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toey Donating Member (568 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-08-05 03:37 PM
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Am I evil?
Went on a blind date last night (1st mistake). Met the guy in front of an office building downtown (should have driven by, 2nd mistake). Dude described himself as having "a few extra pounds," try "200 extra pounds" (again should have driven by). Went to dinner where I found out he's a freaking repuke! (Biggest mistake thus far.) Ate dinner, drank a beer (no mistake there). Got up to go to the restroom and walked out on him (best decision of the evening). He called 13 times asking what happened (I didn't answer once), where did I go, if I knew where I was, why did I disappear, etc. I had to change the ringer on my phone because I couldn't get it out of my head.

Am I evil?

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trotsky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-08-05 03:46 PM
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1. Evil, no. But maybe a little rude.
Unless you felt threatened, you probably should have ended the date saying you didn't feel any chemistry. Maybe he really does think something happened to you?
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-08-05 03:48 PM
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2. Not evil, but that was kind of mean. You should've just
told him that there was no attraction there. But blind dates suck b/c of the reasons you just described.
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khashka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-08-05 03:51 PM
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3. Not evil, but not nice
Why not just say "It was really nice to meet you, but this just isn't working for me - we're too different." And smile and walk out?

He might actually be worried about you? Maybe?

Khash.
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