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For one thing, the poverty rate here is over 50% of the people here. We have an extremely high crime rate for a small town and only 55 officers for the whole county. There are no opportunities here. That is not an understatement. The jobs that were here were the cotton mills. They are forever gone to China, Mexico and who knows where else. For young people, it is especially hard.
Up until only recently, every time anyone tried to provide any musical entertainment for the young people, it was called devil worshipping and shut down. Young people turned more and more to drugs to alleviate the depression. They used to ride around the shopping centers on Saturday nights for something to do on the weekends, but that was banned too because people who were trying to do their grocery shopping complained. Imo, the teenagers shouldn't have to drive around a shopping center in circles on the weekends. There is no reason they can't have something to do that is fun and positive at the same time. Recently, a few new more openminded Christian groups sat down with a few of the bands and made an agreement that if they only performed either Christian rock or songs appoved by them, they could play. That went nicely until a few bad apples made it violent. Now, most of the younger people don't attend the concerts because they fear the violence. The police stepped in to try to watch for the group that calls itself "the Irish Mafia" from East Rockingham that wants to keep black people from attending anything. Years ago, we had a teenclub that was closed because they started so much trouble when they saw some black kids dancing with white kids at the club. They threw rocks into the windows and destroyed the front of the building and the owners were forced to close it eventually.
As far as organizations or charities locally, there are only 2 or 3 locally run groups that I know of. One is the Humane Society which has its hands full trying to treat animals that have been abused, not just neglected. Pit bull fighting and cock fights are very popular here. I won't go into too many ghastly details but I once worked at a grooming salon and the Humane Society brought some of the dogs they had confiscated to us for baths. One was a toy poodle that had been taken away from a man who had been caught standing in the front yard having sex with the dog (sodomizing it). Another dog was a pit bull that had been brain damaged and torn up from the fighting. The people who had owned it fed it gun powder to make it meaner. It was sad. I saw too much and I don't want to remember it all. I want to forget.
The only other organization around here that I know of is a domestic abuse group that has its hands full trying to keep women and children protected from abusive families. A child had to be treated for exposure from freezing temperatures a few years ago because the parents had made the child drink an entire gallon of water before going to bed and when the kid wet the bed, they made him sleep outside in temperatures below 32 degrees Fahrenheit. He ended up being taken away thankfully by the state to live away from those parents. The weird thing about that is that I worked 2 houses down from where that happened and the next house over from that had a child who used to wander around in his diaper in 55 degree temperatures. When my aunt came by to pick me up from work that one day, we had a small distance to do before we stopped at the stop sign. The kid (about 3 or 4 years old) came to the car and knocked on the door and begged us to take him home with us and feed him. The parents started yelling at US because we stopped to keep from hitting him. He was in the road at the stop sign. We told authorities about it and listened to the wrath of the parents who weren't jailed the next morning.
Luckily, that was our last day there before my boss set up shop in a better area of town. There were problems galore there too. One of the new neighbors she met there, a lady I really liked, comitted suicide because her son had to carry a gun for protection when he was away from home and one night when he got home, he took the gun out of his pocket and it got caught on his clothes and killed him. She never got over it. She called one of the neighbors and killed herself.
As a matter of fact, I'm curious to know what the actual suicide rate is here. I bet it's high. I know of several who have committed suicide and I knew at least 2 people personally who committed suicide. I was the last to see Stanley alive too. He died under the bridge I drive over every single day on the way to community college. He was a good friend. I still miss him.
I could go on and on, but this is already too long. I know of at least two murder attempts that have happened here (one successful, if you want to look at it that way) where parents have taken hammers to a child's head to kill them not in malice but as a mercy killing because they can't afford to take care of them any more. It's a terrible place. I hate Richmond County, NC. That's all I know.
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