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MissHoneychurch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-06-06 04:37 PM
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Why suddenly come my ex-bfs online and chat with me?
:shrug: :eyes:
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-06-06 04:40 PM
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1. Uh-oh... be careful
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MissHoneychurch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-06-06 04:46 PM
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2. Oh I am
the one I just talked to hurt me too much for me to even wanting back with him. He admitted that he fucked up big time but that doesn't really help. Beside, he is together with the other woman. I don't know why he keeps lose contact with me.

The other guy is another story. I still kinda like him. I broke up with him because he fucked up too. But not as bad as the other one. He is still interested in me and wants another date. Dare I? Dare I not? I honestly don't know.

I am in a bit sad mood at the moment so I am not in the best condition to think about stuff like that.

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speedoo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-06-06 05:31 PM
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3. I think you are being very wise, MHC.
If you are in a sad mood, your decision might be the wrong one. I like your plan to wait until you have a clear head.

Meanwhile, maybe this will cheer you up :hug:
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-06-06 05:31 PM
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4. It's cause you're going out with four hot guys this weekend
Or three and me, anyway. :hi:
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MissHoneychurch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-07-06 01:40 AM
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8. That must be it.
it is 4 hot guys believe me

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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-06-06 05:36 PM
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5. Whos this guy messing with my girl honeybutt??
I'll kick his ass
:)
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MissHoneychurch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-07-06 01:41 AM
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9. He didn't mess with me this time
I am fine again, thanks GoP

:hug:
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-07-06 04:28 AM
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13. Good cuz nobody bess mess w/ my lady
:)
:hug:
good morning
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MnFats Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-06-06 05:46 PM
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6. choose one:
A.) They're insecure and want some affirmation, or at least to know you care.
B.) they feel bad about fucking up the relationship
C) they didn't find thegrass was so green over there, or some such cliche.
D.) they're missing great, um, I don't want to get the thread locked...
E.) as they age, they realize people need all the friends they can get...
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MissHoneychurch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-07-06 01:42 AM
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10. I could almost believe it is B) for both n/t
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DarkmoonIkonoklast Donating Member (829 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 06:38 PM
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16. F. All of the above... plus:
   ... they've finally realized what so many of us already know: :loveya: how very special, how very precious you are, my dear Miss Honey! :hug: :pals:
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Callalily Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-06-06 06:45 PM
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7. Ah MissH . . .
my motto is, never look back. It didn't work out for a reason, just keep remembering what that reason was.

<<< this is for you, and <<< this is for those four hot guys that you'll be seeing this weekend!
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MissHoneychurch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-07-06 01:46 AM
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11. I make sure to pass the hugs along
Edited on Sat Oct-07-06 01:46 AM by MissHoneychurch
I stole the smilie btw. It really made me smile. Thanks SimplyF :hug:

The ex I chatted with last night, I don't want back. He was lying during the whole realtaionship, the relationship itself was a lie, he was a lie. No thank you.
The other ex, well, he wasn't that bad. But he would have to change some major things for me to consider starting something with him again.
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gr8dane_daddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-07-06 02:23 AM
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12. Funny, my ex has started texting me recently...
miserable in her marriage. Sez she's moving down here in Texas. Talk about not needing the drama.
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In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-07-06 07:44 AM
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14. Maybe it's because they realize what they've lost.
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DarkmoonIkonoklast Donating Member (829 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 06:41 PM
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17. See #16 above...
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Dangerously Amused Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-07-06 08:47 AM
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15. That's the way it always goes, no?




We spend a long time with nobody wishing for only one, then suddenly men come running from all directions.


:shrug:



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LynzM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 06:47 PM
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18. I don't know, dude.
My ex from 4.5 years ago just found me on MySpace. :shrug: Weird.

They just know you're too cool to leave alone! :D
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Nicholas D Wolfwood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 07:52 PM
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19. There's a block button for a reason.
Use it liberally. :-)
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-08-06 07:54 PM
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20. My guess is that he's out of fresh blood
and wants to tear your heart out again. Be careful, dear.
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