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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-01-06 10:38 PM
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It's so hard to believe that the show "Friends" was about adults.
Whenever I watch that shitting abomination I think, "Wow - how junior high".

And then I think, "And what poorly written and poorly acted junior high".

:puke:

I can't believe anyone ever thought that POS was "relevant" or "topical" or "artistic".
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ghostsofgiants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-01-06 10:42 PM
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1. Such a craptacular show.
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cautiouslywaiting Donating Member (243 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-01-06 10:52 PM
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2. Wow.
I thought I was the only one who didn't like it.
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ChoralScholar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-01-06 10:53 PM
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3. Especially how nobody ever seemed to work enough to
afford those apartments....
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philosophie_en_rose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-01-06 10:55 PM
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5. but.... but.... it's possible to go straight from barista to Ralph Lauren executive, right?
right?

:rofl:
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NMMNG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 03:00 AM
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15. Not even a barista--a waitress
They wouldn't trust her to make the lattes and cappuccinos, only to shuffle them to the customers.
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Sanity Claws Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 02:25 PM
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34. You forgot she worked as a buyer's assistant at Bloomie's
for a while.
The show was never topical or artistic. It was a typical example of the sitcom genre with attractive people acting stupid.
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-01-06 10:55 PM
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4. I couldn't stand it.
About the only times I would see it is if I happened to walk into the living room when Mr. SeattleGirl was watching it. And then I'd usually hear the females talking and giggling like a bunch of chipmunks. Blech! Waste of air time.
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William Bloode Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-01-06 10:59 PM
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6. I can honestly say i never saw a full episode.
Almost certain i never saw more than five minutes of it. I just never had any interest. I think my feelings were close to yours. I just did not see them as plausible adults, and they damn sure didn't resembled anything i ever saw in my life as far as how young adults lived.
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-01-06 11:07 PM
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7. I avoided it for years, because even the premise sounded stupid
Then I was forced to watch it when my hosts for Thanksgiving a few years ago insisted on watching it as we ate our pumpkin pie.

I knew then that my instinct to avoid the show had been the correct one.
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-01-06 11:29 PM
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8. I liked it (she said, wiping the puke from the front of her blouse).
The reruns, I don't, because now I'm older and wiser. But at the time I was one of those lost causes, and I could relate. Totally. :rofl:
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Nicole Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-01-06 11:35 PM
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9. I had to watch it every week
Well I didn't have to but I would have missed out on some time with the teen daughter if I didn't.
Lame as that show was, I looked forward to our weekly pizza & Friends night.
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William Bloode Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 11:43 AM
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28. Yeah, but thats a damn fine excuse.
I would have suffered it gladly for time with my kids. Heck on that premise i might even have enjoyed it.
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Nicole Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 03:35 PM
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41. The best excuse!
I much preferred it to the Beverly Hills 090210 I suffered through for the same reason.
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-01-06 11:37 PM
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10. I like it
I never saw it prime time, but I've been watching it in syndicate lately, since I don't have cable. It's funny. Of course it's aimed low, or it wouldn't have an audience. If I want something sophisticated, I damn sure don't turn on my television.
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Vidar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 01:04 AM
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11. Might have seen 2 episodes. Regretted it.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 01:06 AM
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12. lol, I think the very same thing
I think it's hillarious that my SO loves it :rofl:
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Oeditpus Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 01:21 AM
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13. I watched it once
Some whiny blonde was in a coffee house, singing about how badly her cat smelled.



It's a good thing I don't own any guns but do have some drugs.

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tigereye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 11:17 AM
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24. Phoebe was the only character we liked
she actually reminded us of a real person....

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hfojvt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 02:22 AM
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14. "sometimes I don't speak right
and yet I know what I am talking about.
Why can't we be friends? Why can't we be friends?..."

