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Mon Aug-15-05 12:25 PM
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If someone sent you an inappropriate private message, PLEASE ALERT. |
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I have now heard, both directly and though the grapevine, that a particular member of DU has sent EXTREMELY INAPPROPRIATE private messages to a number of members of this website. People are asking why I haven't done anything about it.
I promise you... If someone has done what is alleged, they will be banned immediately. But I cannot ban anyone unless I actually see the evidence.
Presumably, if this has happened to *many* people, then one person could just click the little alert link on one of these private messages so I can see it.
We are getting alerts and messages asking why this person hasn't been banned yet. The reason this person has not been banned is because nobody has yet clicked the Alert link on any of these offensive messages. I cannot ban someone for behavior that I have not seen.
As I said, we consider this alleged behavior to be completely inappropriate. Please help us deal with the problem by clicking alert.
Thank you.
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:27 PM
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1. As someone who unfortunately knows... |
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what you're talking about...have you talked the person being accused?
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:29 PM
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3. Nobody has yet clicked alert on his private messages. |
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So at this point I have nothing to talk to him about.
And if I receive the evidence, then I still will have nothing to talk to him about because he will be banned.
Someone click alert. Please. This situation is very serious.
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:39 PM
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15. I respectfully disagree... |
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as someone who has been forced into the middle of this situation and heard conflicting stories from both sides and conflicting stories on different days from the same people I think you owe him a hearing before banning him.
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:45 PM
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26. We're not going to ban anyone because of hearsay or rumors. |
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At this point, that is all that I have. Nobody has yet forwarded me any information about this.
The first step is for someone -- anyone -- to click alert on one of these alleged private messages.
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:48 PM
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30. i agree with you on this |
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as i have also heard both sides of this...and for the record, as so many people know who this is about, i think it kinda sucks to make it so public like this...it's almost like a public shaming, or something.
But, as always, this is Skinner's board, and not mine, and I respect his decision to do what he needs to do. I probably wouldn't wanna have to pm this to every gazillion people who pm me about it, if i were him. :)
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:54 PM
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This whole situation has me so angry I could spit nails. I found out today people are apparently saying I'm the one who needs to be hitting alert...which is pretty goddanm funny since no one ever bothered to ask me whether I recieved the pm in question or not.
For the record...I did not.
Also for the record...I wish the people involved would either talk to the poster in question or shut the hell up. This DU pm version of the telephone game has gotten out of hand and it needs to stop.
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:59 PM
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and especially since DUers are good at connecting the dots, I can't understand why this is publically posted. If something is solicited whether jokingly or not, the sender should not be banned. It is not like a freeper or disruptor just started PMing pics or anything...
Since when did DU have a moral majority? We are all adults here.
My 2cents.
Is it too late for me to solicit a pic?;)
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:03 PM
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43. This is public because we consider this extremely serious. |
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Someone is alleged to have sent unsolicited naked pictures to many members of this website. That is serious.
And futhermore, my credibility is on the line here. Many people are wondering why I have not banned a creep who is allegedly engaging in extremely dubious behavior.
At this point, I know only one name of someone who claims to have received such a message. I asked her to alert and so far she has not.
Since the rumour says that these pictures have been sent -- unsolicited -- to many people, I don't understand why nobody has yet alerted these private messages. As I said... I consider this extremely serious, and I want to get to the bottom of it. But I would not know who to contact because at this point I don't know the names of *any* of the people who allegedly have received these private messages.
If the allegation turns out to be true, then I suppose this is a public shaming. But if it turns out that nobody clicks alert, then this might turn out to be a public vindication for the person who is accused.
But we can easily get to the bottom of this if someone -- anyone -- clicks alert. And if nobody clicks alert, then I don't know what to say.
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:14 PM
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53. I only hope you consider who is doing the alerting... |
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if anyone does indeed alert. Like all those offended by Janet's tit, they should be able to complain I suppose. For others, we just change the channel or hit delete.
DU is becoming quite dramatic, IMO.
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:19 PM
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65. If someone does alert, we will be fair to all involved. |
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At this point, I am somewhat skeptical that anyone is going to alert.
