My father is going for eye surgery in the morning

[Brewman_Jax]

to replace the lens. The original has cataracts. Now he's being grumpier and crankier than usual said my mother. Just got off of the phone with her. (He has not been a caring individual, but that's another story.)

Guess I'll have to be a good son and call him and wish him well. Can't do it with her passing the phone, that'll just make him madder--and that's sad!

[MissHoneychurch]

1. The best wishes for your dad

and a :hug: for you to trying to do the best.

[Brewman_Jax]

3. Thanks

it's hard to do the right thing. Last year when mom spent most of the summer in the hospital, I can understand that there's things that he can't do (73 yrs old, out of shape, type II diabetes, one hip replacement, and he may need the other one replaced) but it's the fact that he wouldn't even try. Didn't even act at all helpful. I'll spare you the long list.

[CottonBear]

2. I hope your dad's surgery goes well.

:hi: I know what it's like to deal with grumpy relatives. I've got several of them myself. Call your dad and let him know you're thinking of him. You can't change his behavior or moods. However, you'll feel better for having called. :)

[Brewman_Jax]

4. Good point

glad that your back is better. No more lifting horses for you.

[CottonBear]

6. Thanks. My back's still a bit stiff but on the mend.

My horse, Cotton, got her feet trimmed and filed on Saturday morning. She was a really well-behaved girl!

Happy holidays! :)

edit: My mom had a hysterectomy last Wednesday. She came home on Saturday and did not take any pain medicine on Sunday! Your dad will be glad to have the surgery done and then come home and be grumpy in the comfort of his own house!

[Brewman_Jax]

5. The surgery will not take long

according to my mother, the whole procedure is about 90 mins at most. They have this down to a science.

[Bridget Burke]

7. Cataract surgery is one of the most common surgical procedures

And it's done on an outpatient basis.

My left eye will need it if I live long enough.

[Brewman_Jax]

8. Oh, no!

I'm sorry to hear. Has surgery been scheduled?

[Bridget Burke]

9. Don't worry. The surgery will probably be scheduled when I'm 75....

That's quite a few years from now!

If that's the worst medical problem the years bring me, I'll be quite happy.

[Brewman_Jax]

10. Made the call

he sounded so relieved that I called. I told him that the procedure is very common (thanks, Bridget) and is down to a science. One of the area's best doctors (18 yrs exp.) is working on him and he's in good hands.

[u4ic]

11. Sending him healing vibes

I hope his surgery is successful, and a quick recovery to him! :pals:

[Brewman_Jax]

18. Thanks

it worked, and they'll be home shortly.

[Brewman_Jax]

12. Success! Surgery is done

and they're heading home. The whole procedure took about 90 mins. He has to wear a big eyepatch. I told him all he needs is a tricorner hat and bandanna and he's a pirate.

Thanks for the good thoughts.

:P

[MissHoneychurch]

13. Glad to hear everything went fine

how did he take your joke?


:hug:

[Brewman_Jax]

14. He thought it was funny

he asked where to get a big eyepatch. I suggested a medical supply store.

He's wearing bandages right now.

[MissHoneychurch]

15. I remember as a kid

at sport class I was so "lucky" one time to get hit by a ball right into the eye. Fortunately nothing happened but I had to wear a black eye patch for a week or so just in case. I hated it because I got teased.
But I guess your dad won't have to go through that martyrdom

[Brewman_Jax]

17. Not to worry

he's a little old to be on the playground. :D

[MissHoneychurch]

20. it was NOT on the playground

it was during school :P

[MissMillie]

21. Thanks for sharing the good news

And tell him Johnny Depp has nothing on him! :silly:

[Brewman_Jax]

22. Thanks, but

my dad (sometimes) lives in the real world. He knows what Johnny Depp looks like--but 'preciate the thought.

[DanCa]

16. Peace to you and your family.

Best possible white light to you and yours.

[Brewman_Jax]

19. Thank you

they're done and should be at home by now.