I usually avoid Friends, but when I have watched it I found it funny. However, I would rather watch re-runs of "The misfits of science".
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Robeson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 03:10 AM
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16. I've never seen it, so I can't comment.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 06:05 AM
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17. I liked it...
...but then I also liked the first few years of 90210 very much...and Degrassi...so yay! :hi:
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 11:10 AM
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20. Well, DeGrassi (especially the 1980s version) was more realistic
in dealing with situations that might actually happen to teenagers, and they didn't live in gorgeous apartments on a low income. In fact, some of the characters were working class. Spike's mother ran a neighborhood hair salon, and Joey lived with his brother, who was an auto mechanic.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 02:28 PM
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35. Joey lived with his Mom and Dad. L.D. lived with her Dad, a mechanic...
God I know too much about that show. :)
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 03:12 PM
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36. That's right!
I guess I really was too old for the show. :-)
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 03:13 PM
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37. I confess! When it came out, I was 18... Another confession, my
daughter and I still watch the reruns and the new show... :blush:
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 03:16 PM
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40. Ha! I was in my thirties!
How sad is that?
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 07:10 PM
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53. I have to admit that I have never, ever, even accidentally, heard of degrassi
How long was it on?

And aren't you about the same age as me (late 30s)? Why would I not have heard of it, if you watched it when you were 18?

I remember that shitpot "90210" and the later shitpot "Melrose Place" and that earlier shitpot "30-something". But not "Degrassi".
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Aristus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 09:44 PM
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61. I was 19 and had a major crush on Caitlin!


It was my first exposure to Canadian pop culture and the slightly different way they did things up there. Like saying "Grade 8" instead of "8th Grade". Little things like that.
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MrCoffee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 04:08 PM
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43. Degrassi kicks ass!
that is all.
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 07:00 AM
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18. Loved it then, Love it now
So sue me. :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
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Phillycat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 11:01 AM
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19. I thought it was great.
And I still laugh at the reruns. :D
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 11:12 AM
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21. Why do you hate America? That show is red blooded Americana
like Mom, Apple Pie and Chevrolet.
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Celeborn Skywalker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 11:12 AM
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22. I actually liked it.
But, then again, I'm a weirdo. :P
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ikojo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 11:13 AM
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23. I watched one season of it with a former
friend...I thought it was stupid. Of course I don't have an upper middle class job nor do I live in one of the best cities in the world.

It did seem like they had a prolonged adolescent period but I have a feeling that for a certain strata of American society (namely upper middle class and rich) kids there is a period of prolonged adolescence.
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peekaloo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 11:22 AM
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25. Another reason I like that Bierko guy on 'Boston Legal'
he was originally offered the role of Chandler Bing and turned it down.(so sayeth the Hollyweird grapevine).
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Lady Effingbroke Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 11:23 AM
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26. It's a rather sophomoric show, isn't it? For the record, I think Saved By The Bell is better.
No pretensions there - junior high acting and junior high drama!
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 11:24 AM
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27. I thought it was cute.
I thought it was funny.
I watched when I could when it originally aired and still catch it some times in repeats.

I agree that they never seemed to be working and how they probably couldn't afford their lifestyles but it made me laugh so I watched.
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LynneSin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 11:48 AM
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29. Hey Rabrrrrr - btw, fuck you
Some of us actually enjoy the show. It's brain candy for television. Sometimes I don't want to watch some snooty TV show simply because we progressives are suppose to have some high level of expectations for TV viewing.

I adore the show - I still watch the reruns every night
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cwydro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 11:48 AM
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30. oh wow
my s.o. at the time just LOVED it...and I hated it. Hmmm..maybe THAT'S what happened:shrug:
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liontamer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 02:16 PM
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31. that's what "adults" are like in NY
for another example see Seinfeld. Those shows are actually surprisingly realistic.
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 02:18 PM
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32. Sad, but true - especially the richer ones, who grew up with everything
handed to them and who never really had to mature.

I did meet a lot of adults like the "Friends" characters. And I so often wanted to say, "Dude - you need to grow up. Use your brain. Look at the world around you once in a while."
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WritingIsMyReligion Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 07:37 PM
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58. Ah, but the writing of "Seinfeld" is far more original.
IMHO, of course.

