The best BDSM movie of all time...

[TXlib]

"9 to 5"

Yes, really!

I was prolly only about 10 when it came out, but it always made me feel funny in my "special place".

There are definitely some kinky femdom/bondage elements to that movie!

[VelmaD]

1. PERV!!!

:P

[TXlib]

3. And that's why you love me!

Now get back to work, and stop frittering my tax dollars away online, you slaggard!

[VelmaD]

5. Well, you know what they say...

we always hurt the ones we love. Now BENT OAFER!!! :spank:

[TXlib]

28. I could use a little hurting...

Could you talk to KCDem about the finer points of paddling?

[VelmaD]

39. Come on down to GOPisEvil's New Year's Eve Party...

and I'll see what I can do. ;)

[GOPisEvil]

69. Yeah come on down!

I owe you a party or two.

[Sannum]

2. I was thinking 'The Passion'

[jonnyblitz]

51. that was the worst BDSM move...

:P

[derby378]

4. What? No "Pulp Fiction?"

Bring out the gimp...

[HCeline69]

6. Secretary

Runner Up: Quills
Special Mention: the scene from "The Magic Christian" where Racquel Welch plays The Priestess of the Whip"

[rbnyc]

7. yup! (nt)

[ET Awful]

9. Secretary ruled, and Maggie Gyllenhaal can submit to me anytime :)

:bounce:

[TXlib]

33. Not my preference

I would far rather be spanked than spank.

[ET Awful]

37. I don't care which as long as Maggie Gyllenhaal is involved :) n/t

[pdx_prog]

13. I have to agree....

Secretary dealt with the underlying reasons why people turn to self mutilation and D/s.

It's not a choice for some people.....they need that punishment and pain...:)

[Debbi801]

14. Yes, they need the punishment, but...

I know it never occurred to me to self-mutilate. :shrug:

Don't get me wrong, I absolutely love that movie, but that was the one piece I didn't get.

[KinkyDem]

30. I have met several prationers of BDSM who...

take serius objection to that movie.

I liked it, a lot.

The big problem many in the community have with the movie is that it portrays the femsub as sort of broken and that BDSM is just an extension of that. I saw it as BDSM was a healthier alternitive to cutting and brought the two main charetors together.

What can I say, I love a love story.

[Debbi801]

50. That's it exactly...

It continues that "this is unhealthy" belief.

Other than that, I thought it was an awesome movie and we love watching it.

[KinkyDem]

54. I saw the entire thing a little differently though

I saw it as a woman struggling with impulses she didn't understand and so acted on them poorly, by harming herself. When she met and fell in love with the lawyer they were both able to finaly act on and enjoy in healthy ways there unique sexualities.

I say she was not sick, just tricked by society to think she was.

[redqueen]

65. Wow

I was just thinking about that last night, actually... about being 'broken' and if that's why... strange.

[Kire]

78. those "pratitioners" need to chill

they seem to be so protective of their "culture" that they don't see what you said about the "healthier alternative". Sure, you put cutting and BDSM in the same movie, it is easy to confuse the two. But, instead of pouting and complaining about it, recognize that there was a transformation involved in this story, and start writing on posts like this.

If they continue to do that shit, I'm gonna start SPANKING and I'm not going to STOP!

[NashVegas]

74. Underlying Reasons

It showed us *how* Maggie's character was "different," but I can't recall the why.

Great movie though.

[auntAgonist]

80. D/s isn't always about punishment and pain

It is about hierarchy. Dominant personality, submissive personality. Not to be confused with sadism and masochism.

Too many people don't understand the dynamics. It's greatly misunderstood by non practitioners.

[redqueen]

17. I am really going to have to rent Secretary.

Keep hearing about that movie...

[Debbi801]

20. It was very good on a lot of levels...

I could relate to the whole SAS portrayal at the end.

You definitely need to rent it. We rented it and then went out and bought it.

Although, my comments about it may have outed me to my parents. LOL

[redqueen]

24. Okay, I'm stumped...

SAS?

