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RevCheesehead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:26 AM
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My mom just died.
I'm still in shock. She died peacefully, in her sleep. There was no indication this was coming (other than her chronic lung disease). I've packed up stuff and am heading down to be with Dad, who is pretty broken up.

I'll check back later. In the meantime, THANK YOU for your prayers, your love, and support. I love you, my friends.

Ruth
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terrya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:27 AM
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1. I'm so sorry, Rev.
My condolences to you and your family.
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laylah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:29 AM
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2. Ahhh Rev
I am so sorry for your loss! Hopefully that she died peacefully is a comfort to you and your dad. You are in my thoughts :hug:

Jenn
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BobMorr Donating Member (326 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:30 PM
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164. I'm sorry for your loss
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Rowdyboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:31 AM
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3. I am so sorry.....
Wish there was some way to help.
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merh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:31 AM
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4. Sending out cyber hugs
and prayers for you and your dad and brother.

You are in my prayers.

:hug: :loveya:

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Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:32 AM
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5. I'm very sorry for your loss, Rev.
:hug:

My thoughts are with you and your family.
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Strong Atheist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:32 AM
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6. Damn. I'm sorry. That happened to my Dad two years ago...
so sorry. Words will never help... Sorry about your loss.
:-( :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :hug:
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:32 AM
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7. Oh NO! Rev, my condolences to you and your father.
I remember your thread about her a month or so ago. My warmest regards to your family. :hug:
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BikeWriter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:33 AM
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8. I'm so very sorry, Sweety!
:hug:
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greatauntoftriplets Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:33 AM
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9. I am so sorry, Rev...
:hug:

My deepest sympathies.
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In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:34 AM
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10. I'm very sorry, Rev!
I'll hold you in my heart. :loveya:

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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:35 AM
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11. I'm so sorry, Rev.
My thoughts are with you and your dad, as well as the rest of her loved ones.
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:35 AM
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12. My condolences to you and your family.
I am so sorry for your loss.
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:35 AM
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13. Oh honey, I'm so sorry
:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

I will be praying for you and your family.

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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:40 AM
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14. My condolences to you and your family.
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ET Awful Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:43 AM
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15. Oh wow. . . . I'm sorry to hear it, my condolences to the entire family.
:hug:
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MissHoneychurch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:45 AM
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16. My condolences
to you and your family. As hard as it is always remember she had an easy death. What else can one ask for but to die while sleeping. May she have a good afterlife.

:hug:
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:50 AM
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17. Oh Rev...
I'm so very sorry for your loss. Know that you're held close in our prayers and thoughts.

:hug:


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Spacemom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:52 AM
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18. I'm so, so sorry
You and your family are in my thoughts. :hug:
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ProfessorGAC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:55 AM
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19. Condolences Rev!
When my dad died, we knew it was coming, so we could prepare. This has to be tough. Hang in there.
The Professor
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peacefreak Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:56 AM
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20. I am sorry for your loss.
She must have been a wonderful person to have raised a remarkable person such as you. Blessings to your father. I hope you & your family will find peace & joy in her memory.
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:57 AM
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21. So very sorry to hear that.
:hug:
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tjdee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:58 AM
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22. I'm sorry to hear this.
:hug:
I hope your family finds some comfort during this time.
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Road Scholar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:58 AM
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23. Condolences Rev.
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yvr girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 08:01 AM
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24. I'm so sorry.
:hug:

You and your dad will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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LaurenG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 08:02 AM
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25. Oh no Rev
I am so terribly sorry. This just brings tears to my eyes for you. Bless your dear sweet heart! You have my prayers and love. :hug:
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Heidi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 08:03 AM
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26. Love
and protection to you and your family, Rev. :hug:
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 08:03 AM
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27. Oh my.... I am so sorry.
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Moosepoop Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 08:04 AM
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28. I'm so sorry.
My heart goes out to you.
I share your feelings of grief... we just buried my Dad yesterday. :hug:
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Cobalt Violet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 08:07 AM
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29. My sympathies go out to you.
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 08:09 AM
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30. My condolences Rev
:hug:
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eyesroll Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 08:10 AM
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31. I'm sorry for your loss, Rev.
:hug:

