Did you ever notice...

[texas1928]

that when you held your SO that it just fit. I have dated a lot of girls in my time, and yeah it was fun to hold hands and hug and all that stuff. But, they did not feel right. When I met my wife, I knew she was the one, she fit. I did not feel uncomfortable, or out of place. She fit in my arms. I don't know any other way to explain it. She fit, I liked the way she felt in my arms.

Ok enough of me being sappy.

[Magrittes Pipe]

1. Yeah.

Fitting is nice.

[NoSheep]

2. I always think we fit well then he tells me I have sharp knees :(

[texas1928]

5. Hey my wife has boney elbows.

But I don't mind it. I think she is great no matter what. When you find the right one they will not mind your knees.

[NoSheep]

9. I'll let him know you said that! LOL!!!!

:spray: :rofl:

[texas1928]

10. Well he needs to get over it.

All I do is move her arm when she is poking me with those elbows. And don't whine about it.

[NoSheep]

19. I mentioned this to him last night and he said I do what he calls the

Star Defense Formation in the middle of the night! But reassured me he loves me anyway! lol

[redqueen]

3. Yeah.

I remember that.

[Shell Beau]

4. That is so true. My husband and I fit perfectly. No one else ever came

close. Of course we started dating when we were 15, but we did date other people for a little bit and it just was never right.

[TheProphetess]

6. Finding that fit is a real eye-opener too

You don't realize it's not there until you find the one who truly fits. The physical fit is important, for when you're holding each other, "spooning," and all of that but the mental fit is really noticeable too. Like having the same sense of humor, interests, intellect, etc.

The first day I met my SO, I felt like I knew him forever. There were no ackward silences or weird feelings - we just fit (and still do). :)

[tjdee]

8. That's right--

that's why every time I hear that there's not a "soul mate" or a perfect fit, I have to laugh.

They don't believe it until it happens.

Of coursin'.....I had that and he's marrying someone else this year. :nopity:

[bugslsu9]

7. Yes I did notice

When my wife and I are laying in bed, she fits absolutely perfectly in my arm. And I most certainly agree that when you find that person it just does feel right. I knew right away that it was right with my wife. Met in Dec. of 02, engaged July '03, married last Sept. The best decision I have ever made!

Even though she doesn't post, :loveya: to my wife!!!!

[Maddy McCall]

11. OMG...I have said that so many times to people...

and them not understand what I was saying.

YES. There is a physical fit when you are with someone, and you can feel it when you snuggle.

[redqueen]

12. This thread makes me sad.

That 'better to have loved and lost' saying is BULLSHIT.

[Lavender Brown]

13. ...

:(

[redqueen]

15. Sorry... don't mean to be a downer, but really...

once you've had that feeling, you know what you're missing.

I can honestly say I wish I didn't know.

[NoSheep]

20. Here's a hug too:

:hug:

[texas1928]

16. Well did not mean to make you sad.

Sorry.

:hug:

[GirlinContempt]

18. I'm with you, redqueen

[skygazer]

14. Yeah, I know that feeling

I recognized it the first night we went out. We were both 40 and had both been married and divorced twice and we were both completely gunshy yet when we went out that night, it was as if we'd been together forever. I told a friend who asked how it went the next day, "he's the one I've been waiting for all my life."

That was 4 1/2 years ago.....

[CaliforniaPeggy]

17. Yes, this is completely true.

My husband and I always felt comfortable in each other's arms. Last night, he came over in bed and snuggled with me, and it was so delicious...Just the perfect fit, you got it! And you are NOT being sappy, just a little sentimental, and that's a good thing to be now and then.


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