NashVegas
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Thu Aug-04-05 10:00 PM
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Poll question: DU Guys - Halp! |
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I'm dealing with a divorced (for one year) father of two who's been sending me all kinds of mixed signals. Oh, and a Southern Gentleman to boot. ie, acts like he wants to be romantic one day, friendly the next. Driving me batty. Do I:
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Fri Aug-05-05 08:14 AM
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Gee, sure got quiet in here.
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Fri Aug-05-05 08:41 AM
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2. I vote "Grab him by the nads" but gently and say |
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"I live you would you like to go out on a date?" or kiss him no mix signals there.
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Fri Aug-05-05 08:44 AM
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3. "...romantic one day, friendly the next..." |
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That's how people are. I wonder if he knows that he mood is being interpreted as signals. I assume that by friendly, you mean simply sociable.
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Fri Aug-05-05 08:49 AM
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Edited on Fri Aug-05-05 08:52 AM by Crisco
*highly* sociable, but physically unapproachable, on those days.
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Fri Aug-05-05 08:47 AM
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4. Where's "Walk away from Confused Guy"? nt |
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Fri Aug-05-05 08:50 AM
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6. I'd Rather Take the Risk |
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Of falling on my face at this point. Who said he's the only person in the equation with some baggage?
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Fri Aug-05-05 08:52 AM
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7. Guys usually appreciate it when a woman is blunt |
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about what she wants. Guys can sometimes very easily miss what a woman thinks is an obvious hint. So, just "grabbing him by the 'nads" is something that will most likely work if he is interested that way.
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Fri Aug-05-05 08:53 AM
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I don't even want to think about that.
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Fri Aug-05-05 09:09 AM
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11. at least you'll know for sure |
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instead of being filled with doubts
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Fri Aug-05-05 08:58 AM
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9. divorced one year? not long enough. |
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it takes about 3 years to get over that mess, and until then they are QUITE ambivalent. i speak from experience... build a friendship, because he is not available emotionally.
but what i would do is ask, just outright ask. not in an offensive way, but just as a conversation. keep that friendship in mind while you're doing it.
good luck!
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Fri Aug-05-05 09:06 AM
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I posted the poll last night, and this morning had pretty much resolved to do just what you've said. Whichever way it goes, I'm thinking it'll be a relief. If it doesn't go my way, sure, it'll be a bummer, but it's better than wondering.
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