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:20 PM
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66. As a person who did not receive any pics, but kind of knows the |
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story-I believe the pics were not unsolicited. Permission was asked. That's why no one is alerting.
Would you please answer the email I sent you 2 or 3 weeks ago now? Thank you :hi:
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:34 PM
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80. Is it possible the person alerted, but it timed out and you didn't get it? |
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That has happened to me before. You've probably already done this, but since he/she has already contacted you about it, perhaps you could send another reply and ask them to alert again since you didn't receive it?
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:43 PM
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Just in case that happened, I sent a follow-up email the next day. I received no response.
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:27 PM
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2. I received a recipe for Hot Cross Buns via a PM last night. |
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Edited on Mon Aug-15-05 12:28 PM by RandomKoolzip
Damn you, Zuni! Yer DU days are numbered, hotshot. :smile:
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:38 PM
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14. I am going to alert on the recipe for homemade "Enzyte" |
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:29 PM
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4. could you possibly offer up |
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Edited on Mon Aug-15-05 12:41 PM by stellanoir
even a vague or broad definition of "inappropriate". . .
i.e. lude, rude, crude, completely uncalled for, bothersome, insulting, annoying, . . .etc?
thanks
on edit- whoops I said insulting twice
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:31 PM
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Sending unsolicited nude pictures of onesself.
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:32 PM
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I never get the good stuff! :sarcasm:
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:37 PM
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13. yes, but you have a nude smilie bathing |
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:44 PM
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you're RIGHT!!!!!!
omg, I'm SO ashamed!!
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:hi: :yourock:
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:21 PM
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67. Me either, but in this case, I think I am glad! |
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:32 PM
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8. Oh gross. I KNEW there were Republicans on this board |
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idiots. Put your stupid clothes on and learn some damned manners.
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:39 PM
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16. Sounds funny but there are minors on here. Lets not get DU in trouble. |
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:41 PM
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17. I See How This Would Offend And Frighten Many... |
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Edited on Mon Aug-15-05 12:46 PM by arwalden
That is completely unacceptable behavior! HOWEVER, as far as I'm concerned... I'd like to go on the record and give my permission for any DUer to send to me nude photos of themselves. (No photoshops... men preferred.)
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:42 PM
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19. I too will put myself on that record |
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:42 PM
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Edited on Mon Aug-15-05 12:44 PM by terrya
And that's all I'm saying. :-)
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:45 PM
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23. And That's More Than Enough. |
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:46 PM
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And that is,indeed, that.
:hi:
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:11 PM
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it might make you blind...
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:44 PM
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Edited on Mon Aug-15-05 12:56 PM by Pithlet
because I don't want to comment on a situation I know nothing about. Apparently there might be more to this story. If someone is indeed sending nude pics unsolicited, then the person should be banned.
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:02 PM
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42. Well, that lets me off the hook |
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last time I was photographed naked was 1959.
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:31 PM
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But alas I only get about 2 PM's every six months. I can't even get a harrasing one. Whoa is me.
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:33 PM
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9. I wish we knew if the perp were good looking |
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I mean, I am just saying....people might NOT have complained...you know?
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:36 PM
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10. Perhaps that's the reason SKinner hasn't been alerted yet. |
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LOL. Maybe sending nude photos is less of a crime when the sender is a hottie?
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:36 PM
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12. Beautiful People always get a free pass |
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:41 PM
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18. But that would certainly include you n/t |
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:45 PM
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25. I dont think Ive ever been called a "Beautiful Person"... |
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cute or hot, but never BP. I mean the people who can get out of tickets, get jobs with no experience, etc....
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:51 PM
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31. Would you prefer stunningly gorgeous? |
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id like anything :loveya:
I dont think those words do you justice
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:58 PM
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37. As always - you're far to kind to me |
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:blush:
If you were any closer than N.Y. you could have just about anything from me that you want. :loveya:
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:46 PM
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27. It was sundog who sent the pics, wasn't it? |
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That's why you're pissed off at him.:P
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:54 PM
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and I didn't get any - I'm going to be even more pissed off at him. :grr:
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:55 PM
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36. count me in on that boat! |
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:07 PM
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45. i didn't have the heart to alert on you i guess |
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:11 PM
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49. Me? I'm sorry about outing you as the perp. |
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:14 PM
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54. and i am also sorry about the series of photos you sent me |
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:18 PM
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61. Were they really that sorry? |
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:48 PM
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that Skinner didn't say either himself or herself but rather oneself, or is Skinner just being tight with the info?
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Mon Aug-15-05 12:53 PM
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33. Actually post # 3 identifies the poster as male eom. |
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47. I missed that. Keep it in your pants, guys, woodja. nt |
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:01 PM
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redqueen gave me permission to stalk her.
;-)
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:09 PM
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46. If one alerts on a PM, does it go to mods or admins? |
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Edited on Mon Aug-15-05 01:11 PM by Cyndee_Lou_Who
Just wondering...
On edit: FTR. I never got ANY unsolicited nude pics.
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:15 PM
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56. It goes to the admins. (nt) |
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:12 PM
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50. I'm still waiting to get an APPROPRIATE private message. |
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:13 PM
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51. damn that's creepy. (NT) |
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:13 PM
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52. I didn't even know you could *have* a picture in a PM. |
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News to me...
I'll dust off my seldom used inbox and see if there's anything in there.
There's an exhibitionist in every crowd, I guess.
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:14 PM
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55. DS1 keeps PMing me love notes |
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:15 PM
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that nobody has sent ME unsolicited naked pics.
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:16 PM
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58. WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT? |
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oh wait. that's right. you requested them :P
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:17 PM
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60. I would, but I haven't been naked since I was 12. |
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Shit, I even shower fully clothed.
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:19 PM
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It's either that or fix the $#@!%!$#@! water heater.
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:21 PM
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68. It's not a temperature issue. |
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It's a "must refrain from vomiting" issue.
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:22 PM
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69. Wait, wait, wait a minute. LPFF Maggie is 18 now... |
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She's legal. I don't understand the fuss!
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:25 PM
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72. I've been PMing people naked pictures of Bea Arthur |
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:27 PM
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73. I thought that was George Washington!!! |
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:28 PM
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74. Lemme get this straight... You sit around naked sending pix of Bea Arthur? |
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That's down right sick, man.
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I thought that was Kurt Vonnegut with a thyroid condition....I need new glasses.
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:30 PM
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77. Really, it's a tremendous public service |
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Bea Arthur...*swoon* She can wrestle my dinosaur any day.
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:28 PM
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75. PLEASE NO MORE PMs TO ME... |
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on this topic. Please. I'm tired of talking about it. If you aren't someone who I'm already friends with (or at least good enough friends that you've pmed me in the past on other topics) PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE stop pming me.
That is all.
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:33 PM
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79. Thanks for the giggle, Matt |
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Needed that with the day I'm having. :hug:
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:37 PM
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81. Holy guacamole, Velma! |
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no idea what it's all about but you sound like you could use a :hug:
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:40 PM
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83. I'll respectfully leave you the hell alone.... |
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how's stuff hanDing?? hee...
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:42 PM
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85. Hey... it's better than the unsolicited... |
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'heading' :puke:
Takes one to know one... :P
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Mon Aug-15-05 01:43 PM
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87. I am locking this thread. |
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This thread has been open for more than an hour, which should be more than enough time for my message to get to any people who need to hear it.
For the record, right now I believe the accusation that someone has sent unsolicited naked pictures to many members of this website is not true. Since this rumor started last week, I have not received any alerts at all that substantiate the rumor, even though I have specifically asked that people do so. Even after this thread has been open for an hour, none of the "many" DUers who are alleged to have received such a private message has yet hit alert on it. Lacking any evidence whatsoever, at this point I am forced to conclude that the rumor probably is either false or totally out of context.
At this point, it is my opinion that the accused individual has been vindicated.
If someone does click alert at any point, then my opinion might change. But until and unless someone provides me with a shred of evidence, I believe that the rumor is most likely not true.
If anyone reading this thread has access to any information that might shed some light on this, please contact me directly. And if you know of anyone who was on the receiving end of the alleged behavior, please let them know that Skinner wants to hear from them. I have little doubt that you all will pass along my message to anyone and everyone who needs to see it.
Now I'm locking this thread. And we aren't going to permit any more threads about this topic.
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