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skip fox Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:19 PM
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CAPTIONS? Hard to do while my father is dying.
This just to say that I will not be captioning very much for a while. My father is being sent home from the hospital today to die at home. He's 85 and it's not unexpected, but that doesn't make the impact any less.

But I want to say, though I might be absent here for awhile, I've not given up on DU or CAPTIONs. I'
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underpants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:20 PM
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1. In our thoughts and prayers
:grouphug:
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Richardo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:20 PM
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2. Many condolences, skip fox...
So sorry to hear that.

Wishing you, your dad and your family strength and peace.
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BurtWorm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:20 PM
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Good luck, skip.
See you soon.
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wryter2000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:20 PM
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3. I'm so sorry
I hope his death is a peaceful one, surrounded by loved ones. Take care of yourself during this stressful time.
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rjbcar27 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:20 PM
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4. I'm sorry dude.
It's never easy.
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bif Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:20 PM
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5. Sorry to hear that.
Positive vibes coming your way from Michigan.
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:21 PM
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6. Skip, I am so very sorry that you are going through this.
I wish you and your family peace. We will miss the captions, but you must take care of your father first--you know that, though.

((((skip)))) :loveya:
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ronnykmarshall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:21 PM
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7. So sorry Fox.
It's hard thing to deal with. My dad was lucky to have a wonderful wife that took care of him. Had he been in a hospital, we would have died long before he did.

Take care, your fellow DU'er are sending you cyber hugs.
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:21 PM
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8. Skip, my thoughts are with you and your family.
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Philostopher Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:22 PM
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9. So sorry to hear that, Skip.
Went through that myself about eight years ago. It was a bit more of a surprise in my family -- my dad was only in his sixties -- but it's never easy even when it isn't as surprising.

Take care of yourself -- that's what it's easiest to forget. We look forward to seeing you back again!
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commander bunnypants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:23 PM
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10. Take care my friend
DDQM
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Cleita Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:24 PM
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So sorry to hear that.
Do what you need to do and come back to DU when you have had your chance for mourning and grief. Remember that the best thing for your dad is to be surrounded by loved ones in his last hours before his passing. Your priorties right now are for him.
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nini Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:24 PM
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11. sorry..
especially at the holiday time.

My thoughts and prayers will be with you and yours.

:hug:
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Jonte_1979 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:25 PM
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12. I'm sorry to hear that
Take care of yourself.
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nothingshocksmeanymore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:26 PM
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13. Take care Skip
You will bein my thoughts and prayers. It is hard even when one knows their parents are ready to go. I wish you strength and courage and the peace that goes with knowing you are helping your father complete his life.

Hugs,
T
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myrna minx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:26 PM
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14. This must be such a difficult time for you.
You and your family will be in my thoughts. Please take care.
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ewagner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:27 PM
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15. Condolences skipfox
Cherish the time you spend with him.
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MuseRider Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:30 PM
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16. Take care of yourself.
You are in our thoughts. Expected or not it is never easy. Peace to you and yours and may your father ease out with family and friends around him.
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Rainbowreflect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:35 PM
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17. I am so sorry to hear this sad news.
You & your family are in my thoughts & prayers. Enjoy every moment you have with your father.
:grouphug:
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SpaceCatMeetsMars Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:46 PM
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18. We'll miss you.
Take care.
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Lars39 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:50 PM
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19. I'm sorry, skip fox.
I'll be thinking of you, sending you good thoughts. It hurts badly, even when it's expected.
Take care,
Lars
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wysimdnwyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:55 PM
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20. Sorry to hear that, Skip
All the best to you and your family.
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cosmicdot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 12:56 PM
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21. take care, my friend ..... Meditation XVII


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wtmusic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 01:07 PM
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22. That's a tough one Skip
Our DU thoughts are with you :-(
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skip fox Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 02:21 PM
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23. Thanks, all.
If he lives for 2 more weeks, I'll get to see him again. That would put me past finals weeks and all grades turned in. Then, I hope to help get him thru one last Christmas. (Damn.)
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proud patriot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 02:24 PM
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24. I wish you strength for the best quality time you have left with your dad
:loveya:
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MoonAndSun Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 02:26 PM
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25. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
A :hug: for you.
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Fenris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 02:30 PM
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26. The torch will be carried while you are gone, brother
You have my sympathy, skip. Be with your dad now. Cosmicdot, underpants, I, and the rest of the DU caption crew will handle things around here.

"I go, and it is done; the bell invites me.
Hear it not, Duncan, for it is a knell
That summons thee to heaven or to hell."
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SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 02:32 PM
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27. Thoughts are with you..
Edited on Mon Nov-24-03 02:33 PM by SoCalDem
Even when it's expected, it's never easy..:hug:
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regularguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 02:41 PM
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Take care Skip Fox! Sorry to hear the bad news.
:hi:
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-24-03 02:41 PM
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28. I'm sorry, Skip...
Keep in touch, and let us know how you're all doing. You've always been there when we need a laugh. Let us be here for you during this difficult time...

~hugggggggggggggggggggggs~
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nothingshocksmeanymore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-25-03 03:22 AM
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29. Kick for Skip Fox
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jus_the_facts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-25-03 03:43 AM
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30. You'll be missed....and my sympathies to you......
Edited on Tue Nov-25-03 03:45 AM by jus_the_facts
.....may he rest in peace in his final days and live forever in your memories of him after he passes. My heart goes out to you and your family Skip ya'll are in my thoughts and prayers! :hug: :loveya:
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kayleybeth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-25-03 04:15 AM
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31. May your father go with God
and may good memories comfort you. Sorry for your impending loss. :-(
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VOX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-25-03 06:20 AM
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32. I'm so very sorry to learn this, skip...
Losing a parent is *very* tough at any age -- I lost my 90-year-old mom this year, and it was a rough go. She had a great run, but it's hard to say goodbye to those who gave you life.

When your parents are gone, you are in a sense an orphan, severed from that connection to your personal history.

My best thoughts to you in this difficult time...

Take care --
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Hubert Flottz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-25-03 06:23 AM
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33. I'm very sorry for you Skip!
We will miss your pictures!
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Darth_Kitten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-25-03 06:55 AM
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34. No need to explain.....
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. :hug:
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jus_the_facts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-25-03 10:50 AM
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35. kick for skip and his Dad.....
:loveya:
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bearfan454 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-25-03 11:20 AM
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36. God Bless you and your family.
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Zomby Woof Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-25-03 11:38 AM
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37. forget the captions, friend
Lots of us here are always happy to take up the slack. Far more important that you attend to your father, and that you have my best thoughts extended to you and your family during this difficult time.
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cosmicdot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-26-03 04:26 PM
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38. a kick for skip
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peterh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-26-03 04:39 PM
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39. My condolences….
Went through that earlier this year with my dad….take your time and come back when you are ready…
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flamingyouth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-26-03 04:43 PM
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40. I am so sorry...
My thoughts are with you and your family. All of your many, many friends here send you our love.

:loveya: :grouphug:
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lpbk2713 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-26-03 05:27 PM
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41. Peace be with you and all concerned.
You, your Dad, family and friends.
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grannylib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-26-03 07:49 PM
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42. I am right with you, SkipFox...same situation here...my prayers are with
you and your family...
May you all be at much at peace as is possible in this difficult situation.
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UrbScotty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-26-03 07:55 PM
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43. Best of luck to you, skip.
My sympathies.
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