My thoughts are with your family.
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Theres-a Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 08:11 AM
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32. I'm so sorry
Keeping you in my prayers.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 08:17 AM
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33. I'm so very sorry. Know that you are in my prayers, and God bless you , nt
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DancingBear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 08:19 AM
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34. Our deepest sympathies to you Rev
We wish you peace during these trying times. :hug:
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 08:21 AM
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35. So sorry, you're in my thoughts
:hug:
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mdmc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 08:22 AM
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36. I am sorry for your loss
I will say a prayer for your family.:kick:
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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 08:23 AM
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37. Ruthie....
Even though you knew it was soon, it's always a shock... My prayers and thoughts are with you...
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LaraMN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 08:23 AM
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38. Oh Rev, I'm so sorry!
Much love, hugs, and kind thoughts headed your way. She must have been one heck of a woman to have raised a gem like you.
:hug: :hug: :hug:
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samplegirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 08:23 AM
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39. So sorry
I'm glad she went peacefully. Your in my thoughts.
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CTyankee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 08:33 AM
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40. I went thru this last April
It takes time. You've known your mother literally all your life. I'm glad it was so peaceful for her and for you. My mother died peacefully, gently and naturally. I cry when I think about it but I'm glad she did not suffer. How old was your Mom? Mine was 94. A long life...
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Libby2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 08:37 AM
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41. I'm so sorry.
You and your family have my deepest sympathy.
Sending good thoughts and lots of hugs your way.:grouphug:
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gollygee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 08:39 AM
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42. I'm sorry for your loss
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Call Me Wesley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 08:44 AM
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43. Might she be free from suffering.
Peace and comfort to you and your family. You're in our prayers. :hug:
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LynzM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:00 AM
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44. Oh Rev, I'm so sorry
Much love and peace to you and your family :hug: I will keep you all in my thoughts.
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Scout1071 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:02 AM
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45. Oh no, Rev. My prayers are with you and your family.
God bless.
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arwalden Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:03 AM
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46. I'm very sorry to hear the tragic news...
Deepest condolences to you and to your family.

~Allen
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Bossy Monkey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:04 AM
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47. So sorry Ruth. All condolences to you, your father, and your entire family
I lost my mom at 80 three years ago. PM if you need to.
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qanda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:07 AM
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48. I'm so sorry.
My prayers are with you and your family.
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swag Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:07 AM
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49. I'm very sorry.
Take care.
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Beware the Beast Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:08 AM
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50. I am so sorry, Rev.
:hug:
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TBreeze Donating Member (393 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:08 AM
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51. I'm so sorry
My thoughts are with you and your family. :hug:
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Bunny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:10 AM
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52. Oh my. I'm so sorry.
My condolences, Rev. :hug:
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nutsnberries Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:10 AM
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53. I'm sorry- take care.
:hug:
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Callalily Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:16 AM
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54. My heart is breaking
for your Rev. I am so sorry. Your mom will live on forever in your heart.

I am keeping you and your family my prayers, and sending my guardian angel for a little extra support.


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Brewman_Jax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:18 AM
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55. My condolences, Rev
:(

Take care and me and the cats will hold a good thought for you.
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1gobluedem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:18 AM
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56. Thoughts and prayers are with you
Same thing happened to my college roommate's mother last month. It's terrible.
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cally Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:19 AM
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57. I'm so sorry, RC
I'm saying a prayer for you and your family. Here's a :hug:
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Lochloosa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:20 AM
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58. Take care Rev...
:hug:
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rockymountaindem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:23 AM
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59. My condolences
God bless you :hug:
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dpbrown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:25 AM
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60. My thoughts are with you
My condolences, Ruth.
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ronnykmarshall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:26 AM
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61. I'm so sorry Rev.
I lost my uncle last month and it was very sudden too.

:loveya:
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Blue Diadem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:30 AM
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62. Oh Rev, I'm so sorry
:hug: Sending prayers and hugs to you and your family.
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CBHagman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:32 AM
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63. Oh, Reverend. I am so sorry.
Dear Reverend, thanks for taking the time to tell us. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Sometimes I think you are the heart of DU!
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Lavender Brown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:34 AM
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64. My thoughts are with you and your family
I'm so sorry for your loss, Ruth. :hug:
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reyd reid reed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:34 AM
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65. I'm sorry
Losing a parent, especially a mom, is probably one of the hardest things in life. I'm so sorry and I'll keep you and your dad in my thoughts.

