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Fri Dec-17-04 06:19 PM
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when you are attracted to someone for the first time |
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what do you notice about them first? what first attracts you?
we were talking about this at work, and everyone said something completely different, so a poll won't cut it. just let fly.
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:20 PM
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1. Shoulders...a guy with nice shoulders. |
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I am a sucker for broad shoulders and a nice butt. But the shoulders are the first thing I notice.
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:22 PM
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2. One outstanding characteristic--doesn't have to be looks. |
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Edited on Fri Dec-17-04 06:23 PM by tjdee
Something different about them... like, with one guy it was the way everyone was dancing, and he wasn't.
With one guy it was that he moved his hands a lot while he was talking.
One guy kept making everyone in his party laugh, and he was sitting on the table.
Etc.
I'll be interested to read the other responses, I think men are more visual than women (of course, women appreciate good looks too)...
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:22 PM
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3. I'm a sucker for a pretty smile. |
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:22 PM
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4. Intelligence and their sense of humor. Really. Okay and a nice |
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ass doesn't hurt anything, either.
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:22 PM
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5. It's usually a combination of things, nice smile, hair, eyes etc. |
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But I always make it a point to check out her butt.
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:27 PM
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12. ALERT ALERT - Objectifying butts! |
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oh, wait - I did, too. Nevermind. Move along :hi: nothing to see here...
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:23 PM
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6. Eyes, smile, and something indescribable. |
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I have never been able to 'label' what 'it' is about the men I am attracted to ... it's almost an instinctive, hormonal thing that's a combination of personality, intellect, the way they carry themselves, and 'vibe'.
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:23 PM
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But sometimes people that are physically attractive quickly become unattractive because of personality and vice versa.
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:23 PM
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8. The way she walks. n/t |
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:24 PM
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Make me laugh and I melt... :loveya:
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:25 PM
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11. Is that why you love me? Do I make you laugh? |
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:loveya: too - pass the wine please :7
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:32 PM
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19. How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.... |
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Oh, darlin' - that and so much more!! :hug: :loveya:
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:24 PM
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10. Demeanor. The way they carry themselves. No open books. |
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Mystery. Intrigue. Not looks, looks are secondary. But they certainly don't hurt.
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:33 PM
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21. mystery and intrigue for me too. |
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:59 PM
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The way he uses language, easy quips, sorta of a sangfroid attitude.
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Fri Dec-17-04 11:12 PM
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36. Hi Centipede Shoes, I like your name. |
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:27 PM
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13. i'm gonna say it - a nice ass is good. |
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but i'm also attracted to their eyes and their voice.
oh, and i have a thing for hands. it's weird. but i do.
after all of that, the person has to intrigue me and make me laugh.
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:28 PM
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14. Boobs, back in the day. |
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50s-60s, that was the first thing I noticed. I'm a LOT older, and a little wiser now. Hey - you asked.
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:31 PM
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and you know you still like the boobs. it's okay, i like nice butts, i admit it ;)
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:28 PM
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15. Depends on the guy. With some, it's eyes, with others it's smile. |
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With still others, it's the way they walk, their clothes, or their bod.
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:31 PM
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16. the way they walk, good one. |
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:31 PM
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17. someone who makes me laugh has my immediate attention.... |
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...after that it's the smile...and then how he treats the waitress.
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:32 PM
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20. The eyes make or break the deal. |
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If I see some guy who is incredibly hot, and we make eye contact, and I can discern no intelligence or basic sentience behind the eyes, suddenly he might as well be the foulest insect in the darkest cave in the deepest jungle, for all that I care. The attraction is gone.
On the other hand, there have been guys who, looks-wise, were really nothing special, or who were downright funny-looking, but when our eyes met, there was something there, some spark. And then, I don't care what they looked like, I was like, va-va-va-voom!
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:57 PM
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23. Hallo zere, mine friend !!! |
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Fri Dec-17-04 06:59 PM
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I have been insanely attracted to only 2 men in my life. Hubby being the most important one and there is another. But both of them had the same effect on me. When our eyes met - I felt it to my toes.
*phew*
Oh yeah a full beard helps too!
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Fri Dec-17-04 07:00 PM
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I look deep into their soul, no wait. that's the little bushturd.
But the eyes have it.
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Fri Dec-17-04 07:02 PM
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Figuratively speaking, of course.
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Fri Dec-17-04 07:21 PM
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28. eyes, smile, intelligence and a sense of humor |
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Fri Dec-17-04 07:29 PM
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30. As an artist, I'm usually drawn to faces... |
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Unique faces, expressive faces, faces that may seem common at first then show new beauty after you study them closer. Hair and body and type come after wards for me.
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Fri Dec-17-04 07:42 PM
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31. pheromones, intellect, and ass..in that order usually... |
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Fri Dec-17-04 07:48 PM
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confidence, confidence, confidence and looks sorry for being so vain. a certain comfort level for themselves. I love confidence not arrogance, sexy, sexy, sexy....... mmmmmm, mmmmmm, yummy!!!
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Fri Dec-17-04 07:55 PM
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I was hooked from the instant he smiled at me...
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Fri Dec-17-04 07:56 PM
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34. Hands. Hands do it for me all the time. |
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Fri Dec-17-04 09:17 PM
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I'm definitely More attracted to taller men initially.
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Fri Dec-17-04 11:49 PM
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37. Not into looks....love Intelligent men, but . . . |
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Of course when you first see someone you first notice their appearance, which is one of the problems with today's society. We put a lot of stock in how a person looks. Looks are not all that important to me. As long as the person is neat and clean and seems like a gentlemen I'll delve further and see what makes them tick. I've had my share of prettyboys and those buffed-up dudes and it's nice for a hot minute, but it doesn't last. Give me an intellectual any day. Nothing makes my boat float more than intelligence. Too sexy!
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Fri Dec-17-04 11:51 PM
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Fri Dec-17-04 11:58 PM
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:evilgrin: The whole package that is...
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Sat Dec-18-04 12:11 AM
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40. a great smile... and an easy laugh... |
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everything else is fairly irrelevant. Though a bit of intelligence doesn't hurt either :)
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Sat Dec-18-04 12:14 AM
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41. Wicked glints in the eyes |
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Then intelligence and humor, especially of the verbally adept sort--by which I do NOT mean bad puns.
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Sat Dec-18-04 12:15 AM
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Both reveal how they see the world.
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