Gentlemen....

[THUNDER HANDS]

Do you think the ladies are being honest when they say they prefer brains to looks?

[underpants]

1. What? No third option?

:evilgrin::bounce::evilgrin:

[supernova]

2. Let me guess,

She loves you because you are beautiful? :crazy:

[underpants]

20. No ironcially she loves me for my wiggle room

but Magic rat says non e of that

:bounce:

Thank you thank you enjoy the buffet :hi:

[THUNDER HANDS]

3. nope

No wiggle room on this issue.

[RC]

4. Yes and no.

It helps to have some of both.

[supernova]

5. You know the fallacy in this?

You are assuming that most men are in fact, for lact of a better word, Butt-ugly. That the question is really Ugly or Good Looking.

In fact, most men are rather average looking. That have some good physical characteristics (I love his eyes!, Oh what a great burly chest! He looks great when he runs!) So are most women.

[DoNotRefill]

6. Yup....I'm ugly as a fence post....

but have a great big brain coupled with an almost lethal dose of self-confidence. Never had any trouble finding women to spend time with. Of course, my tongue is also 14 inches long.... ;-)

[supernova]

7. Are you free?

my tongue is also 14 inches long

Hmmm, imagination taking over....

[DoNotRefill]

16. Nope, married.

Like 1/2 of all good men.... :)

[GainesT1958]

8. One other option WOULD figure in:

That they prefer MONEY to either! :eyes:

Of course, let's face it, gentlemen: back in the 80s, women didn't flock to see the Chippendales for their excessive brainpower!:eyes:

B-)

[Birthmark]

9. Yep.

They do. Otherwise, I would have been one lonely...so and so.

[Cush]

10. F#ck No

And it doesn't help that I'm only 5'5'ish....short guys are always single

[HEyHEY]

11. women are liars

they'll do it... hic do.... it to ya everytime hic.....

[JVS]

13. the proper term is "lying whores". Continue drinking and try again.

:-)

[HEyHEY]

14. Alz I knoiw....alz I know...is that their...hic...evil money hordin..hic

harpies...

[underpants]

21. But my beer hereth loveth me

:beer: ;(

[Cat Atomic]

12. It's hard for me to tell, because I'm

a revoltingly handsome super genius.

[Another Bill C.]

15. My experience

Years ago our band had an engineer, a medical student, a successful inventor, and a bartender who often told us his IQ was 90. Three of us were at least average looking and maybe a little better. The bartender looked like the young Frank Sinatra and was the ultimate "love 'em and leave 'em" type. Guess who the women chased. I often had the honor of driving the disappointed ones home. It was him or nothing. I learned back then that what women were really looking for and what they said they were looking for were nearly opposites.

[wryter2000]

17. As one of the ladies who voted

I don't doubt your experience for a minute. Some women (largely because of low self-esteem) go after exactly the wrong kind of guy.

However, let's remember that the question was asked at DU. And while we might like to look at Chippendales (I'm a romance novelist and love to hang out with the male cover models at the Romantic Times conventions), I don't want to spend my days with them unless they can carry on an intelligent conversation.

[patdem]

18. If anyone has been in a relationship for more than 6 months you must know

the first thing one overlooks is the appearance of the other person. Who would want a good looking shrew? The person who is a shrew begins to 'look' like a shrew after about 6 months and the 'beauty' wears thin. No, give me someone with the ability to carry on an intelligent conversation and even if he was the 'hunchback of Notre Dame' it could over time be completely ignored. Remember the 'Elephant man'...he was so intelligent people began to forget that he looked what I like to call 'attractive'. I say that because it attracts attention. I also said the common denominator between Elizabeth Taylor and the Elephan Man is that they were both 'attractive'...or attracted attention!!

If beauty was SO important why has Elizabeth Taylor been divorced so many times????

[ewagner]

19. It must be true

my wife married me..........

[damnraddem]

22. No, but then the guys aren't being honest when they say similar things.

Sexual attraction just isn't rational.

[Aristus]

23. My wife still loves me and thinks I'm sexy,

but she never stops mourning the loss of my pecs and abs. She's always drooling over Brendan Fraser, and I don't think it's because of his brain!

[FarLeftRage]

24. No, because if that were the case

I would have been married years ago...

[Deja Q]

25. According to compuserve,

What women want most in a man:

1. Faithful partner: 54 percent
2. Respect the other person's independence: 40 percent
3. Ability to listen: 35 percent
4. Physical attraction: 13 percent
5. Being good in bed: 6 percent

[KoKo]

26. Oh Magic.....what a nice post..SERIOUSLY....Gentlemen

I love that (oh what's the proper grammatical term)....er....I love that "Address."

And, I mean that.....! I still like to be called a Lady........LOL's......I know weird disgusting.....blech....nosuch thing exists...and you really were just being funny, sarcastic...whatever.

Still...it was nice to hear..and I am bold enough to spit it out! LOL's really.

[BlueJazz]

27. Dumb Plastic Women like...

...Dumb Plastic Men.

[ForrestGump]

28. Yes...at least,

I hope so. No, really - yes, at least the kind of woman that I'd be interested in, certainly for a long-term relationship.

No denying that physicality must have an initial role, but over the long haul it doesn't mean much at all (and, besides, it tends to change :-) ).