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slackmaster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-08-05 12:41 PM
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Poll question: Toddlers that BITE - How to deal with them?
Research has shown that about 10% of children under age 2 will bite other children or adults.

How would YOU deal with a biting toddler?
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matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-08-05 12:42 PM
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1. with a field goal kick
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-08-05 12:42 PM
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2. zing!
:rofl:


This would be a bad time for dead baby jokes, right?
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Spock_is_Skeptical Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-08-05 02:20 PM
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14. LOL!
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-08-05 12:43 PM
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3. ether
n/t
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tk2kewl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-08-05 12:43 PM
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4. pliers--meet teeth
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benito Donating Member (772 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-08-05 12:44 PM
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5. bite em back
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Old_Fart Donating Member (805 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-08-05 12:49 PM
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6. "Pull your blinds"
ONE swat on the rear end might do the trick.
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AlienGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-08-05 01:28 PM
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7. Here's what I think works:
First off, don't react to the bite with obvious pain--take away the drama reward. Put them on time-out with the firm message: "Bite means time-out." Do it every time they bite.

Tucker
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Squatch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-08-05 01:32 PM
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8. Use this stuff.
Bitter Apple Chew Deterrent Spray



Grannick’s Bitter Apple spray in an 8 oz. bottle.

Useful to deter your child from chewing on furniture, clothing, plants, leash, even your hands!

Can also discourage a child from disturbing a wound.

Non-toxic, environmentally friendly formula.

Simply spray on target area.

Reapply every few days.

Test on furniture before applying (we’ve never seen it stain, though
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youthere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-08-05 01:44 PM
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9. We have three kids and only one biter...
Edited on Mon Aug-08-05 01:47 PM by youthere
thank goodness. We tried just about everything with her, and nothing seemed to work. Now, I'm not proud of this mind you, but she stopped biting when I snapped. She bit me ob the inside of the leg hard, and I really lost it..I got mad and I paddled her bottom but good. It wasn't the last time she bit, and I still haven't stopped feeling guilty about it (8 years later). I have rarely spanked my kids, and I'm not recommending it for anyone else. It did work, but at a price. I've never forgiven myself or forgotten the look on her face after I spanked her. A very hefty price indeed.
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slackmaster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-08-05 02:03 PM
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11. You should see the look on a child's face when you bite him or her
Growl like a big cat and don't let go until they start to cry.

There's something instinctively humiliating about having another animal take control of you in its powerful jaws.

:evilgrin:
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WeRQ4U Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-08-05 01:52 PM
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10. Uniform consequences
Doesn't have to be just spanking either. Whatever discipline you choose would probably be OK. My parents used Time Outs.

Here's a good book that my wife and I bought for our Goddaughter. She has quite the oral fixation and bites on occaision. It's a good little read. Cute.

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Cathyclysmic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-08-05 02:13 PM
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12. biting in a toddler is a sign of frustration
they are at the 'no' stage and they don't really have the words, or patience, to communicate what they want(or don't want), so they bite.

You'll probably noticed the bite is preceded with a angry, frustrated growl!

just my nerdy two cents!

:hi:
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name not needed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-08-05 02:19 PM
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13. Burn their toys
If biting continues, get the taser.
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-08-05 02:26 PM
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15. Toddlers often bite as attempts to social interaction
Biting them back only reinforces the behavior and shows them who the bully can be and how to be a bully...same with hitting them.
Stating, "No Bite! (or biting!)" along with consistent time out and 'fessin' up to and apologizing to the person they bit.

Read more here to have a clearer understanding:

http://toddlerstoday.com/resources/articles/biting.htm

And read here for some effective methods to curb/stop biting:
http://childcare.about.com/cs/behaviors/f/biting.htm

Just my
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TX-RAT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-08-05 02:32 PM
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16. Bust their butt or bite them back, only takes once.
Kids and puppies, not much difference, other than puppyies are easier to potty train.
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-08-05 02:49 PM
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17. Biting is a sign of frustration
Usually you can keep the kid from biting by holding thier head back or guiding thme by the shoulders (they telegraph what they're going to do, it's a really obvious lunge. With LK we talked about better ways to express frustration and put him down for a nap.

If the behavior persists, I'd consult Raising Your Spirited Child http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0060923288/104-7976734-9865558?v=glance we've fourd it to be a great help in dealing with LK.
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Zhade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-08-05 02:51 PM
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18. FEAST ON THEIR BONES!
No, no, I'm kidding.

Uh, run? Fast?

:D

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