[Debbi801]

46. smart ass sub

[KinkyDem]

55. Heh

I've never heard that one, SAM I've seen.

Smart Ass Masochist

[Debbi801]

56. Same principle.

[redqueen]

62. Now I really do have to see this

Really I do

[KinkyDem]

64. Go see Secratary

this little tanget had NOTHING to do with the movie though.

[ET Awful]

40. You MUST see it redqueen :)

Trust me on this one.

[CanuckAmok]

59. Redqueen, YOU have not seen "Secretary"?!

Damn, they wrote and produced it just for you...the least you could do is watch it.

[redqueen]

61. hehehehehe

Hey!

I'm confused.

Is that an insult?

Are you threatening me?

[KinkyDem]

66. I went out and bought my girl

a red sharpie after seeing this movie ... figure it out.

[redqueen]

67. Oooh I like the suspense!

:)

[LiberalFighter]

19. Hmm I seem to remember a movie in the 70's with Racquel Welch...

that involved kinky scenes. Didn't Myra Breckenridge have some wild stuff?

[tjdee]

75. James Spader......looovveeeee....

Very strange little movie, :thumbsup:

[skygazer]

8. Blue Velvet n/t

[amazona]

57. definitely Blue Velvet , somebody gets it

Secretary and 9 and a half weeks are for the amateurs. Fantasy should be more extreme than what you could actually do IRL!

[redqueen]

63. I'm with you on that one!

:loveya:

[Debbi801]

10. ROFL. No Way!!

That is not in my collection at all...

Secretary is number one and then 9 1/2 weeks.

Why aren't there more real D/s movies out there?

[KinkyDem]

31. try

Killing me Softly

Very interesting movie, some fantastic scenes.

[Debbi801]

48. Thanks. We'll have to look for that.

[TXlib]

34. So...

Are you a D or an s?

[Debbi801]

45. LOL...

I don't have a dominant bone in my body.

[Debbi801]

11. As a serious question...

Is anyone here really into this or is it just fun to watch the movies?

[derby378]

15. Do you expect folks to whip and tell?

:silly:

[redqueen]

16. That's a personal question.

But yeah, I am.

[Debbi801]

22. Sorry. I've hesitated posting the question, but...

The title of this thread kinda encouraged me to.

I don't get much chance to "meet" others. :-)

Debbi

[truebrit71]

26. There are alot more of "us" than many realize....

...

[LiberalFighter]

21. Better to participate than watch anytime...

provided that is what both enjoys.

[KinkyDem]

32. Waves

Yes, I am in a 12 year relationship with my submissive and we are semi active in the local DC Fetish Scene.

[Debbi801]

36. Hey there...

7 yrs or so here, 5 married. We used to do the DC scene (MD clubs, too, occasionally) often. Haven't for quite a while.

[KinkyDem]

42. Kick ass

Are you still in the DC area?

[Debbi801]

47. We're in Maryland.

[auntAgonist]

79. waves~~

[BuddhaGirl]

76. Yes, my husband and I play with with that energy

we both thought Secretary had some very hot scenes, especially the first spanking scene. ;-)

[Deja Q]

12. The last great film of the working man. Well, in this case,

woman.

Hollywuss doesn't even give us reality-oriented fantasy movies where we get back at our money-grubby bo$$es anymore.

[Wickerman]

18. King of Comedy

great bondage scenes there, though Jerry Lewis was definitely not into it.

[Debbi801]

23. Ya know, the idea of Jerry Lewis in bondage...

Just isn't that appealing to me.

[yardwork]

25. The idea of Jerry Lewis at all is not appealing to me

[Wickerman]

27. Greasy dyed black hair, heavy perspiration and thick rimmed

glasses? What's not to like? :D

[mitchum]

29. Pasolini's "Salo" is the handsdown winner

[jonnyblitz]

52. I don't dare to watch that movie.

I have heard so much about it. :scared:

[Divine Discontent]

35. pervs.... lol!! n/t

[derby378]

38. One Night At McCool's

"Mistress" Liv Tyler? You better believe it...what would Dad say? :silly:

[LongTomH]

60. The Lady Arwean as a Domme?

"Mistress" Liv Tyler? You better believe it...what would Dad say? :silly:

Be still my beating heart!:loveya:

[Touchdown]

41. The Road Warrior

What sick, leather queen on a diesel fantasy wrote that one?

