what's a bad boy and why do women like them so much?

[samsingh]

any ideas?

[JimmyJazz]

Forbidden Fruit.

:shrug:

[WCGreen]

39. You mean Gay Guys can be bad as well.....

[progmom]

1. kidding....right?

[samsingh]

2. no - seriously

what's the difference between a bad boy and a jerk?

[MissMarple]

9. Oh, like the difference between Colin Ferrel and George W. Bush.

There is a BIG difference. :evilgrin:

[samsingh]

28. george bush is an evil idiot and scum

[cheeseit]

3. what could anyone see in Martin Lawrence?

:shrug:

[Lydia Leftcoast]

4. A bad boy appeals to immature women who are rebelling against

their parents. He appears to promise adventure and romance. He plays the "I'm not bad, just misunderstood" card to perfection. He tells women what they want to hear and means none of it.

A jerk is a bad boy without any style or flair.

[tigereye]

8. to quote The Standells

"sometimes good guys don't wear white." ( they wear leather jackets.)

[Kathy in Cambridge]

5. ...

[JimmyJazz]

10. bwhahaha!

:rofl:

[GreenPartyVoter]

6. A bad boy is a dangerous guy.. and one that a lot of women

fantasize about being the only one to ever bring him to heel.

Me, I like a nice guy soul inside of a bad boy exterior.

[barb162]

7. Why do you suppose that women like them so much? I think women

don't like them except with some exceptions, like Pamela Anderson, who is marrying that idiot again for the third time.

[redqueen]

11. ...but have you seen his schlong?!

:wow:

[barb162]

15. actually, no.

are you saying he's hung like a horse or something

[redqueen]

16. Heh... yeah.

I was just joking around... I haven't seen the tape, but that's the scuttlebutt, yeah.

[barb162]

21. Well, once they start beating people

up who cares how they are hung. I thought she had him arrested for that. He struck me as a one of the caricature types of guys in "Grease" in many respects

[redqueen]

24. Like I said... kidding.

I really don't know that much about them, nor do I care to. :)

[barb162]

26. I know

[wideopen]

23. Redqueen,

I have seen the tape, and it's true. The movie really does suck (hee hee)but he does have a huge one.

[redqueen]

25. Not surprised...

I've heard it from more than a few people, and I don't know of any reason why they'd lie.

[samsingh]

30. special effects maybe?

[wideopen]

34. I don't think so

It was a homemade film, the guys packin' a full load. Although I've heard most women don't want something like that. Maybe someone should do a poll.

[samsingh]

29. that's a good point too

Pamela's back with that guy with a terrible physical temper.

[redqueen]

12. What is a slut and why do men like them so much?

See how stupid that is?

:eyes:

[Kathy in Cambridge]

17. This crap is getting really old, isn't it?

:eyes:

[samsingh]

31. but its the very basis of so many male/female relationships

[Felix Mala]

13. Star Wars III: I thought Hayden Christianson got more attractive

as he got more evil. At least until he lost his hair and legs.

[crispini]

20. ROFL!

either everyone's being really funny on here today or I'm in a silly mood.....

[WCGreen]

41. Thanks, you ruined it for me......

[LaurenG]

14. A bad boy will keep you on edge

Sometimes people need to be on edge. It can be very seductive to be with a "bad boy" Kinda like a big boobied chick for a guy but meaner...maybe or well a... I have no experience with this. :sarcasm:

[cheeseit]

18. it works both ways

I always found Faith from Buffy hotter when she was evil...

[barb162]

38. I thought the blonde vampire was cute, I think his name was Spike

as in physically attractive, but nothing else

[samsingh]

46. wasn't he platinum blonde?

he has a huge fan following.

[barb162]

50. yeah, platinum, that's the guy

[cheeseit]

52. the stud-tacular Spike (James Marsters)

[samsingh]

45. no, buffy is very hot

[Lilith Velkor]

19. what's a sexist and why do they generalize so much?

got clue?

[progmom]

22. thank you

:applause:

[samsingh]

33. sexism is either a power thing or about ignorance

I think people make generalizations in an attempt to understand things, but sticking to a generations means missing most of the facts.

i think's its a bit of top down thinking. tomato's are red and round. that's how the school books show them. More facts, however, show that this is not the case.

Sticking to generalizations in the face of evidence is stupid.

[Schema Thing]

27. There are alot of broken and/or weak people in this world

It is the nature of a bad person (ie: bad boy) to sieze upon and take advantage a woman's brokeness or weakness.

Hell, with the last election results, it shouldn't come as much of a surprise that people can have an appalling inability to size up character, or that women will mistake brash egotism for strenth.

[Taverner]

32. Bad boy=Mickey Rourke in Diner

Brad Pitt in Thelma and Louise
Johnny Depp in Pirates of the Caribean


Shit, I'm straight and I get it...c'mon now people!

[Cerridwen]

35. A fantasy situation created by

a bunch of jerks and assholes, used to perpetuate the idea that women prefer assholes and jerks, thereafter referred to as "bad boys" in order that said assholes and jerks can get laid, which has invaded our collective pool of "common knowledge."

Treating another human being like a punching bag or like dirt does not equal a "bad boy." It equals a monstrous, violent bully.

Controlling and passive aggressive behavior disguised as "helping" and "supporting" does not equal "nice guy." It equals abusive, controlling monster.

[samsingh]

36. good points

i wonder if some women just mean busy and exciting or adventurous when they are saying 'bad boy'.

many women tell me they like 'bad boys', but not jerks or abusers (understandably).

[Cerridwen]

44. I bet if you asked the women or girls who say "bad boy,"

you'd find they mean interesting. Sharing interests seems to go a long way, in my experience.

And thanks.

:hi:

[samsingh]

48. nice website by the way

[Cerridwen]

51. Thanks. I should probably update it someday in this decade.

Ya think?


Of course, that would require I take a break from DU.


:rofl:

[WCGreen]

47. By Jove I think you've got it.....

Excitement has a lot to do with the idea of a Bad Boy....

Although I have to tell you, I attracted a lot of god girl typees who wanted to change me, save me when I was a functioning alcoholic....

[Cerridwen]

49. See previous definition for "good guy" and add some

"enabler" characteristics. 'T'ain't "good girls" so much as "wounded martyrs." My opinion, of course. YMMV.

:hi:

[WCGreen]

53. That's true....

Or frustrated nurses......

[ismnotwasm]

37. Thank you.

Best answer yet

[Cerridwen]

42. Thank you, too. :-D

And you're welcome.

:hi:

[GOPisEvil]

40. Very good answer!

:applause:

[Cerridwen]

43. Aw, geez, I'm gonna get full of myself.

Thanks.

:blush: