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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:10 PM Original message |
Thank You DU.This time I called the cops. It was too much. |
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BelleCarolinaPeridot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:13 PM Response to Original message |
1. You are in my thoughts ... |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:14 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. Thanks, hon. |
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miss_american_pie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:14 PM Response to Original message |
2. Be strong |
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Kire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:16 PM Response to Original message |
4. God bless you |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:20 PM Response to Reply #4 |
7. He is still my friend. Someday we will be together again. I hope |
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Kire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:21 PM Response to Reply #7 |
8. Okay. |
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BelleCarolinaPeridot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:40 PM Response to Reply #7 |
16. Good men don't black their friends out ... |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:46 PM Response to Reply #16 |
24. He is a good man, that I know. But few people understood him. |
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BelleCarolinaPeridot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:48 PM Response to Reply #24 |
27. Listen sister : |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:49 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. I don't think it is funny at all. |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:13 PM Response to Reply #7 |
41. Please.... |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:16 PM Response to Reply #41 |
46. I don't know what is happening with him. I really don't have a third party |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:35 PM Response to Reply #46 |
59. Just remember... |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:16 PM Response to Original message |
5. Good you called...sorry you were beaten |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:19 PM Response to Reply #5 |
6. They took photos of the bruises. And there will be a restraining |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:23 PM Response to Reply #6 |
9. Good job elshiva |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:44 PM Response to Reply #6 |
20. Here's the fact, elshiva dear |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:45 PM Response to Reply #20 |
23. Thanks, but I am already in therapy. |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:58 PM Response to Reply #23 |
35. Lame answer |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:09 PM Response to Reply #35 |
37. LISTEN. I AM SORRY! I AM GETTING THERAPY. |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:12 PM Response to Reply #37 |
39. Good |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:13 PM Response to Reply #39 |
42. Thank you, but there are limits to what a person can do in 24 hours! |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:48 PM Response to Reply #42 |
72. Hope you do join and find you are not alone in what has happened to you |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:56 PM Response to Reply #72 |
77. I am joining. I just can't seem to please anyone. |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 11:03 PM Response to Reply #77 |
85. it's about pleasing yourself and no one else |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:24 PM Response to Original message |
10. What the hell!? |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:35 PM Response to Reply #10 |
12. This is only the third time with him. But he is a great friend. |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:37 PM Response to Reply #12 |
14. He beats the crap out of you and you still want to be his friend? |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:39 PM Response to Reply #14 |
15. Yes, I know it sounds crazy, but he loves me and I love him. |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:43 PM Response to Reply #15 |
18. I'm sorry, but you sound like a battered woman defending her man. |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:44 PM Response to Reply #18 |
21. I will stay away from him, but I do miss him and I do love him still. |
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BelleCarolinaPeridot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:44 PM Response to Reply #15 |
22. Love should never hurt ! |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:47 PM Response to Reply #22 |
26. I am so sorry about what happened to you. |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:51 PM Response to Reply #12 |
32. elshive, you need to learn about abusers, their tempers and how they cycle |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:06 PM Response to Reply #32 |
36. YEAH I KNOW IT WAS MY FAULT ALREADY. I AM SORRY! |
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LynzM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:12 PM Response to Reply #36 |
40. Dude, it's not your fault |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:15 PM Response to Reply #40 |
44. Thanks, again, he did not always do this, sometimes he was nice |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:15 PM Response to Reply #36 |
43. It wasn't your fault -- you don't need to apologize to anyone but yourself |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:18 PM Response to Reply #43 |
47. Thanks. This is a big step for me. Don't know what is next. |
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tyedyeto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:16 PM Response to Reply #36 |
45. It's NOT your fault |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:19 PM Response to Reply #45 |
49. I am Not seeing him again. I am having a hard thinking straight |
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CBHagman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:20 PM Response to Reply #36 |
51. No, it is not your fault, and no, you have nothing to apologize for. |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:21 PM Response to Reply #51 |
53. Thanks, we got cell phones. He has got a restraining order. |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:33 PM Response to Reply #36 |
57. Totally not your fault, babe. |
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philosophie_en_rose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:46 PM Response to Reply #36 |
68. You don't have to apologize. |
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gardenista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:27 PM Response to Reply #12 |
55. Well, I have really mixed feelings after reading this. |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:40 PM Response to Reply #55 |
63. I am going to get special therapy in a support group starting |
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gardenista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:44 PM Response to Reply #63 |
66. I am so glad. |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:47 PM Response to Reply #66 |
71. Thanks. |
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Zookeeper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:30 PM Response to Original message |
11. I don't know the situation, but I'm sure he's not your "friend." |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:36 PM Response to Reply #11 |
13. I want to let this person back into my life maybe in a year or so. |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:42 PM Response to Original message |
17. What?! |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:43 PM Response to Reply #17 |
19. Thanks for your concern. I've seen the doctor. I am okay. |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:46 PM Response to Original message |
25. elshiva, I'm glad you called the cops |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:48 PM Response to Reply #25 |
28. He was very, very funny. But he hated the fact I do not like the |
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BelleCarolinaPeridot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:50 PM Response to Reply #28 |
30. ????? |
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smirkymonkey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:51 PM Response to Reply #28 |
33. Oh, well, at least he had a good reason. |
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LynzM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:56 PM Response to Reply #28 |
34. Elshiva, dude, listen to yourself. |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:10 PM Response to Reply #34 |
38. Well, I guess if you look at it like that, yeah he is a jerk. |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:19 PM Response to Reply #38 |
48. Yes, elshiva, he's a jerk. |
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gardenista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:38 PM Response to Reply #28 |
61. No, oh my God. |
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philosophie_en_rose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:52 PM Response to Reply #61 |
74. Nice. Blame the victim. |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 11:02 PM Response to Reply #74 |
84. Thanks. Wise, wise words. I am very confused. I don't get a lot |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 09:51 PM Response to Original message |
31. Oh, I am so sorry you have been going through this. |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:19 PM Response to Original message |
50. Do not let this vermin back in your life. Ever. |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:20 PM Response to Reply #50 |
52. Thanks, I am NOT seeing him again. |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:29 PM Response to Reply #52 |
56. Good! Glad to hear it! |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:35 PM Response to Reply #52 |
58. Print out your reply to Oregonian |
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BelleCarolinaPeridot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:36 PM Response to Reply #58 |
60. That is a good idea . |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:24 PM Response to Original message |
54. Someone who beats you is NOT a "friend". Pure and simple. |
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northzax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:39 PM Response to Original message |
62. you know, I'm not that far away |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:43 PM Response to Reply #62 |
64. Thanks, hon. But the police have got him on a restraining order. |
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philosophie_en_rose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:44 PM Response to Original message |
65. Elshiva: It is okay for you to feel conflicted. |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:46 PM Response to Reply #65 |
69. I've called the police, hon. And he is on restraining order. |
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philosophie_en_rose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:54 PM Response to Reply #69 |
76. I'm glad, but restraining orders are only a tool. |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 11:01 PM Response to Reply #76 |
83. Only a tool???? HUH?? |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:45 PM Response to Original message |
67. Good |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:46 PM Response to Reply #67 |
70. Thanks, LeftyMom. |
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BelleCarolinaPeridot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:50 PM Response to Original message |
73. I have only one thing to say : |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
75. elshiva...maybe print this thread out and take with you to share |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:59 PM Response to Reply #75 |
80. Thanks. I did with my friends and God's help save myself. |
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Hissyspit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:56 PM Response to Original message |
78. I've never hit a women in my life. I'm male and 43. |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:59 PM Response to Reply #78 |
81. Thanks for never hitting a woman. That means A LOT! |
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tuvor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 10:57 PM Response to Original message |
79. Take good care of yourself, elshiva. |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 11:00 PM Response to Reply #79 |
82. Thanks! Prayers mean a lot to me. |
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BigMcLargehuge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-22-06 11:05 PM Response to Original message |
86. Locked |
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