Quick Question - If you know anything about Eagle Scouts....

[DustMolecule]

My daughter has been invited to attend an "Eagle Scout Court of Honor" for one of her HS friends. Reception afterward. (I guess this means that he will now be an Eagle Scout?)

My question: Is it appropriate/should she bring a gift?

TIA

[GOPisEvil]

1. Not necessary, but appreciated.

I got gifts from a few family friends, but they were small. I really don't remember mine well, but I sure don't recall a huge mound of gifts. I got some cash gifts in cards, I think.

It was 1983. Wow. 1983. Whew - time flies.

[SpiralHawk]

2. The main thing is to honor the lad for his accomplishment

That's what the honor court is all about. just showing up is the key -- demonstrating that you recognize his accomplishment, and it is one. That alone makes it a memorable experience.

In situations like this, I always look for a beautiful feather, or stone, or something wonderful from nature that the young man or woman can keep through life as a reminder of the honor they have earned. I beathe into a pinch of tobacco (chief of the herbs) and then put it to the ground and ask help. Then I set out on a walk through the forest until the feather or stone or whatever calls my attention. I offer tobacco to what I find and Ask Permission to take it. That's the key thing with a gift from spirit., asking permission. When I feel right with that, I pick up the gift, carry it home and get it ready for gifting at the ceremony. That is one way to honor a fledgling Eagle. I've known lots of Eagle nation people over the years, of all ages. They don't need it, but they do appreciate a show of respect when they honestly merit it. In my book, Eagle Scout counts.

One of Yr. basic wizzened Star Scouts of Yesteryear,
Who Wandered off Early on His Own Sky Pathway,
SH

[DustMolecule]

3. Sounds like small, "well-thought out gift" is appropriate

Thank you for your advice.