Anyone wanna help me try to understand something weird that happened to me

[JohnKleeb]

I'll go in to depth what happened if you pm me or something. Basically I get a IM from someone saying they like me and stuff, I dont know who this person is, and its really weird and kooky and shit, and then they ask me to reveal a crush I had, and I didnt remember, so the person remembered, and I remembered then, and then they started going apeshit over me. I dont get this. This is too weird.

[neuvocat]

1. Strange.

[JohnKleeb]

2. I know

and the weird thing was according to this person, two of my friends who I am kinda honestly trying to distance myself from were right there and they are now pissed at me. Totally weird and no people I did not start pot. I got the convo and will show you scripts of it, if you IM me online with AIM or Windows Messager. Weird thing is these two friends of mine do not know my AIM sn or even know I gots one I think. :shrug: This is so strange.

[Maple]

3. No

it's just high school.

[JohnKleeb]

4. umm I dont know maple

Good theory but these friends of mine, they go to Catholic High School not public like me but thats a good theory and they dont know my AIM sn so that cant be it. :shrug: This is beyond strange to me.

[Maple]

7. Trust me

it's just high school stuff.

[JohnKleeb]

8. Youre likely right but how would they know my sn

Thats the strange thing.

[never cry wolf]

15. You can search AIM for buddies

According to an email address. If they know your email, they can find out your AIM sn. Even if you havn't written to them directly your email addy may have been on some forwarded messages.

[JohnKleeb]

19. I dont know their email but I am gonna ask my brother to find out

Its payback time.

[Systematic Chaos]

5. Hmmm... maybe this is some kind of practical joke?

It's probably either nothing or an attempt at being funny (maybe maliciously, maybe not).

It's possible you're being targeted by one of the two "friends" you're trying to get away from, because they know what you're up to and just want to give you some s**t as a parting shot.

Whatever it is, don't work yourself up over it, and don't speak to these former friends any more than you have to.

[JohnKleeb]

6. How would they know that though

I am giving no clues. Plus they dont know my sn, and this is too weird for them.

[CSI Willows]

9. Just weird

just shows you anyone can get your sn I guess....probably just some high poop chute who didn't have anything better to do. have you ever been in any AOL public chatrooms? they could get your sn that way.

[JohnKleeb]

10. kick

:kick: Please guys, this is kinda important and I am curious.

[JohnKleeb]

11. kick afternooon

:kick:

[philosophie_en_rose]

12. ???

Possibilities:

A: Random friends have nothing to do but pester you. (Highly Likely)

B: Someone really likes you, because you are a sweetie. (Awww...:))

C: Someone is disgustingly obsessed with you. In which case you don't have to do anything for that person to be crazed. (Please be safe.)

It's probably a combination of bored friends that exploit someone that likes you (or vice versa). The point of that activity is to control your time and attention. (A little like the freeper invaders on this board.)

Set some limits Mr. Kleeb. You don't have to respond to every person that randomly instant messages you. It sounds like you are at least a little disturbed. Don't waste your time, if you don't want to.

On Edit: Does anyone have your sn? Not to be ageist, but when I was in high school privacy and discretion where not that tight.

[JohnKleeb]

13. Ok thanks for your theories

Well if its friends, how did they get my sn, they dont know it or even know I have one.

[Bossy Monkey]

16. They could google johnkleeb,

sign up here, and magically, they have your IM identity. Not that tough, really.

[JohnKleeb]

18. I doubt it, these guys arent that sophiscated

[JohnKleeb]

14. kick

:kick: I need anaylis please.

[JVS]

17. Sounds like some kind of deranged pervert to me.

[JohnKleeb]

20. It was so odd

I suspect my two friends that I am distancing myself from but this isnt their style.

[JVS]

23. Yeah, it could be a prank by friends

I once had a bunch of engineering students try to play a phone sex prank on me. It didn't work, I'm too straight-laced.

[JohnKleeb]

24. shrug but I am curious as to how they got my sn

and I know their style, this aint it.

[JVS]

27. You are very active on this board and don't hide your identity.

I could come down to Virginia and try to find you if I really felt like it, but since I'm not some kind of psycho case I wouldn't bother. But there are weirdos out there.

[JohnKleeb]

28. See man

I know who may behind it, some friends from the neighorhood. I dont tell my friends names on this board, and stuff, trust me it was someone I know that had something to do with this.

[Skittles]

21. John

you use your real name here - just be aware that ANYONE who PMs you, who replies to your posts, COULD BE SOMEONE WHO KNOWS YOU. Hence, someone could f*** with you. Be careful!!!

[JohnKleeb]

22. Yes but I dont talk about my friends here by name

Thanks though.

[never cry wolf]

25. If anyone knows you use this site

Your AIM sn is listed on your profile too.

[JohnKleeb]

26. and they dont

They dont know how left wing I am. They are wingers keep in mind. They know I am a dem and thats about it.