[short bus president]

43. I dunno - but I betcha it's German.

;-)

[derby378]

44. Now you've got me on a SPROCKETS kick...

Germany's Most Disturbing Home Videos!

RAAAAAUUUUGGGGHHHHHH!!!!

Don't forget the ants... :evilgrin:

[VelmaD]

49. CLOWN UP!!!

AND BENT OAFER!!! :spank:

[HamdenRice]

53. The Matrix!!! And Larry Wachowski is a sub!

The first Matrix film has a lot of hidden BDSM content. Not surprising considering that one of the co-creators, Larry Wachowski, "came out" at Cannes with his Mistress, the West Coast's most famous dominatrix, Mistress Ilsa Strix,



and then Wachowski began a gender transformation.



They apparently became so serious that Wachowski left his wife for Mistress Ilsa, and this led to a very nasty divorce:

http://www.nydailynews.com/front/story/85822p-78292c.html

Judge ties up assets of 'Matrix' man

'Matrix" co-director Larry Wachowski has been hogtied by his wife in court. Amid published reports that he left spouse Thea Bloom for a bondage mistress, a Los Angeles Superior Court judge has frozen the assets of the multimillionaire filmmaker.

"Larry was been extremely dishonest with me in our personal life, and I believe he is hiding information from me regrading our financial affairs," Bloom claims in a court filing. Bloom, who has been married to the former construction worker for nine years, doesn't mention "Ilsa Strix," the professional name of the woman who reputedly has become Wachowski's domi-"Matrix."
<snip>
A production company that might benefit from all those millions is ReStrix, the bondage-porn outfit run by Mistress Ilsa. Titles starring the dominatrix include "Dance of the Whip," "Ilsa's Foot Slave," and "Toe Slave 2: The Next Step."

[NewJeffCT]

58. I thought that story was debunked?

But, I haven't followed it that closely.

[derby378]

71. Mistress Ilsa, nee Karen Winslow

Wasn't she also married to a dominator before running off with Larry?

[HamdenRice]

73. No I think she was married to ...

a transgendered MTF person. Larry Wachowski therefore probably fits her preference.

[HCeline69]

68. Only for a select few

If you think John Waters is a romantic and Herschell Gordon Lewis films are hysterically funny, you might enjoy a little tidbit entitled: "Bloodsucking Freaks" (1972). There is a quite a lot of BDSM in this little charmer, but be warned: this is only for people who have a high tolerance for Bad Taste, Political Incorrectness, and Sick, Sick Humor. It is a Troma Production. If you don't know what Troma Production means, I would hazard a guess that this film is not for you. I'm not kidding.
I laughed through the whole thing.

[derby378]

72. But Troma picked up CANNIBAL! THE MUSICAL

This means they have discriminating tastes. :silly:

Thank you, Trey and Matt! (And you too, Dian...)

[Pierre Trudeau]

77. Correction....

Strictly speaking, Bloodsucking Freaks is not "a Troma Production". I don't think Troma existed back in 1972. It was an independent exploitation film that was later picked up for video distribution by Troma. It is kinda funny if you have the right sense of humour, but also a reliable way to offend all the women in your life.

As for H. G. Lewis, even HIS special effects were superior to those employed in Bloodsucking Freaks.

I once had the pleasure of interviewing Ray Sager who played "The Wizard Of Gore". He continues to work as a Toronto-based TV and film producer. For example, he is the exec. producer of "The Eleventh Hour".

[HCeline69]

81. Thanks for clarifying

I wondered about the dating as well, but the nice people on the DVD seemed to imply it was a Troma film. I'm glad to get this straight.

[SarahB]

70. I can understand that.

:)