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terrya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-25-05 12:01 PM
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Do you mind people standing over your shoulder while you're trying to work
Bugs the hell out of me, frankly.

"I'll do whatever you need me to do...please just go. Thank you"
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-25-05 12:04 PM
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1. Are you kidding? I thought everyone hated that.
I also thought it was well-known to be rude and unprofessional behavior.
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liberal N proud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-25-05 12:05 PM
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2. OK! I am out of here
Just get it done yesterday morning, OK?
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-25-05 12:05 PM
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3. I can't stand it. I can't stand having anyone over my shoulder when
I'm even trying to play around on the computer.
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-25-05 12:06 PM
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4. That's when I usually
get all frustrated and say something really nasty even to people I would normally like. They have no idea what it does to me. It makes my skin crawl.
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ET Awful Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-25-05 12:07 PM
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5. Agreed.
Bugs the crap out of me.
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mopinko Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-25-05 12:07 PM
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6. usually, yes, but
i am always chasing my family around with drafts of my buttons saying- can you read this, do you get this? they are getting tired of me. sigh.

:hi: terrya
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Reverend_Smitty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-25-05 12:07 PM
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7. One of my professors does that...
when I'm talking to an athlete or trying to do an injury evaluation. It makes me really nervous and I don't need people breathing down my neck when I'm trying to work. If I need help, I'll ask for it...evaluate me from a distance please!
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Arkana Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-25-05 12:09 PM
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8. I hate that
It makes me make more mistakes than I usually would. I HATE being watched.
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seaglass Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-25-05 12:10 PM
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9. Try having someone sitting beside you jacking into your
phone line so they can listen to your calls with a customer.

I understand the need for monitoring, but please do it somewhere else!
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nickinSTL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-25-05 12:13 PM
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10. hate it...
In my case, the department phone is right behind my desk, so when people get calls, they stand right behind me :mad:

I HATE that. I know they aren't there to look over my shoulder, but it's still unpleasant.
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parasim Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-25-05 12:32 PM
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11. Yeah, it's times like that where I wish...
... I had the gift of flatulence-on-demand.
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-25-05 12:36 PM
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12. Agh! Agh! That makes me NUTS! But even worse
is the fact that I have a large office chair (because it's one of those Bodybilt ergonomic ones) and not only do people hanging over my shoulder bump into it, but I have to tell them to move before I can move the chair so the rollers don't run over their feet!

(Maybe a crushed toe or two would get the message across, come to think of it.)

I can't stand even my WIFE doing that, and we have a damn good relationship otherwise.

Redstone
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madison2000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-25-05 12:38 PM
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13. I love it even more when my asshat supervisor
stands over me and swings his ID badge around hundreds of times. It really makes me feel trusted and valued and makes me more productive.
:grr: evilfrown: :puke: :nuke: :grr: evilfrown: :puke: :nuke: :grr: evilfrown: :puke: :nuke: :grr: evilfrown: :puke: :nuke: :grr: evilfrown: :puke: :nuke: :grr: evilfrown: :puke: :nuke: :grr: evilfrown: :puke: :nuke: :grr: evilfrown: :puke: :nuke:
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Ready4Change Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-25-05 12:40 PM
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14. 100% Yes I mind it.
1) Indicates a lack of trust in the employee. You don't trust me? Fire me.

2) It's a distraction. I want to work at my best efficiency. When someone stands behind me it splits my attention, and my work suffers.

3) People hardly ever just "stand behind" to watch someone work. A person who does that is generally a back seat driver, and THAT bugs the living SH*T out of me. I'm not a puppet, nor a prosthetic extension of your will. You want the work done PRECISELY your way? YOU sit down and do it youself.

4) Don't YOU have work of your own to do? Why the hell are you wasting time standing behind me, slack *ss?

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