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maveric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 07:36 PM
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DU Strippers and Sex Workers check in!
Whether you are in a union or not.
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Fiona Donating Member (993 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 07:36 PM
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1. well
I'm more of a volunteer, but I *DO* work at it.
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 07:37 PM
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2. Agreed!
;)
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ChavezSpeakstheTruth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 07:42 PM
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4. Work it, Princess!
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 07:40 PM
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3. I should have been a stripper instead of going to college.
I'd probably make more money than I am now.
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Beware the Beast Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 07:43 PM
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5. You ain't kidding!
During my bachelor party, one of the strippers (who was working her way through college as a criminology major), said that on a good day, she could pull in a few hundred dollars a NIGHT.
Yes, my friends bought me a dance with the nerd girl stripper. :blush:
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 07:45 PM
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8. An old friend of mine put herself through med school
working as a stripper. I had the opportunity when I was in college and I did consider it. My parents found out and threatened to disown me so I didn't go through w/ it. The other girls at the club (I did my research first) were bringing home anywhere from $300 (slow night) to almost $600 (Fri and Sat nights). This was in the early 90's.
I should have done it.
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Zeke Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 07:51 PM
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9. UNION
San Franciscon strippers & dancer-gals
unionized a couple years ago. Yes?

XMAS 74: you could have had
union prevailing wage pay
and benefits.

What did you end up studying in
college and what did school lead to?

Hindsight can be a bummer.
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 07:58 PM
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12. Econ.
It lead to working two jobs-neither in my field. Neither pays very well. No real benefits to speak of.
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wtmusic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 07:43 PM
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6. Isn't a sex union redundant? n/t
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RC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 07:45 PM
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7. Only if you have a partner
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iconoclastic cat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 07:55 PM
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10. I was a driver for a high-end "escort" service.
Does that count?
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maveric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 07:56 PM
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11. Not quite but thanks anyway.
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LoZoccolo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 08:11 PM
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16. Did you rip anybody off?
I heard this story about this guy who hired an escort, and she came over with a driver, and the driver came back in a few minutes knocking at the door (it was in a hotel) implying that he'd cause a scene if the escort wasn't returned immediately.

No it was not me that this happened to.
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iconoclastic cat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 08:17 PM
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18. No, that would've been very, um...unhealthy for me.
Neither "management" or the "talent" would've stood for that. If I had tried something like that, being dismissed would've been the least of my troubles.
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LoZoccolo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 08:25 PM
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25. I think management and talent were all in on the incident described.
I'm not sure but I think it may have been in Las Vegas, and I saw in one of the American Pimp movies that the prostitutes play off the fact that people think prostitution's legal in Las Vegas, but it's actually banned within the city or county limits or something. So the escorts will rip them off or take their wallet or something, and then the johns go to report it, and the police tell them that they really should just let it go because they'd get in trouble for soliciting if they reported it and so that's how they get away with it.
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iconoclastic cat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 08:28 PM
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26. I never did see that movie.
Yeah, I could see some organizations doing that. This service, however, catered to some very, very wealthy people. They tried to maintain a low profile and a good reputation.
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jukes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 08:51 PM
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31. "badger game"
Edited on Sat May-28-05 08:52 PM by jukes
a recognized con-game.

almost as well known as the pigeon-drop or the spanish prisoner.
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maveric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 07:59 PM
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13. My ex-girlfriend was a stripper in her younger days and made some $$$$
What a shame she smoked it and snorted it all away. The club she worked often had a "private event" service where she quite often was transformed into a sex-worker.
It was a nasty business and she still has a terrible substance problem stemming to her days "on the pole".
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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 08:06 PM
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14. an ex-stripper who loves the Three Stooges?
I'm jealous
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maveric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 08:09 PM
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15. She actually did like to watch them with me.
Its a shame she was such a psychotic meth-monster.

She would dance for me all the time!
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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 08:16 PM
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17. Meth and romance don't mix
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maveric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 08:19 PM
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20. Not from my end. Her's either.
It puts Mr. Happy to sleep.
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Zuni Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 08:19 PM
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21. meth and anything don't mix
meth is toxic and makes people fucking crazy
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iconoclastic cat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 08:18 PM
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19. Meth is a plague.
God, that stuff is terrible.
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 08:20 PM
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22. Haven't had any "work"
for about a year now. :cry:
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maveric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 08:22 PM
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23. Send me your resume and I may be able to get you back to work.
In fact I guarantee it! :evilgrin:
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 08:24 PM
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24. 5-foot 2 and eyes of blue
and alla dat. ;-)
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maveric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 08:31 PM
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27. Based on your qualifications I do have a job for you.
Do you like the Three Stooges?
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gmoney Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 08:31 PM
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28. Time to reveal my true identity...
"I'm Fred Garvin, Male Prostitute..."



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maveric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 08:32 PM
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29. I'm waiting for that lurker Gannon to check in.
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KoKo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 08:39 PM
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30. Hey..Hey! Just got off I-95 through NC /SC/GA...you wanna know where
to buy the latest sex toys or have fun with "Live Babes/Fun Toys."

Just COME ON DOWN on I-95 through the RED/FUNDIE STATES.. We know how to show you a GOOD TIME...Truck Stops/Whatever...and right down the road is a "PRAISE JESUS/HE'S COMING!" sign.....:eyes:

I wonder how parents can ride in cars with their children asking questions on I-95 through NC/SC/GA....Ugh.....:shrug:
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mongo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 08:52 PM
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32. Oh damn, am I late to the party?
Not sure if being the owner of a lingerie and erotic boutique qualifies as sex work - although I do special order shoes for cheap for all the local dancers, and sell them their t-backs and garters.

We are a fine retail establishment here, selling lingerie, hosiery, lotions & oils, adult toys and novelties, and of course movies and magazines - for people to enjoy in the privacy of their own homes.

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CanuckAmok Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-28-05 09:52 PM
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33. Hmm... well....
I have been involved in several aspects of the sex industry, but prefer not to discuss them here. But I'm supportive of unionization, and cleaning up the industry to the point where nobody is ripped off.

Ultimately, though, I think it's a very dangerous game for all but the most strong-willed and sensible people. I know too many people who have been consumed by it.

On the other hand, I recently reunited (via the internet) with an old HS girlfriend, who told me she had been feature tour stripping from age 20 to 30. She's now retired, and owns a horse farm in Northern California. She's 36. So there are success stories.

I currently volunteer with an organisation which teached life and career skills to women trying to get out of prostitution. It's very, very difficult, but pretty rewearding.
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