:P
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survivor999 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 02:19 PM
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33. Loved the show.
Oh, sorry, I'm only 20. :)
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 03:15 PM
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38. In it's day it was artistic - character driven comedy
Not really mass produced until Friends.
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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 03:15 PM
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39. Big waste.... I never got it... Matther Perry is the only one
who could act while on that show...
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Pacifist Patriot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 04:05 PM
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42. I'm not terribly impressed by the writing and acting in any sitcoms.
Not since the 80s anyway. Then again, maybe back then I was the right age for them.

Sorry to all you "Will & Grace" fans, but I tried to watch it twice and thought it was about the worst thing I'd ever seen. And it won awards?!
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 04:25 PM
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44. Settle down, Wilford.
You know how crazy these kids today are.

Get 'em on Liberty Medical's mailing list. That'll straighten 'em out.
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 07:12 PM
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54. Screw that. I'm sending them dump trucks worth of oatmeal!
And then I'm taking an axe to 'em.

Eventually, I'll take over their cellular structure as a replicant and absorb their family and friends and try to make a spaceship to fly home.
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northernsoul Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 04:46 PM
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45. I always hated it, too
I'm with you.
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Radical Activist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 04:49 PM
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46. Oh yeah, I'd rather watch another family sitcom
with yet another middle aged fat guy who acts like an idiot/chauvinist and is manipulated by his family for the entire show. Just keep dishing those up because the 12 or so that are always in syndication just isn't enough for me!

I was never a huge fan of Friends but it was more interesting and relevant to young people than most of the sitcoms on TV at the time. That was also part of the appeal of Seinfeld.
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jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 04:49 PM
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47. It was just at its core badly written
The same old Ivy League writer's sitcom that was worn out even before it really got rolling in the late eighties and early nineties.
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Dukkha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 04:53 PM
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48. I saw it once. It made me dumber.
so pointless and banal. the writing was terribly unimaginative in typical sitcom fashion.
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tonekat Donating Member (832 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 05:11 PM
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49. Proud to say I never watched it either
Dumb, unfunny characters I could not possibly care about/identify with.

Come to think of it, I did kind of enjoy a peek at Kathleen Turner playing someone's TG dad, but that was all I've seen.
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HughBeaumont Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 05:22 PM
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50. "Friends" is teh unbelievable suck!!!!1!!1!!
What bourgeois bullshit. Not even remotely funny at all.
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otherlander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 05:23 PM
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51. to tell the truth...
I have trouble thinking of people in the Lounge as adults. I try to make a connection between you guys and the people who tell me what to do at school, but i can't. You guys are way cooler. :7
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 07:13 PM
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55. Thanks! We really are.
That's why the education system, from curricula design to principals to school boards should all be liberals.

Conservative and republicans should be Constitutionally denied access to any input whatsoever to our educational system.
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devilgrrl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 05:24 PM
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52. As hard to believe that a Java Jockey could afford such a nice loft apt.?
That show was silly.
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skygazer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 07:15 PM
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56. I thought it was funny as far as sitcoms go
But then I've never really expected television to mirror reality. Especially sitcoms.
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WritingIsMyReligion Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 07:35 PM
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57. Plus THE. MOST. ANNOYING. THEME. SONG. EVER.
I DESPISE Friends.

:puke:
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 07:41 PM
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59. You constantly give me hope for the future.
Edited on Thu Nov-02-06 07:42 PM by Rabrrrrrr
That you are a young person who understand that "Friends" is a shitpiece, and that you understand the artistic, moral, and ethical bankruptcy of the show, its popularity, and its longevity, and, as you posted above, that you understand that Seinfeld is the absolute opposite of "Friends" in terms of artistry, social commentary, and relevance, just proves that the earth does contain some young people with whom the earth can be entrusted.
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WritingIsMyReligion Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-02-06 08:12 PM
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60. There are a few of us.
:P
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