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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:36 AM
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66. I'm really sad to hear this
Please accept my condolences.
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Nicholas D Wolfwood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:36 AM
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67. I am so sorry Rev
:hug::hug::hug::hug:

If you need anything, please let me know. :hug:
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:37 AM
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68. Oh, Ruth, what can I do except give you hugs and prayers?
:hug:

May light perpetual shine upon her.
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babylonsister Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:38 AM
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69. My sincere condolences to you and your dad, Rev.
It's so difficult to bid your parent(s) good-bye, but you know she'll always be with you.:hug:
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MissMillie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:38 AM
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70. Much love to you and your family
I am very sorry for your loss.
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REDKING Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:40 AM
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71. My deepest sympathy you and youre family.
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Mayberry Machiavelli Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:42 AM
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72. I'm sorry, Rev.
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:45 AM
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73. Love to you and your family Cheesey
:hug:
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redwitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:47 AM
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74. I'm so sorry Rev! It is shocking for you and your Dad.
I was just talking with friends last night about a "good death". Peacefully, in one's sleep, is about the only one we could think of. It is so very difficult though, for those left behind. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
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DanCa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:52 AM
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75. Oh Rev, I am so sorry.
I just wanted to let you know that I am here for you, day or night please pm me.
Your one of the strongest, sweetest people I know please hang in there and I'll be praying for you. Love you always Danny. :hug:
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:56 AM
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76. I'm very sorry for your loss.
:hug: What terrible news. My thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time. :hug:
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bullwinkle428 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:59 AM
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77. I'm very sorry for your loss -
my condolences to you and you family...:hug:
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no name no slogan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:02 AM
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78. oh Rev...
:hug:

prayers of safe travel and comfort for you and your family
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miss_american_pie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:10 AM
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79. I'm so very sorry
Your family will be in my prayers. :hug:
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Minnesota Libra Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:14 AM
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80. I am so sorry to hear of your loss and I hope.......
....you will accept this:hug: and know your Mom is now an O8)
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Catchawave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:16 AM
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81. Love and thoughts are with you Rev....
:hug:

So sorry for your loss.
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:16 AM
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82. I am so sorry.
:hug:
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JitterbugPerfume Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:21 AM
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83.  so sorry
(((((((((((((((((((((((((HUG)))))))))))))))))))))))
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Shine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:25 AM
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84. Oh honey, I'm so sorry for your loss.
Please know my thoughts and heart are with you during this difficult time. :hug:

Peace be with you, my friend. :loveya:
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:35 AM
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85. *sniff*
thinking of you, Ruth
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southlandshari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:36 AM
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86. Oh, Ruth....
:hug:

You and your father are in my constant thoughts and prayers. Check your email for my numbers.

:hug:
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Sugar Smack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:36 AM
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87. Love to you, Rev.
I am so sorry. :hug:
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huskerlaw Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:37 AM
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88. I'm so sorry
my thoughts are with you and your family.

:hug:
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Coventina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:39 AM
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89. condolences and hugs
Take care of yourself!

Love to you and your family.....
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peekaloo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:45 AM
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90. Condolences dear Rev.
:hug:
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MrScorpio Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:47 AM
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91. My condolences to you and your family
May your mom rest in peace

:hug:
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mtowngman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:48 AM
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92. I'm so sorry
you're in my thoughts
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Hissyspit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:52 AM
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93. So very sorry to hear that.
Hang in there.
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libnnc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:56 AM
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94. Oh no, Rev. I'm so, so sorry.
:cry: :hug:

My thoughts are with you and your family.
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jane_pippin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:58 AM
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95. Oh, no. I'm sorry.
Love and prayers to you and your family. :hug:
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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 11:11 AM
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96. I'm so sorry for your loss, Rev
My thoughts and best wishes are with you and your family.

