So I met this woman....

[Champ]

She is a co-worker and I first seen her Monday. Friday I got her # but she seems real nice and like a really good person. I want things so bad to work out that I'm afraid of messing this up. I realize it isn't the end of world if it doesn't, but it is so hard for me to get into a relationship with a good woman. It is easy to get into one with low self-esteem, personal problems, and(or) doesn't completely respect you as a person. I worry so much because of how bad things went with the last one. She is so down to earth I can't really imagining things going sour unless I do something really messed up(I'm not that kind of guy, I do everything I can not to hurt someone in anyway). I hope all goes well.

Not really a purpose to this post, just felt like expressing.

[BelleCarolinaPeridot]

1. I wish you well ...

but I never go for love at the workplace . Too many problems arise . If it goes sour , you still have to see them . But that's just me .

[Champ]

3. I don't really see it as that

I'm in the same boat you are about the co-worker thing, believe me which is why I made a point of it. I just don't see her as a co-worker if you know what I mean. I didn't even know she worked there since well, this Monday. I'll tell you one thing, there aren't many women who are like her(I'm sure there are many here at DU, but none of you live near me) which is why I want things to work out. I haven't this way for someone in over a year, in fact almost 3!

I wasn't really looking for it, things just kinda happened. It is hard to explain, I gave someone who wanted to know a detailed day-by-day description of our interactions.

[Lydia Leftcoast]

2. Stop thinking about your own reactions!

Just go out and have a good time.

[Champ]

4. That is what I keep telling myself

Like I said, I shouldn't be worried about it if I really think about it.

[Champ]

5. Going to bed

Actually looking foward to work! I never look foward to work :silly:

[Heidi]

6. What do you mean by "work out"?

Good luck to you, Champ. You'd probably be more relaxed, and so would this woman, if enjoying one another's company a day at a time were the goal, rather than having it "work out." :hi: