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hatredisnotavalue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:36 PM Original message |
I don't know how much longer I can take lying to my mother. |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:42 PM Response to Original message |
1. That's sad..that you can't find another way |
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hatredisnotavalue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:52 PM Response to Reply #1 |
4. Thanks. for the hugs, I need them. . |
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mad-mommy (884 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:43 PM Response to Original message |
2. don't be sorry.... |
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hatredisnotavalue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:48 PM Response to Reply #2 |
3. Yah It would |
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mad-mommy (884 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:00 PM Response to Reply #3 |
6. I feel.... |
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hatredisnotavalue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:09 PM Response to Reply #6 |
12. Thanks so much mad-mommy |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 10:58 PM Response to Original message |
5. Its not lying. |
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hatredisnotavalue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:03 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. Thanks Kali |
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mad-mommy (884 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:06 PM Response to Reply #5 |
9. my grandma |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:05 PM Response to Original message |
8. You are doing what your mother did for you when you were a small |
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hatredisnotavalue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:18 PM Response to Reply #8 |
13. I understand protecting her |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:07 PM Response to Original message |
10. You keep lying. You have to. It's not easy, but you must. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:08 PM Response to Reply #10 |
11. Redstone... |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-27-06 11:19 PM Response to Original message |
14. If she has dementia, she won't remember from day to day |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 12:38 AM Response to Original message |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 11:34 AM Response to Reply #15 |
19. Or, another question, |
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Floogeldy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 11:53 AM Response to Reply #19 |
20. My mother had Alzheimer's and dementia. |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 11:56 AM Response to Reply #20 |
21. It's not about me, Floogeldy |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 01:03 AM Response to Original message |
16. next step |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 07:19 AM Response to Original message |
17. I had to lie to my dad all the time when he was in a nursing home. |
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caty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 11:00 AM Response to Original message |
18. I went through the same thing with my mother. |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 02:48 PM Response to Reply #18 |
30. your brother was your dad |
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Blue_Roses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 12:10 PM Response to Original message |
22. I know it's hard-- |
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necso (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 12:18 PM Response to Original message |
23. Showing some consideration for |
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Flaxbee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 12:28 PM Response to Original message |
24. do you have power of attorney over her finances? |
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SOteric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 01:36 PM Response to Original message |
25. Read this link. |
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QMPMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 02:09 PM Response to Original message |
26. I'm sorry that you have to go through this. |
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Catshrink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 02:20 PM Response to Original message |
27. I remember the day I took the car keys away from my mom. |
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ruiner4u (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 02:54 PM Response to Reply #27 |
32. No offense, thats a bad idea... |
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Catshrink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 03:27 PM Response to Reply #32 |
33. Good point.. |
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RazzleCat (336 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 02:23 PM Response to Original message |
28. Hugs and weasel help |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 02:42 PM Response to Original message |
29. I did the same thing with my father |
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JitterbugPerfume (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 02:50 PM Response to Original message |
31. Godess I hate getting old! |
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Mz Pip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 03:59 PM Response to Original message |
34. In a way you are protecting her |
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hippywife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-28-06 04:11 PM Response to Original message |
35. I work in a retirement center with |
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