:hug:
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deadparrot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 11:13 AM
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97. I'm so sorry, RevC.
:hug:

All my thoughts and prayers are with you. Best of luck to you and your family--may your mom rest peacefully.
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TallahasseeGrannie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 11:14 AM
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98. May she rest in peace as she lays her burdens down.
Remember, your love for your mom will never die. The relationship will change, but the love will always be there.
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atomic-fly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 11:14 AM
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99. Peace be with you...so sorry. nt
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FuzzySlippers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 11:17 AM
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100. Oh, Ruth. I'm so sorry.
:hug:
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El Fuego Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 11:26 AM
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101. I am very sorry for your loss.
:hug:
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AnarchoFreeThinker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 11:30 AM
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102. Good thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 11:48 AM
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103. Wow - I'm sorry to hear that, RevCheesehead!
You and the fmaily are in my prayers. Losing a parent that one likes is a painful experience, especially suddenly like that - my dad died without any warning as well. I spoke with him on the phone, life was perfect, and a few hours later, after I had sung Handel's Messiah, my sister called to let me know he was dead. :shrug:

Sympathies to you and all as you adjust to life without your mother, and the new family that has been created.
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enigami Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 12:16 PM
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104. I'm sorry
I lost my mother three years ago. I miss her very much
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Crazy Guggenheim Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 12:23 PM
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105. I am so sorry to hear this Rev. My thoughts are with you. Remember
we are always here for you. :pals: :hug:
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meow2u3 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 12:24 PM
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106. I'm so sorry to hear that
:hug: :grouphug: :hug: :grouphug:
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xultar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 12:26 PM
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107. I love you. Best to your dad and the rest of the family. Hang tough
I'll be with you in spirit.
X
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madrchsod Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 12:28 PM
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108. she went into the light and her burdens were lifted
Edited on Tue Mar-07-06 12:28 PM by madrchsod
her body is gone from us now but not the fruits of her labor...
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 12:28 PM
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109. I'm so sorry, Rev
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. :hug:
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tigereye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 12:29 PM
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110. prayers and thoughts are with you Rev.
:hug:
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MissB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 12:32 PM
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111. I am so sorry for your loss.
:hug:
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 12:34 PM
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112. More love and best wishes .
You're getting lots. Here's more. :hug:

I'm sorry for your family's loss. But I'm glad it was peaceful.

Be well. :hug:
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 12:35 PM
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113. My dear Ruth......
My heart goes out to you today.....

And you indeed have my prayers, love and support.....

Remember, she is at peace now......her struggles are over.....

It is so hard on you, I know, to face life without her being here......

The sudden passings are so hard to accept.....no time to say goodbye...

We've got your back.....

:hug:
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flamingyouth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 12:37 PM
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114. I'm very sorry for your loss.
:hug:
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Missy Vixen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 12:44 PM
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115. Thinking of you and your family
I am so, so sorry to read this.

Julie
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 12:45 PM
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116. My heartfelt condolences
So sorry.
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WeRQ4U Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 12:45 PM
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117. I'm so sorry.
Good vibes your way.
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khashka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 12:53 PM
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118. Oh, Ruth, what a terrible thing.....
Comfort yourself by knowing she died peacefully in her sleep - something that we all pray for ourselves - and that she had a loving family.

Go take care of your Dad. But also take care of yourself, too. Please?

:hug:

Prayers (definitely!) for you and your family at this terrible time.


Khash.
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Serial Mom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 12:57 PM
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119. My heartfelt sympathy...
:hug:
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henslee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 01:00 PM
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120. Peace to you and your family.
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lavenderdiva Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 01:05 PM
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121. oh Rev, I am so very, very sorry to hear of your Mom's passing...
The world just never seems the same after our parents die. Somehow, we feel 'exposed' to the world, as if they shielded us. That layer is gone. My heart breaks for you and your Dad, and the sadness you must be feeling. Please know that you will be in my prayers, and that her spirit is not very far from you. Peace and blessings. :hug: :cry: :hug:

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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 01:07 PM
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122. I am so sorry...
You have my cell phone number. Please use it if you need to...

My condolensces to you and your family.

RL
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 01:42 PM
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123. Rev - no words from me are adequate!
I love you, and am with you during this time of grieve and loss.

:hug:
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underpants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 01:49 PM
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124. I'm very sorry
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flygal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 01:49 PM
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125. Peace to your family
I'm so sorry - what a time you've been having. Best to you through all this.
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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 01:50 PM
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126. My condolences. I'm so sorry...
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chookie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 01:56 PM
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127. My heartfelt condolences
I am very sorry for you and your family.
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July Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 01:57 PM
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128. I'm very sorry, RevCheesehead.
It must have been a terrible shock to lose her so suddenly. I hope you and your Dad can be a comfort to each other as you deal with this devastating loss. You'll be in our thoughts.
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UrbScotty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 01:58 PM
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129. Much love from Michigan
:hug:
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RFKHumphreyObama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 03:02 PM
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130. I'm so, so, very sorry Ruth
My sincere, deepest and most profound thoughts, prayers, condolences and sympathies to you and your family on your loss :hug: I know your mother had been unwell for a while now and I'd already added her to my prayer list. Rest assured you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers
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amitten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 03:16 PM
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131. I am very sorry for your sad loss. I'm sure I don't need to tell you
that she has moved on to a better place. :hug:
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4 t 4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 03:18 PM
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132. I'm so so sorry
take care of yourself
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nonconformist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 03:20 PM
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133. I'm so sorry. You and your family have my heartfelt condolences. nt
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entanglement Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 03:21 PM
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134. I'm so sorry for your loss dear Rev
Peace :hug: :grouphug:
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Mad_Dem_X Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 03:23 PM
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135. My deepest condolences. n/t
Edited on Tue Mar-07-06 03:23 PM by Mad_Dem_X
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kwassa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 03:36 PM
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136. Very sorry for your loss.
All of our thoughts and prayers go with you.

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FreedomAngel82 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 03:37 PM
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137. I'm sorry for your loss
:hug: It seems so many people have been dying lately. :( I'm sorry you lost your Mom too. I hope she's RIP and I hope your dad is okay.
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6000eliot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 03:41 PM
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138. I'm so sorry for your loss, Rev.
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Oeditpus Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 03:50 PM
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139. Oh, god
Rev... :grouphug:

If there's anything I can do... anything at all, please ask. :hug:
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Nikia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 04:16 PM
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140. I am sorry for you and your family
It is always hard to lose someone who you love, especially if it is unexpected.
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DemonGoddess Donating Member (364 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 04:17 PM
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141. I'm so sorry for your loss
you take care of yourself and your Dad
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 04:23 PM
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142. My condolences
doing a quick check in to see if I am ready to come back (burnt out on news) and find this, so sorry RevCH, my condolences to you all.
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 04:39 PM
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143. Dear heart
Edited on Tue Mar-07-06 04:47 PM by Whoa_Nelly
Thoughts and love for you, your dad, and your brother.

xo :hug:
Nelly



If Death is Kind

Perhaps if death is kind, and there can be returning,
We will come back to earth some fragrant night,
And take these lanes to find the sea, and bending
Breathe the same honeysuckle, low and white.

We will come down at night to these resounding beaches
And the long gentle thunder of the sea,
Here for a single hour in the wide starlight
We shall be happy, for the dead are free.

~Sara Teasdale

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Metta Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 04:41 PM
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144. Go well and be well.
Edited on Tue Mar-07-06 05:23 PM by Metta
Be good to yourself. You can't give what you don't have. You have an ideal opportunity to connect with her spirit for the next couple or three days. This has worked for me and will give the two of you access to each other for awhile longer.

See yourself in the center of a perfectly formed, comfortably large circle. Fill it with gentle, golden flame, moving through you and all around you. Breathe normally. *Let* yourself breathe. Don't *make* yourself breathe. It may change into and egg. If it moves or changes, let it. If you get sensations and feelings moving, have them and watch things progress. This means your processing what you've been holding and going through. Breathing normally and paying attention to the image and your breath stabilizes the images and the experience.

After you see the images as being stable and while you're in the middle of them, ask to be with yor mom. You should be right there. The two of you will have unfettered access to each other and anything you want will be able to pass between the two of you.

See her in her own circle also surrounded, inside and out, with gentle golden flame. You'll feel/see flame, sensations and emotions transmitting back and forth between you. It may be intense at first. With renewed effort, the intensity will lessen as things get exchanged between the two of you and your situations come more into balance. Just focus on the image and breathe normally.

After the intensity has settled down, denoting balance between the two of you, do the above again, this time substituting violet flame which will create more healing and grounding.
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Mikimouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 04:42 PM
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145. Very sorry to hear of your mother's death...
May she rest in peace. Hugs to you and your dad.:grouphug:
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MsUSA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 04:47 PM
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146. So sorry
*hugs* and prayers. My mom died a year ago on March 12th.....I miss her so much.
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Benfea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 04:50 PM
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147. Ack!
Sorry for your loss, pal. :(
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Dave Reynolds Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 05:20 PM
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148. I am so sorry, Rev.
My thoughts are with you and your family.
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ulysses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 05:21 PM
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149. oh god.
All peace to you and your family, Ruth. I'm sorry.
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mvd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 05:21 PM
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150. Very sorry, Ruth, about your loss
I am sending my condolences out to you and your family.
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 05:58 PM
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151. I'm so sorry.
She did go peacefully, which was all that could be asked for in this situation.

I don't know what to say. You are the one I would usually ask for spiritual guidance in a time like this (besides my own pastor, of course). I will pray for you and your family.
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mohinoaklawnillinois Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 06:05 PM
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152. Oh Rev, I'm so sorry..
Your father, you and your brother will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Take care..:hug: :hug:
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Miss Marmelstein Donating Member (650 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 06:10 PM
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153. I am so sorry, Rev....
My sincere condolences to you and your family.

:hug:
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salin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 06:16 PM
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154. Very sorry to hear this news
may the warmth and love that lives on in memories help give comfort through the grief and mourning.
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merh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 06:24 PM
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155. Rev's update on another thread.
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seemunkee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 06:27 PM
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156. My sympathy to you and your family
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MnFats Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 06:30 PM
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157. There's probably nothing harder than losing your mom.
Edited on Tue Mar-07-06 06:52 PM by MnFats
even if she'd been ill. or elderly. It's still your mom. Nobody else comes close to being your mom.
my sincere sympathy.
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 06:31 PM
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158. Oh, Ruth... I'm so sorry.
:(

I hope you and your family can be together for each other.

*hug*
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FarLeftRage Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 06:33 PM
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159. So very sorry to hear this...
She is in a better place now, free of all pain and watching over you and yours.

She will be in my prayers tonight.
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YellowRubberDuckie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 06:43 PM
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160. I'm so sorry.
Take care of yourself. :hug:
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MissMarple Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 06:45 PM
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161. I'm so sorry, sweetheart.
:hug:
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goddess40 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:05 PM
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162. So sorry,
my condolences to you and your family
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maveric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:28 PM
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163. I'm so sorry. My Ma died like that last March 28.
She lived alone in the house that she and Dad built and died in the same bed that Dad died in 5 years earlier.
Losing my dad was terrible but when Ma, my best friend, died, it really hit me hard.
My condolensces Rev. Be there for your dad. You'll both need each other.
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Lady President Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 07:36 PM
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165. Peace to you and your family
Please take care of yourself and your loved ones during this difficult time. Peace be with you.
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 08:11 PM
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166. Keeping you in my thoughts
and prayers...

I'm so sorry for your loss. :hug:
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Maestro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 08:12 PM
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167. Extremely sorry for your loss
Only time will heal the pain, but it does get easier. My thoughts are with you. Take care.
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Bullwinkle925 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 08:13 PM
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168. I am sorry for your loss.
There aren't sufficient words to bring comfort at a time such as this. You will go through many mood swings and feelings in the next few months. Just know that we here at DU will be with you.
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likesmountains 52 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:21 PM
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169. So sorry...
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Katherine Brengle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:24 PM
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170. I'm so sorry...
I never know what to say... but I guess no one really does. I will be thinking of you and your family--be strong.
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:28 PM
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171. Rev, Rev, check your PM inbox.
When you have the time, of course.

Does it make you feel better to see this outpouring of sympathy from your fellow DUers? I hope it does.

Redstone
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bridgit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:30 PM
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172. Rev, please, i'm so sorry...
:hug: peace to mom & you :hug:
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EstimatedProphet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 09:31 PM
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173. I'm sorry for your loss.
Be well.
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Fredda Weinberg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:26 PM
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174. Best wishes
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readermostly Donating Member (298 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:29 PM
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175. You are in my thoughts. I'm so very sorry for you and your family.
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SCRUBDASHRUB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:31 PM
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176. Ruth, I am so sorry. May she rest in peace.
Please travel safely.
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proud patriot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:32 PM
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177. My condolences Rev
:hug:
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NNadir Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:33 PM
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178. Deepest condolences.
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Giant Robot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 10:48 PM
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179. May your memories of your mom
help you through the difficult times ahead. Wishing you peace and love.

:hug:
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Dinger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 11:02 PM
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180. Oh Rev, My Condolences, Prayers And Love Go Out To You
Come back and visit with us when you feel better, and maybe tell us something special about your mom. You are special, so I already KNOW she was (& is) too.:grouphug:
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yellowdogmi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 11:07 PM
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181. Sorry Rev.
I am sorry Rev. I wish I could offer profound words that would ease your sadness and your loss. The best I can do from here is this.
:hug:
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Swede Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 11:07 PM
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182. My condolences to you and your family.
I wish peace for you and your family.
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 11:30 PM
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183. Very Sorry. Hugs!
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eyepaddle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 11:45 PM
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184. I'm terribly sorry Rev
Edited on Tue Mar-07-06 11:46 PM by eyepaddle
my deepest sympathies are yours. :hug:
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Kat45 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 11:51 PM
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185. Oh my! I'm so sorry to hear that.
Wow! Well, at least she died peacefully, and you know she's in a good place now. But I sure can understand your shock. You and your dad will have to be there for each other and help each other cope. May God take your mother into his care so she will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.
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AwakeAtLast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-07-06 11:55 PM
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186. Many, many prayers and {{{HUGS}}} to you
:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

My sincere condolences to you and your family. Take care of yourself and if you need a shoulder,
I'm always a PM away!
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devilgrrl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-08-06 12:01 AM
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187. I am very sorry for your loss.
:hug:
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yellowdogintexas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-08-06 12:30 AM
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188. my thoughts are with you.
We are never ready to let our parents go, no matter how ill, or elderly they may be.

Take care
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Robeson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-08-06 12:31 AM
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189. I'm sorry Rev. I hope you and your Dad find peace.
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grace0418 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-08-06 12:36 AM
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190. I'm so sorry Ruth.
My condolences to you and your family. :hug:
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SofaKingLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-08-06 12:41 AM
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191. My condolences, Rev
I am sorry for your loss.

:hug:
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tuvor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-08-06 12:41 AM
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192. My condolences.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Take good care of yourself.
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RevCheesehead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-08-06 02:55 AM
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193. UPDATE
My brother just got here a 1/2 hour ago. Dad has finally been able to get some sleep, but he got up to give John a hug. And I just now popped a couple of ibuprofin - my first pain meds of the day. It's amazing what adrenaline will do to distract you (or keep you going).

Tomorrow, we go to the funeral home to do whatever we need to do. Then tomorrow afternoon is a memorial service here at their retirement home. We'll probably have the church service on Friday or Saturday. John's wife & kids will fly in on Thursday and join us for the weekend.

I am stunned at the outpouring of love and support from all of you. I knew I loved this community, but you have shown me the depth of that love, and I will always, always be grateful for that.

:grouphug:

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merh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-08-06 09:14 AM
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198. Take care of yourself, let our energies
and the source of those energies give you comfort and strength.

You are loved and we will be here when you need us.

Love you

(((((((((((Rev)))))))))))

:hug: :hug: :loveya:

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NMMNG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-08-06 02:56 AM
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194. I'm sorry Rev
You will be in my thoughts my friend. :hug:

With Metta,
Buffy
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VOX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-08-06 05:10 AM
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195. I am so very sorry to hear of your loss, Rev. It's difficult...
to lose a parent at any age -- in a sense, you become an "orphan."

I wish you peace and comfort in the coming days and weeks -- it will be hard, but know that you're much loved.

All good thoughts to you and your family -- :hug:

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northofdenali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-08-06 05:24 AM
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196. My sincerest condolences, Ruth,
my heart goes out to you. I so admire your strength, and know that it's partly because of your mother that you are as good a person as you are. You're in my thoughts.

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lady raven Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-08-06 05:30 AM
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197. I am so sorry for your loss!
I'm grateful that it was peaceful, but that still doesn't make things like this any easier, really. Have a safe trip and we'll be thinking of you and your family.
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