 AM
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17. I think in ANY group there are cliques. It's no big deal
The people at DU are warm and welcoming for the most part. And it's ok if they don't invite me to join. I won't whine about it. I see no problem with it, really, it's their choice, .. I mean, it's really ok ... I can deal with it ... I don't have to be involved, honest .. I AM ok with it ... truly.




seriously .. they are everywhere. :)

Once you get to know folks, you're just part of the crowd.
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goodboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:07 AM
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19. then I must be the biggest thread-killer out of the 61000 members here
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RagingInMiami Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:08 AM
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20. No you're not
If you were, then this thread would not have reached 20 posts.
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goodboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:12 AM
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23. betcha this is the last post....
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enigmatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:14 AM
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25. Wrong!
this will be:)
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goodboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:15 AM
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27. ok.
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Zing Zing Zingbah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:15 AM
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28. still wrong.
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goodboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:16 AM
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30. you were right.
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RagingInMiami Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:15 AM
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26. I've noticed there seem to be a few DUers who are concerned about
being thread killers. Perhaps that is a clique in the making.
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goodboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:16 AM
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29. not a bad idea...maybe I should start a thread-killer group.
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RagingInMiami Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:17 AM
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32. But the discussions would all be short-lived
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goodboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:17 AM
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34. with short answers.
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put out Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:23 AM
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39. I have killed many threads.
Now this thread shall be no more. I want to be in the club. Do not respond. I will make my own clique. It will be fun, and a little lonely.
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goodboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:17 AM
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33. thanks to the 2 honest people who don't talk to me....(NT)
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Zing Zing Zingbah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:19 AM
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36. huh? n/t
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goodboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 10:37 AM
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48. make that 3
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WilliamPitt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:18 AM
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35. Can we get a category for 'Who Gives A Fuck?'
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goodboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:21 AM
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38. done.
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WilliamPitt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:23 AM
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40. The Master of My Hotel Room
has voted.
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Cobalt Violet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:21 AM
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37. Being slightly socially retarded, I don't notice stuff like that.
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whirlygigspin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:30 AM
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41. does Bev qualify as a clique of one?
stir,stir mix well, wait...boom
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FuzzySlippers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:32 AM
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42. OK. I'm killing this thread right now.
I don't like all this talk about cliques. Reminds me of how unpopular I am.
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WilliamPitt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 01:33 AM
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43. I'm not dead yet
Think I'll go for a walk.

I feel happy.
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goodboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 08:13 AM
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45. E's shuffled of E's mortal coil...
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Eyeball Kid Donating Member (142 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 08:25 AM
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46. You're not fooling anybody, you know.
This thread will be stone dead in a moment.
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goodboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 10:37 AM
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47. This thread has ceased-to-be....
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realisticphish Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 06:23 PM
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61. it has joined the choir invisible!
it is an ex-thread!


:hippie: The Incorrigible Democrat
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goodboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-18-04 10:06 AM
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68. This thread's metabolic processes are history!
:smoke: :smoke:
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matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 10:39 AM
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49. who likes cheese?
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underpants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 10:47 AM
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50. I do! I do!
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matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 10:53 AM
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52. How about Bocce?
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underpants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 10:55 AM
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53. YES!!!
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matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 11:20 AM
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59. YES!!!!
THAT IS FANTASTIC!!
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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 10:49 AM
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51. full of cliques, but
it's more like elementary school than high school
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trof Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 10:56 AM
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54. Yes. I'm in the Geezer Clique.
Me and 180.
We don't talk to anybody else.
I'm not talking to you right now.
You can talk to me, but I won't talk back.
It's one of our rules.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 10:57 AM
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55. I am an island unto myself.
:hi: Well, I carry a soft spot for fellow Packer fans.
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jeffrey_X Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 10:59 AM
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56. All active message boards have cliques...
It's human nature.
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ProfessorGAC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 11:14 AM
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57. There Are Groups That Converge, But. . .
. . .i wouldn't call it a clique. How would they keep you out if you just started posting on those threads? Answer: They can't If you can't be excluded, then it's not a clique, by the very definition you provided.

But, there are people who, due to geography, or interests, tend to gravitate to one another's posts. No harm in that, and it hardly seems exclusionary.

There are people here that i actually PERSONALLY know. Of course, i'm going to gravitate to the posts of people i know and have spent time with. But, if you were to join into our posts, i can't imagine any of us would ignore you or reject you.

So, i don't really think the word clique applies.
The Professor

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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 11:19 AM
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58. I'm not in a clique. I'm in a gang.
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Cyndee_Lou_Who Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 11:24 AM
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60. Can I start a DU Lounge cult?
PLEEEEEEASSE!! :hi: I need to get outta the 700 club! Hey wait, is that a clique that I should be worried about disenfranchising? :shrug:
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JimmyJazz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 06:30 PM
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63. You're with me now, sistah - one of the Dorkettes!
:hi: Now, let's get drunk and get you out of this 700 club of which you speak!
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FuzzySlippers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 07:07 PM
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64. Hi JimmyJazz!
:hi: I'm getting drunk :beer: and I need to get out of the 700 Club. Pat's been sexually harassing me.
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JimmyJazz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 07:10 PM
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65. Hey there! But, the big question is, are you a Dorkette?
I'm pretty sure you are one of us, but I need to have you verify it! :hi:
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FuzzySlippers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 07:12 PM
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66. I think I could satisfy any definiton of dorkiness
of the female persuasion.
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JimmyJazz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 07:16 PM
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67. Then, you're in.
:hi:
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-17-04 06:29 PM
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62. I'm not in any cliques
I comment where i feel like commenting not because of who made the post.
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Dastard Stepchild Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-18-04 10:17 AM
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69. It's more like the first few weeks of Freshman year...
when I moved to a new city to attend a big new high school and I would sit at the very end of any given cafeteria table next to groups of people that looked interesting in the hopes that they would see me in all of my fabulousness and drag me into their conversations.

i'm kinda like that erratic, circling electron that throws the whole atom into a state of disequilibrium. no self-advocacy skills whatsoever when it comes to making friends. :)
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kittycat1164 Donating Member (616 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-18-04 10:20 AM
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70. The "other site" is up and running
Edited on Sat Dec-18-04 10:21 AM by kittycat1164
Gawd, how much more clique-ish does it get? :eyes:
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