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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 04:30 PM
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I hide threads with the word "douche" or some variant of it in the subject
Seriously, I think its demeaning to women. JMHO
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 04:31 PM
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1. .
:rofl:











Wait, this is a joke, right?
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Cooley Hurd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 04:31 PM
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2. Did you hide your own thread?
It does have the word 'douche' in it...;)
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Swede Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 04:33 PM
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3. It is the French word for shower.
Are you an anti-Frenchite?
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Goldmund Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 04:33 PM
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4. LOL
:rofl:

Do you also scrub your monitor with garlic?
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OldLeftieLawyer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 04:36 PM
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5. I think hiding threads with the word "douche" in them ...
.... is rampantly sexist.

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Rick Myers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 04:36 PM
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6. Don't be a shower!
;)
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BikeWriter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 04:37 PM
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7. This thread is on ignore.
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matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 04:38 PM
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8. VINEGAR IS EEEEVVVVIIIILLLLLLL
and water is satan's blood

and your thread is wierd
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 04:40 PM
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9. It means shower in French
Je me suis douchée à 6h hier matin.
I showered at 6 yesterday morning.
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wallwriter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 04:44 PM
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10. What about "douchebag?"
That's another story entirely.
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sniffa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 04:46 PM
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11. he said variant
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wallwriter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 04:56 PM
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15. True, but people keep saying "shower,"
And I thought I'd just broaden the spectrum of meaning just a bit.
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 04:46 PM
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12. I think douche ads are demeaning to women
Edited on Thu May-26-05 04:49 PM by LeftyMom
with the implication that we're dirty. After all, there's no special ballskin wash for men.

"Douche" as insult is stupid and tacky, but it isn't sexist because smart women don't use that shit.
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matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 04:48 PM
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13. you said "ballskin"
:rofl:
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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 04:50 PM
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14. Calling someone a "douchebag" is meant to insult or demean someone
by implying that they are as nasty as women's genitals. When I see someone using that as an insult, 99% of the time they are male, and I infer from it that they really despise women.
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sniffa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 04:59 PM
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16. aLrighty then
see ya
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wallwriter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 05:04 PM
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17. A former boss of mine used to use say the word on occasion
And we made fun of him because it sounded ridiculous. George Carlin also had a line or two about that word on one of his albums--funny because of how silly it was. It would be demeaning to women if anyone took the word seriously as an insult, but I don't think anyone has in a few decades.
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 05:05 PM
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18. haaahaahaaahaahaha! Ballskin wash!
I gotta invent some tonight! That sounds like a niche that really needs to be exploited!

:evilgrin:
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 05:11 PM
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19. Make it flavored and you'll retire a billionare
I weant a cut, 'cause it's my idea.
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enigmatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 05:24 PM
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21. Ballskin Wash is a GREAT name for a band...
I may have to get another one together just for that...
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trof Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 05:26 PM
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22. I think yer on to something.
Maybe with an exfoliant for that smoooooth look?

"MEN! Embarrassed by BSO* and an overly hirsute scrotum?
You NEED the all new, non-toxic, bio-degradable, user-friendly
SCRO-NEET!
Choose from he-man fragrances of Saddle Leather, Ribs-On-The-Grill, or
Lime-Green-John-Deere.

Available at selected Rite Aids, Walgreens, Eckards everywhere."

oh yeah
;-)

*Bad Scrotum Odor


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Blue-Jay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 06:33 PM
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34. Bag Balm?


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trof Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 05:15 PM
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20. Ballskin? I've never heard "ballskin".
Scrotum?
yep
Even nutsack.
But never before ballskin.
Could be a whole new thang.
"Hey, bubba. How's yer ballskin hangin'?"
I dunno
:shrug:
Is this an Ess-Eee-Ex thread?
;-)
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skygazer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 07:13 PM
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38. Yeah, but there are "jock itch" products
What lovely mental pictures that brings up!
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demily Donating Member (114 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 05:31 PM
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23. I'm a woman and I use it all the time
Edited on Thu May-26-05 05:32 PM by demily
I just think it's a funny word. I say goddamn all the time too and I don't even believe in God. Once words become swear words they lose most of their original meaning, if you ask me.

On Edit: I also call people dicks, is that demeaning to men?
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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 05:51 PM
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26. I think they lose their force for the user, but not for other people
who hear it.

I say "shit" and it doesn't seem like swearing to me, but its offensive to my mother and to some other people I know who don't swear that much. And forget about anything stronger than that. She thinks "fart" is the F word.

On the "dicks" question, you'd have to get feedback from men.
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demily Donating Member (114 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 05:52 PM
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27. What about pussy? n/t
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 05:35 PM
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24. Personally, I've found that as long as it's being used perjoratively
and not as part of an insult directed at a woman, my hackles stay down.
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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 05:45 PM
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25. It usually is directed at men when people use it, but to me
it also insults every woman within earshot.
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name not needed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 05:54 PM
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28. Ironically, I accidentally ignored this thread a few seconds ago.
I can be such a douche sometimes :spank:
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 06:19 PM
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29. Douche is unhealthy for women.
It forces dangerous bacteria up and can kill the beneficial bacteria. In other words, don't use it. It screws up your system. Regular showering is plenty enough. Besides, who wants to smell like a mountain freakin' breeze? It's not natural.
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Bunny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 06:20 PM
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30. I understand this word causes consternation for some women.
It happens to be one of my favorites, though. I use it to refer to men and women, without distinction. And I'd put my feminist cred up against anyone else's, too.

I understand what you're saying, though. One of my pet peeves is when people use the word "retard". I absolutely loathe that word, others think it's no big deal. :shrug:

BTW - I think there is a "ballskin" cleaner. It's called a washcloth.
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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 06:28 PM
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31. thank you for being the first to acknowledge what I was trying to express
in this post. This word makes me cringe, as 'retard' probably does for you. If I hear "douchebag" a million times it will not take away what it implies to me- that the vilest comment someone could think of is to compare them to something as rank as womens genitals.

Men aren't taught that their bodies require the use an entire aisle of "sanitary" and "hygenic" products to make them acceptable. Women are.
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Bunny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 06:31 PM
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33. Yeah, women are given the impression that their vagina is dirty.
But I think we're starting to move away from that, at least I hope we are. I don't think douches and feminine sprays are used at anywhere near the rate they used to be. I hope that our younger women and girls are able to understand that they don't need to douche.
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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 06:46 PM
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37. I agree, and I think most women know that under normal circumstances its
unnecessary. I'm not sure men understand that though. And when I hear the douchebag insult the negative view of 'women as rank' is packed into it.
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fleabert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 06:29 PM
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32. douches are bad for women.
seriously.
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 06:33 PM
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35. Yep, I posted my rant up above.
The fact that women think they actually need it concerns me more than the word. It's rarely necessary and should only be prescribed IMHO (like a Betadine douche for a serious bacterial infection).
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fleabert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 06:38 PM
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36. me too.
I have never had one, and would only if a midwife recommended it strongly. that was never a place god intended vinegar to go!
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 07:21 PM
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40. Yup. They can wash out the GOOD stuff that needs to be there.
I'd guess that women who douche have higher rates of infections, yeast and otherwise.
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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 07:25 PM
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41. Every part of the body has its normal "flora" and pH
Taking an oral antibiotic for one illness can cause problems by disrupting the normal flora in lots of other places.
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rug Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-26-05 07:17 PM
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39. Touche
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